What is your dream high school boyfriend?


“I want to be in a relationship where you telling me you love me is just a ceremonious validation of what you already show me.”
Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free

“Never marry at all, Dorian. Men marry because they are tired, women, because they are curious: both are disappointed.”
Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray

“Man, when you lose your laugh you lose your footing.”
Ken Kesey, One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest

“Every couple needs to argue now and then. Just to prove that the relationship is strong enough to survive. Long-term relationships, the ones that matter, are all about weathering the peaks and the valleys.”
Nicholas Sparks, Safe Haven

“I know enough to know that no woman should ever marry a man who hated his mother.”
Martha Gellhorn, Selected Letters

“Maybe its like you said before, all of us being cracked open. Like each of us starts out as a watertight vessel. And then things happen – these people leave us, or don’t love us, or don’t get us, or we don’t get them, and we lose and fail and hurt one another. And the vessel starts to crack in places. And I mean, yeah once the vessel cracks open, the end becomes inevitable. Once it starts to rain inside the Osprey, it will never be remodeled. But there is all this time between when the cracks start to open up and when we finally fall apart. And its only that time that we see one another, because we see out of ourselves through our cracks and into others through theirs. When did we see each other face to face? Not until you saw into my cracks and I saw into yours. Before that we were just looking at ideas of each other, like looking at your window shade, but never seeing inside. But once the vessel cracks, the light can get in. The light can get out.”
John Green, Paper Towns

“People like to say love is unconditional, but it’s not, and even if it was unconditional, it’s still never free. There’s always an expectation attached. They always want something in return. Like they want you to be happy or whatever and that makes you automatically responsible for their happiness because they won’t be happy unless you are … I just don’t want that responsibility.”
Katja Millay, The Sea of Tranquility

“For there to be betrayal, there would have to have been trust first.”
Suzanne Collins, The Hunger Games

“Even though you may want to move forward in your life, you may have one foot on the brakes. In order to be free, we must learn how to let go. Release the hurt. Release the fear. Refuse to entertain your old pain. The energy it takes to hang onto the past is holding you back from a new life. What is it you would let go of today?”
Mary Manin Morrissey Dairy Queen

“When you don’t talk, there’s a lot of stuff that ends up not getting said.”
Catherine Gilbert Murdock, Venus in Arms

“Usually adult males who are unable to make emotional connections with the women they choose to be intimate with are frozen in time, unable to allow themselves to love for fear that the loved one will abandon them. If the first woman they passionately loved, the mother, was not true to her bond of love, then how can they trust that their partner will be true to love. Often in their adult relationships these men act out again and again to test their partner’s love. While the rejected adolescent boy imagines that he can no longer receive his mother’s love because he is not worthy, as a grown man he may act out in ways that are unworthy and yet demand of the woman in his life that she offer him unconditional love. This testing does not heal the wound of the past, it merely reenacts it, for ultimately the woman will become weary of being tested and end the relationship, thus reenacting the abandonment. This drama confirms for many men that they cannot put their trust in love. They decide that it is better to put their faith in being powerful, in being dominant.”
bell hooks The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember

“To say that one waits a lifetime for his soulmate to come around is a paradox. People eventually get sick of waiting, take a chance on someone, and by the art of commitment become soulmates, which takes a lifetime to perfect.”
Criss Jami, Between the Tides

“Part of the problem with the word ‘disabilities’ is that it immediately suggests an inability to see or hear or walk or do other things that many of us take for granted. But what of people who can’t feel? Or talk about their feelings? Or manage their feelings in constructive ways? What of people who aren’t able to form close and strong relationships? And people who cannot find fulfillment in their lives, or those who have lost hope, who live in disappointment and bitterness and find in life no joy, no love? These, it seems to me, are the real disabilities.”
Fred Rogers, The Fall

“Cheating and lying aren’t struggles, they’re reasons to break up.”
Patti Callahan Henry, Along for the Ride

“Our wounds are often the openings into the best and most beautiful part of us.”
David Richo At First Sight

“I used to advertise my loyalty and I don’t believe there is a single person I loved that I didn’t eventually betray.”
Albert Camus, The Intern

“If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you’re allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind.”
Shannon L. Alder Poems from the Heart

“Relationships dont always make sense. Especially from the outside”
Sarah Dessen, Waiting for You

“Lots of things can be fixed. Things can be fixed. But many times, relationships between people cannot be fixed, because they should not be fixed. You’re aboard a ship setting sail, and the other person has joined the inland circus, or is boarding a different ship, and you just can’t be with each other anymore. Because you shouldn’t be.”
C. JoyBell C. Remember Me

“Every couple has ups and downs, every couple argues, and that’s the thing—you’re a couple, and couples can’t function without trust.”
Nicholas Sparks, The Cocktail Party

“Those sweet lips. My, oh my, I could kiss those lips all night long.
Jess C. Scott, Messages from the Masters: Tapping Into the Power of Love

“I may not always be with you
Marc Wambolt, Straight Up and Dirty

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    What will your dream guy do to tell you how he feels?

