What is your cup of tea type of guy?


“You couldn’t just pick and choose at will when someone depended on you, or loved you. It wasn’t like a light switch, easy to turn on or off. If you were in, you were in. Out, you were out.”
Sarah Dessen,

“I got my heart’s desire, and there my troubles began.”
Lev Grossman,

“My head’ll explode if I continue with this escapism.”
Jess C Scott,

“I just…I just miss him. And I hate being so alone.”
Suzanne Collins,

“She was a beautiful dreamer. The kind of girl, who kept her head in the clouds, loved above the stars and left regret beneath the earth she walked on.”
robert m drake

“That night when you kissed me, I left a poem in your mouth, and you can hear some of the lines every time you breathe out.”
Andrea Gibson

“Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.”
Alain de Botton

“Submission is not about authority and it is not obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.”
Wm. Paul Young,

“We rip out so much of ourselves to be cured of things faster than we should that we go bankrupt by the age of thirty and have less to offer each time we start with someone new. But to feel nothing so as not to feel anything—what a waste!”
André Aciman,

“Most men claim to desire driven, independent and confident women. Yet when confronted with such a creature reverence often evolves into resent. For just like women, men need to be needed.”
Tiffany Madison

“If equal affection cannot be,
W.H. Auden

“Wanting him to come back before anyone notices part of the world has not moved since he left.”
Brian Andreas

“If a man, who says he loves you, won’t tell you the details of a private conversation between him and another woman you can be sure he is not protecting your heart. He is protecting himself and the women he has feelings for. Wise women simply see things as they are, not as their low self-esteem allows.”
Shannon L. Alder

“An unarticulated crush is very different from an unrequited one, because at least with an unrequited crush you know what the hell you’re doing, even if the other person isn’t doing it back. An unarticulated crush is harder to grapple with, because it’s a crush that you haven’t even admitted to yourself. The romantic forces are all there — you want to see him, you always notice him, you treat every word from him as if it weighs more than anyone else’s. But you don’t know why. You don’t know that you’re doing it. You’d follow him to the end of the earth without ever admitting that your feet were moving.”
David Levithan,

“The reason we all like to think so well of others is that we are all afraid for ourselves. The basis of optimism is sheer terror.”
Oscar Wilde,

“Oh, you know. Jace reminds me of an old boyfriend. Some guys look at you like they want sex. Jace looks at you like you’ve already
Cassandra Clare,

“It’s not your job to like me – it’s mine”
Byron Katie

“It’s hard to communicate anything exactly and that’s why perfect relationships between people are difficult to find.”
Gustave Flaubert,

“Have you ever noticed how parents can go from the most wonderful people in the world to totally embarrassing in three seconds?”
Rick Riordan,

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    What are your standards for being treated in a relationship?

    • It’s an equal relationship, he can treat me like one of the guys if it’s respectful
    • I want to feel pampered and like a princess, he needs to be at my every whim
    • I consider teasing and making fun a form of flirting, so that kind of exchange in a relationship is what I’m looking for
  • Question of

    What would be the perfect gift your boyfriend could give you?

    • A poem, or being serenaded by a sweet song
    • A henna tattoo at the market, matching his
    • Buying me a drink at the bar and taking me out
  • Question of

    What’s the most important thing in a relationship?

    • Having fun and living like there’s no tomorrow
    • Sharing mutual interests and seeing if this could last longer than a fling
    • A chemical attraction is stronger than anything
  • Question of

    Your boyfriend takes you out for dinner but then conveniently ‘loses’ his wallet. How do you react?

    • Pick up the tab this time, but tell him the next one’s on him
    • Pay the bill and then buy him a drink at the club later on, it was an honest mistake
    • Pay the bill and tell him he’s worth every penny, knowing he’ll give you the money back the minute you get home
  • Question of

    You’re in the beginning stages of a new relationship, and you see your guy out with his friends, chatting up a pretty, scantily clad girl out at a club

    • Storm up to him, firing accusations, then have a passionate make up scene when he explains he knew her from middle school and he’s just saying hi
    • Go over to him with a group of your friends, sweetly give him a hug and introduce yourself to the girl
    • Go to the bar, get a guy to buy you a shot and heavily flirt with him in hopes your new guy will look over and get the message to walk away from the girl
  • Question of

    You’ve had a falling out with your best friend over a meaningless issue, your boyfriend picks up on your anger and asks what’s wrong

    • You profess all your problems and give him all the sordid details, knowing he’ll be a shoulder to cry on
    • Tell him nothing’s wrong and grab his hand, he’s not interested in girl dramatics and he’ll be uncomfortable hearing about your petty problems
    • You tell him the bare minimum of details and he offers to start a cruel rumor about her
  • Question of

