What is yours and you’re crushes compatibility?

 

“Assumptions are the termites of relationships.”
Henry Winkler Song of Solomon

“You know that when I hate you, it is because I love you to a point of passion that unhinges my soul.”
Julie de Lespinasse The Shack

“I love you. I hate you. I like you. I hate you. I love you. I think you’re stupid. I think you’re a loser. I think you’re wonderful. I want to be with you. I don’t want to be with you. I would never date you. I hate you. I love you…..I think the madness started the moment we met and you shook my hand. Did you have a disease or something?”
Shannon L. Alder He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“She was the third beer. Not the first one, which the throat receives with almost tearful gratitude; nor the second, that confirms and extends the pleasure of the first. But the third, the one you drink because it’s there, because it can’t hurt, and because what difference does it make?”
Toni Morrison, Women Who Run With the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype

“I suppose that since most of our hurts come through relationships so will our healing, and I know that grace rarely makes sense for those looking in from the outside.”
Wm. Paul Young, Excuse Me, My Brains Have Stepped Out

“I believe in love the verb, not the noun.”
Greg Behrendt, Rubaiyat

“Sometimes the one who is running from the Life/Death/Life nature insists on thinking of love as a boon only. Yet love in its fullest form is a series of deaths and rebirths. We let go of one phase, one aspect of love, and enter another. Passion dies and is brought back. Pain is chased away and surfaces another time. To love means to embrace and at the same time to withstand many endings, and many many beginnings- all in the same relationship.”
Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“Because introverts are typically good listeners and, at least, have the appearance of calmness, we are attractive to emotionally needy people. Introverts, gratified that other people are initiating with them, can easily get caught in these exhausting and unsatisfying relationships.”
Adam S. McHugh The Rosie Project

“Learn to deal with the fact that you are not a perfect person but you are a person that deserves respect and honesty.”
Pandora Poikilos, Laughable Loves

“To wisely live your life, you don’t need to know much
Omar Khayyám, The Bridges


Marty McConnell Mythology

“I believe in the immeasurable power of love; that true love can endure any circumstance and reach across any distance.”
Steve Maraboli, He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“But why, why, why can’t people just say what they mean?”
Graeme Simsion, Eleanor & Park

“Yes, it’s a well-known fact about you: you’re like death, you take everything.”
Milan Kundera, The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember

“What you want most you push away from you.
Tarjei Vesaas, Tender is the Night & The Last Tycoon

“Love cannot live where there is no trust.”
Edith Hamilton, The Time Traveler’s Wife

“The quickest way to rectify that mistake (choosing the wrong person) is by learning from that, moving on, and choosing much more wisely in the future.”
Greg Behrendt, Looking for Alaska

“A man is lucky if he is the first love of a woman. A woman is lucky if she is the last love of a man.”
Charles Dickens New Order

“You think that holding someone hard will bring them closer. You think that you can hold them so hard that you’ll still feel them, embossed on you, when you pull away.
Rainbow Rowell, The Lover’s Dictionary

“Mutual caring relationships require kindness and patience, tolerance, optimism, joy in the other’s achievements, confidence in oneself, and the ability to give without undue thought of gain.”
Fred Rogers, Love Quotes for the Ages. Specifically Ages 19-91.

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    How do you feel when your crush is around?

    • Hot and sweaty.
    • Shy.
    • Giddy.
    • Silly.
  • Question of

    Which of your crush’s physical features do you find most attractive?

    • Eyes.
    • Bosom.
    • Bottom.
    • Abs.
  • Question of

    What personality trait do you find most likable in others?

    • Honesty.
    • Openness.
    • Friendliness.
    • Loyalty.
  • Question of

    Have you had physical contact with your crush?

    • That’s my business.
    • We haven’t had any physical contact.
    • I wish!
    • We have brushed up against one another.
  • Question of

    Does your best friend know about your crush?

    • My best friend knows all about it.
    • I haven’t told anyone.
    • I think my best friend suspects something.
    • My best friend knows a little about it.
  • Question of

    How would you feel if you found out your crush doesn’t like you?

    • I would be crushed.
    • I’ll find a new crush.
    • I would get on with life.
    • I’ll cry for a week.
  • Question of

    Where do you see yourself in five years?