    • He would pass me a note during class
    • He would tell me in the field with roses
    • I don’t really care how he does, I will love it
    • He would tell me during lunch time
    • He will ask me if we could talk and tell me somewhere private
  • Question of

    Where would you go on your first date?

    • To a sports game
    • To the beach
    • To the park
    • To a movie
    • We would go to his house to…*AHEM!*You know…
  • Question of

    Where would he first kiss you?

    • I don’t know, anywhere is fine…
    • Under the bleachers…
    • While his sport game…
    • When we are public…
    • When we are alone somewhere…
  • Question of

    How would your dream guy ask you out to the dance?

    • He would pass me a note during class a smile when I see it
    • He would ask me if we could talk and ask me there privately
    • He would take me out on a date at give me a gift, then ask me
    • He would ask everyone to help and then throw a surprise in the hallway
    • He would take me behind the bleachers.We would make out for a while, and then he ask me
  • Question of

    Oh no! Your dream guy just broke up with you and he already regrets it! He tries to ask you for anther chance, but how?

    • He gives you many gifts
    • Even if he does all that, I won’t take him back
    • He gets you to see a note in your locker
    • He ask your friends to help him do a grand gesture
    • He tells you he still loves you and wants you to give him another chance
  • Question of

    What will your dream guy do to make you break up with him?

    • Do something stupid
    • Tell his friends gossip and secrets about me
    • Cheat on me
    • I don’t know, but I better not catch him with that girl at school! So rude!
    • Make fun of my style
  • Question of

    What dress would you wear on your first dance with your dream guy?

    • Sexy, hot and short
    • Pink and pretty, like a princess
    • Dark, cool, but make it formal
    • Stripes and patterns
    • Something my guy thinks is cool
  • Question of

    What is your dream guy’s personality?

    • Smart, kind, and sweet
    • Cool, brave, and a great kisser
    • Strong, brave, and cool
    • All of the above
    • Popular, nice, and hot
  • Question of

    How would you rate this quiz?

    • 2: Okay
    • 4: Really helps
    • 3: Whatever
    • 5: OMG the best
    • 1: Very stupid
  • Question of

    What is your dream man’s favorite food?

    • Sushi
    • Meat and Potatoes
    • Anything Home Cooked
    • Indian Food
    • Haute Cuisine
  • Question of

    What color eyes do you prefer?

    • Blue
    • Brown
    • Green
    • Hazel
    • Colored Contacts
  • Question of

    What is your future boyfriend’s favorite hobby?

    • Weightlifting
    • Playing Sports
    • Writing Poetry
    • Traveling
    • Surfing
  • Question of

    What is your dream man’s favorite dessert?

    • Anything Chocolate
    • Ice Cream
    • Babka
    • Cheesecake
    • Red Velvet Cake
  • Question of

    What color hair do you want your future boyfriend to have?

    • Multicolored
    • Red
    • Brown
    • Blonde
    • Black
  • Question of

    Where would your ideal honeymoon destination be?

    • Jamaica
    • New Zealand
    • Jersey Shore
    • Antarctica
    • Vietnam
  • Question of

    What kind of style should your future boyfriend have?

    • Hipster
    • Gothic
    • Preppy
    • Jock
    • Hippie
  • Question of

    What body type should your dream guy have?

    • Taller
    • Very Muscular
    • Shorter
    • Skinny
    • Fit
  • Question of

    What do you value most in a partner?

    • A Sense of Humor
    • A Great Body
    • A Positive Attitude
    • Good Work Ethic
    • An Adventurous Spirit
  • Question of

    What should your future boyfriend’s #1 priority be?

    • Me!
    • Family
    • Making Money
    • Living Life to the Fullest
    • Staying Healthy
  • Question of

    Where would you like to meet your dream guy?

    • OMG as long as I meet my guy, I don’t really care
    • Lunch or break
    • Maybe walking home…
    • On the football field
    • In class

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