    It’s Valentines Day/anniversary for you and your boyfriend, and when you see him he doesn’t mention anything planned

    • You keep your mouth shut and do your best not to reveal your disappointment, deep down you know he doesn’t think it is as special as you do
    • Tell him off and complain until he buys you some chocolates at the drug store
    • Hold out that he has a lavish surprise planned, because it’s who he is
  • Question of

    Your boyfriend gives you a rose, kisses you quickly, looks into your eyes.. and says he wants to tell you something. You think he’s going to say:

    • I love you. You’re so happy that it overwhelms you.
    • I got tickets to a concert you may not like, Wanna come, or should I ask my friends?
    • There’s a hot club I wanna hit up with my boys, do you mind if you stay home tonight?
  • Question of

    Who do you feel most comfortable with at a stranger’s party?

    • The guy who says ‘why don’t we escape from all this bullshit and go somewhere where there’s only you and I?’
    • The guy who everyone likes because he’s loud and hilarious
    • The guy who joins the men to talk about politics, latest issues and economies
    • The guy who prioritize you but still, communicate intelligently with others at the same time
  • Question of

    When you’re at your lowest, what will make you feel better?

    • When he says all you got to do is chill and just forget about it
    • When he hugs you in his arms and tell you everything will be okay
    • When he makes you laugh out loud and forget your problem
    • When he touch your face and actually ask you questions to help you solve your problem
  • Question of

    Say you’re nicely dressed for an event or dinner, you want your partner to react by……

    • ‘Oh wow who dat girl! Holy cow people she’s so mine!’ -he loudly screamed
    • ‘My oh my, I can’t believe you’re mine, beautiful’ -he whispered to your ears while smiling widely
    • ‘Damn, I got the most beautiful girlfriend.’ – he flirts you and kiss you, and smile
    • ‘Nice’ – he simply said in a tone but he can’t take his eyes off you
  • Question of

    It’s raining and you’re boring, you will ask him to? (And probably you wish it to be)

    • Coffee while enjoy the raining, some kiss, some tickling, some hugs, and talk about history he loves.
    • You just want to cuddle with him in your bed and probably talk about everything
    • We will play any games? Truth and dare, perhaps and then tickle each other
    • Make out. What else to do if it’s raining?
  • Question of

    When you’re home from a long day, you want someone to…

    • ‘Hey so how was your day? Want me to do anything for you?’ -hugs you and lift you up
    • ‘Oh my baby is home finally!’ – he hugs you tight, make you seat, entertain you with anything
    • ‘Hey babe, home already?’ – smack your ass and kiss you while having his sandwich in his hands
    • ‘Hey love, I missed you, take a good shower and some rest, okay?’ -he kiss your forehead, let you unwind yourself and continue his work
  • Question of

    Probably you fantasized your dream guy to have what job?

    • Singer/Pilot/
    • Doctor/ Engineer/Lecturer/Architect
    • Artist/Composer/Photographer/Chef
    • Lawyer/ Economist/ CEO/ Businessman
  • Question of

    When in an argument, you want a guy who..

    • Shout at you for all your mistakes and never let you say anything he will calm himself later
    • He talks strictly, firmly, emotionally and hold you tight to know that the argument hurts him like hell but you two will get along
    • He will slow talk, calm you two, and discuss nicely
    • He will say nothing about it and just forgive you
  • Question of

    You like it the most when a guy is jealous, he….

    • ‘You know that I’m jealous, right? Baby? Please don’t do it again’ – tolerate with you patiently and hugs you so you know he loves you so much
    • ‘Never mind, I have to talk to other girl too perhaps next time’ – he’s quiet, makes a sad face
    • ‘So….that guy is funnier than me? Now he makes you happier, isn’t it? Okay then!’ – scold you and walk away from you
    • ‘The fuck? That guy? Fuck him.’ – throws stuff at wall, not talking to you for few hours
  • Question of

    On your special day, you want him to….

    • Bring you to luxurious restaurant and give you a gift
    • Bring you to someplace in waterfall where there’s only you and him
    • Bring you to an art exhibition, then at midnight you two walk holding hands to nowhere.
    • Bring you to theme park so you two can enjoy yourselves
  • Question of

    Number one quality you want in a guy?

    • As long as he can make me happy.
    • I want him to make me feel loved and secure.
    • He must accept all my flaws and still, see me as his perfect girl.
    • I want a smart guy who will guide me and make me happy.
  • Question of

    What would your perfect date be?

    • Walk on the beach, talking about your feelings and interests
    • Drinks and going out together with your friends
    • Watch a movie in his basement and listen to music
  • Question of

    What kind of a relationship are you looking for?

    • I want a little danger, I want to feel wanted
    • I want to date, but more having fun and games
    • I want a long-term relationship- I want to find my soul mate

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Your perfect guy