    • I’m hoping to get married.
    • I’m hoping to have children.
    • I’m hoping to be moving up my career ladder.
    • I’m hoping to relocate by then.
  • Question of

    Have you thought about telling your crush how you feel?

    • I’ve considered it.
    • I get ill when I think about it.
    • I’m not that bold.
    • I’ve dropped subtle hints.
  • Question of

    Do you know your crush’s astrology sign?

    • I know their birthdate.
    • I haven’t gotten that far yet.
    • I don’t believe in that stuff.
    • I would love to know.
  • Question of

    Do you follow your crush on social media?

    • I do.
    • I do not.
    • My crush follows me.
    • I don’t use social media much.
  • Question of

    If your crush kissed you, what would you do?

    • I would faint.
    • I would jump their bones.
    • I would kiss them back.
    • I would not be able to stop smiling.
  • Question of

    Do you believe in love at first sight?

    • I don’t rule it out.
    • I think love takes a lot more work than that.
    • I believe in lust as first sight.
    • I certainly do.
  • Question of

    Do you believe in soulmates?

    • I don’t believe in soulmates.
    • My best friend is my soulmate.
    • I hope I have a soulmate out there.
    • I believe we have many soulmates.
  • Question of

    Do you flirt with your crush?

    • I’ve tried.
    • I could never do that.
    • I flirt with everyone.
    • I’ve totally flirted with my crush.
  • Question of

    Where would you most like to take your crush on a first date?

    • The beach.
    • A fancy restaurant.
    • A concert.
    • A party.
  • Question of

    Are you the kiss and tell type?

    • I kiss and tell my best friend.
    • I keep my affairs private.
    • I would kiss and tell my coworkers.
    • It depends how good the kiss is.
  • Question of

    Would you be open to a one-night stand with your crush?

    • I want more stands than that.
    • I would go for it.
    • It’s a tempting offer.
    • I’m not into one-night stands.
  • Question of

    When you are caught staring at your crush by your crush. What happens?

    • You are both caught in a stare staring into each other’s eyes and it takes a while until someone looks away
    • You look away quickly
    • You stare for a few seconds and then you look away
    • He stares and then looks away
  • Question of

    How often do you both talk to each other?

    • Everyday but only through text
    • Never
    • Once a week
    • Once in a while
    • Everyday a face to face proper conversation
  • Question of

    How much do you like/love him?

    • Quite a lot
    • Only a little, you’ve only liked him for a short time
    • I don’t even know if I like him yet!
    • 100% like him, he means the world to me
  • Question of

    How much do you think he likes you?

    • A little bit
    • Kinda a lot
    • A lot him and his friends tell me everyday
    • Not at all
    • I don’t know
  • Question of

    Do you both have things in common?

    • We are the complete opposite on things we like to do
    • A lot we both love sports and play the same stuff
    • I few things like the same sets for lessons so we get the same grades and stuff
  • Question of

    How much do you think about him?

    • Only when I get a message from him etc
    • Never
    • EVERY SINGLE SECOND OF EVERY SINGLE HOUR!
    • Not much
    • Everyday
  • Question of

    Do you guys hang out?

    • Yeah everyday
    • Once or twice a week at school and stuff
    • We never have I’m too scared he wouldn’t want to
  • Question of

    How long have you known each other?

    • We’ve known each other our whole lives since we were babies because our parents are like besties
    • Only a few months
    • A few years
    • A week
  • Question of

    What you ever ask him out?

    • Yeah I’m quite a confident gall
    • Maybe:
    • If I had my best friend to help me
    • Never
  • Question of

    If you told him you liked him what would his reaction be?

    • Be happy and tell you that he likes you back
    • He would probably laugh and then tell everyone and make fun of me
    • Tell you that he always knew you did
    • Walk away
  • Question of

    Do you work with your crush?

    • We do work together.
    • My crush visits my job.
    • We do not work together.
    • I go to where my crush works sometimes.
  • Question of

    How would your most recent ex describe you?

    • Wild.
    • Sweet.
    • High maintenance.
    • Goofy.
  • Question of

    Have you had a lot of long-term relationships?

    • I have only had one.
    • I’ve had a couple.
    • I have never had a long-term relationship.
    • I’ve had a few.

How compatible are you as a couple?

Are you a cute or compatible as a couple?