What is your relationship like?


“…the opposite of love is not hate — it’s apathy. It’s not giving a damn. If somebody hates me, they must “feel” something … or they couldn’t possibly hate. Therefore, there’s some way in which I can get to them.”
Leo F. Buscaglia

“No matter how close we are to another person, few human relationships are as free from strife, disagreement, and frustration as is the relationship you have with a good dog. Few human beings give of themselves to another as a dog gives of itself. I also suspect that we cherish dogs because their unblemished souls make us wish – consciously or unconsciously – that we were as innocent as they are, and make us yearn for a place where innocence is universal and where the meanness, the betrayals, and the cruelties of this world are unknown.”
Dean Koontz,

“This love of which I speak is slow to lose patience – it looks for a way of being constructive.
Elisabeth Elliot,

“If a man can possess a woman sexually -really possess- he won’t need to control her ideas, her opinions, her clothes, her friends, even her other lovers.”
Toni Bentley

“I don’t understand dating.. and the other things that people do.. all I know is that you ought to find the one you recognize. The one who gives you four arms, four legs, four eyes, and has the other half of your heart. There’s only one of those, so what are all the other things for? Like dating?”
C. JoyBell C.

“Caring about someone isn’t complicated. It isn’t easy. But it isn’t complicated, either. Kinda like lifting the engine block out of a car.”
Jim Butcher,

“But in the real world, you couldnt really just split a family down the middle, mom on one side, dad the other, with the child equally divided between. It was like when you ripped a piece of paper into two: no matter how you tried, the seams never fit exactly right again. It was what you couldn’t see, those tiniest of pieces, that were lost in the severing, and their absence kept everything from being complete.”
Sarah Dessen,

“I hope we’ll be friends forever, together we’ll always be. I don’t think you understand just how much you mean to me. And one day when we part our ways, we’ll think back to the past and think about how happy we are ’cause our friendship will always last.”
Bridget Davis

“Death is the easy part, the hard part is living and knowing you could be so much more then you’re willing to be.”
robert m drake

“Your absence has not taught me to be alone, it merely has shown that when together we cast a single shadow on the wall.”
Doug Fetherling

“When forever becomes a place…when forever ceases to be just a word… when it ceases to be just a measurement of time…but instead becomes a place where soul mates can dance to the song in their hearts… that is a reflection of true love.”
Steve Maraboli,

“Often men who have been emotionally neglected and abused as children by dominating mothers bond with assertive women, only to have their childhood feelings of being engulfed surface. While they could not ‘smash their mommy’ and still receive love, they find that they can engage in intimate violence with partners who respond to their acting out by trying harder to connect with them emotionally, hoping that the love offered in the present will heal the wounds of the past. If only one party in the relationship is working to create love, to create the space of emotional connection, the dominator model remains in place and the relationship just becomes a site for continuous power struggle.”
bell hooks

“Falling in love in a Christian way is to say,’I am excited about your future and I want to be part of getting you there. I’m signing up for the journey with you. Would you sign up for the journey to my true self with me? It’s going to be hard but I want to get there.”
Timothy Keller

“Husbands are chiefly good as lovers when they are betraying their wives.”
Marilyn Monroe

“We met each other when we were young, before we knew enough about disappointment, and once we did we found we reminded each other of it.”
Nicole Krauss,

“I didn’t know someone could love me like this,” she said. “Could love me and love me and love me without…needing space.”
Rainbow Rowell,

“..he may love you, he may miss you, but ultimately he’s just not that into you.”
Greg Behrendt,

“But whenever I meet dynamic, nonretarded Americans, I notice that they all seem to share a single unifying characteristic: the inability to experience the kind of mind-blowing, transcendent romantic relationship they perceive to be a normal part of living. And someone needs to take the fall for this. So instead of blaming no one for this (which is kind of cowardly) or blaming everyone (which is kind of meaningless), I’m going to blame John Cusack.”
Chuck Klosterman,

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  • Question of

    When you’re getting off the phone with him,

    • He says ‘goodnight, and I’ll talk to you tomorrow’
    • He says ‘goodnight and I love you’
    • He says ‘Gotta go. I might call you back’ (and you can hear his friends laughing in the background)
    • He says ‘Bye,’ and then just hangs up
  • Question of

    You threaten to break up with him

    • He says ‘yeah; you’re right, we shouldn’t be together. Bye’
    • He says ‘it’s your choice, but I hope you have a good reason’
    • He says ‘I know you’re just mad, and no matter how hard you try, I’m not going to let you just break up with me’
    • He says ‘Umm.. I’m busy, can we do this later?’
  • Question of

    When you have a new shirt on that you think you look really sexy in, your boyfriend

    • Smiles really big, and can’t stop talking about how good you look
    • Looks at you and say ‘you look nice’ but makes sure he won’t take you around his family while you’re wearing it
    • Says ‘you look good baby’, but then turns back to finish talking to his buddy
    • licks his lips and probably starts thinking about all the freaky things he wants to do to you
  • Question of

    When you honestly sit down and think about your relationship,

    • You feel content about it, and are pretty happy with the way things are going
    • You feel content about it, but still think that more needs to be done
    • You feel just plain ignored, and know that this thing won’t be lasting much longer
    • You feel okay about it, but know your guy and relationship are not good at all
  • Question of

    How did you find out about him?

    • You were friends first, and then it turned into romance
    • You had a class together
    • A friend hooked you guys up
    • you met him in a public place and exchanged numbers
  • Question of

    How was you first date?

    • You guys went to a sports game together
    • You grabbed a bite to eat and then did some other various activity
    • you went to a neighborhood party
    • you hung out with him and his friends
  • Question of

    If he went away for a summer program for three weeks, he would call you

    • you as much as possible
    • when everyone else was making phone calls (so that he wouldn’t feel left out)
    • as soon as he wasn’t busy
    • like only one time the entire time he was there or not at all
  • Question of

    For your 6 month anniversary

    • He would give you an early present, but forget to call you
    • wouldn’t even acknowledge the fact that you two had an anniversary
    • He would remember, but take you somewhere where all his buddies were hanging out too
    • He would invite you to dinner with his family
  • Question of

    During the school year,

    • He’s really focused on school and only hangs out with you when he isn’t feeling bust or stressed
    • He’s always ditching to hang out with his homies
    • He balances school, you, and family time pretty well
    • He goes to another school, and he probably has a girlfriend at that school
  • Question of

    On the holidays,

    • He spends time with his family, but promises that he’ll spend time with you some time over the vacation
    • Hangs out with his friend’s family
    • doesn’t even call you, because he doesn’t think holidays is a time to spend with you
    • Likes to spend time with you (if you’re available) or his family

What type of couple are you? (for girls)

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