What is your ‘perfect man’?


“Assumptions are the termites of relationships.”
Henry Winkler Song of Solomon

“You know that when I hate you, it is because I love you to a point of passion that unhinges my soul.”
Julie de Lespinasse The Shack

“I love you. I hate you. I like you. I hate you. I love you. I think you’re stupid. I think you’re a loser. I think you’re wonderful. I want to be with you. I don’t want to be with you. I would never date you. I hate you. I love you…..I think the madness started the moment we met and you shook my hand. Did you have a disease or something?”
Shannon L. Alder He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“She was the third beer. Not the first one, which the throat receives with almost tearful gratitude; nor the second, that confirms and extends the pleasure of the first. But the third, the one you drink because it’s there, because it can’t hurt, and because what difference does it make?”
Toni Morrison, Women Who Run With the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype

“I suppose that since most of our hurts come through relationships so will our healing, and I know that grace rarely makes sense for those looking in from the outside.”
Wm. Paul Young, Excuse Me, My Brains Have Stepped Out

“I believe in love the verb, not the noun.”
Greg Behrendt, Rubaiyat

“Sometimes the one who is running from the Life/Death/Life nature insists on thinking of love as a boon only. Yet love in its fullest form is a series of deaths and rebirths. We let go of one phase, one aspect of love, and enter another. Passion dies and is brought back. Pain is chased away and surfaces another time. To love means to embrace and at the same time to withstand many endings, and many many beginnings- all in the same relationship.”
Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“Because introverts are typically good listeners and, at least, have the appearance of calmness, we are attractive to emotionally needy people. Introverts, gratified that other people are initiating with them, can easily get caught in these exhausting and unsatisfying relationships.”
Adam S. McHugh The Rosie Project

“Learn to deal with the fact that you are not a perfect person but you are a person that deserves respect and honesty.”
Pandora Poikilos, Laughable Loves

“To wisely live your life, you don’t need to know much
Omar Khayyám, The Bridges

Marty McConnell Mythology

“I believe in the immeasurable power of love; that true love can endure any circumstance and reach across any distance.”
Steve Maraboli, He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“But why, why, why can’t people just say what they mean?”
Graeme Simsion, Eleanor & Park

“Yes, it’s a well-known fact about you: you’re like death, you take everything.”
Milan Kundera, The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember

“What you want most you push away from you.
Tarjei Vesaas, Tender is the Night & The Last Tycoon

“Love cannot live where there is no trust.”
Edith Hamilton, The Time Traveler’s Wife

“A man is lucky if he is the first love of a woman. A woman is lucky if she is the last love of a man.”
Charles Dickens Looking for Alaska

“The quickest way to rectify that mistake (choosing the wrong person) is by learning from that, moving on, and choosing much more wisely in the future.”
Greg Behrendt, New Order

“You think that holding someone hard will bring them closer. You think that you can hold them so hard that you’ll still feel them, embossed on you, when you pull away.
Rainbow Rowell, The Lover’s Dictionary

“Mutual caring relationships require kindness and patience, tolerance, optimism, joy in the other’s achievements, confidence in oneself, and the ability to give without undue thought of gain.”
Fred Rogers, Love Quotes for the Ages. Specifically Ages 19-91.

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  • Question of

    When you see your ‘perfect’ man, what age is he?

    • Is he 3 or more years older than you?
    • Is he within the age limit of 2 years above or lower than your current age?
    • Is he 3 or more years younger than you?
  • Question of

    Where is your ‘man’ on the social scale?

    • Is he at the top (loved by everyone)?
    • Is he at the bottom (hated by everyone)?
    • Is he smack-dab in the middle (loved and hated by some)?
  • Question of

    Where on the mental scale is your ‘man’?

    • Is he in the middle (smart but not a genius)?
    • Is he at the bottom (a total loser when it comes to school)?
    • Is he at the top (nerd, geek)?
  • Question of

    When on a date you would want your perfect man to be:

    • Shy and quiet, but will be willing to by my food
    • A total kisser, and will be willing to play footsie with me
    • A conversationist and will be willing to hold my hand
  • Question of

    How long do you see you and your ‘man’ staying together?

    • Forever, no matter what he says
    • As long as I get tired of him
    • I’m going to try to make it work for as long a I can
  • Question of

    At school or in your workplace how long do your friends say he stares at you?

    • 10 minutes at the least, until I get the idea he really likes me
    • 1 to 2 minutes, until I looks back at him
    • 2 to 5 seconds as long as I’m doing something cute
  • Question of

    When you see your ‘man’ carry something what is it?

    • Your school work
    • His school work
    • You (to go ride in his awesome car)
  • Question of

    How much ‘looking’ will you allow for your ‘man’?

    • NONE!
    • Only a little bit, but I’ll make sure its not too much
    • Who cares who he looks at?
  • Question of

    At your wedding what is your man wearing?

    • His boxers
    • What ever he looks good in, but must be appropriate for a wedding
    • A traditional tux that matches with my dress
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    • I guess so
    • Yes. Only if I like the results
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