What Kind Of Guy Am I Attracted To?


“Hugh and I have been together for so long that in order to arouse extraordinary passion, we need to engage in physical combat. Once, he hit me on the back of the head with a broken wineglass, and I fell to the floor pretending to be unconscious. That was romantic, or would have been had he rushed to my side rather than stepping over my body to fetch the dustpan.”
David Sedaris, Dress Your Family in Corduroy and Denim

“If I never see you again
Charles Bukowski, Living on Luck

“Maybe you could be mine / or maybe we’ll be entwined / aimless in this sexless foreplay.”
Jess C Scott, EyeLeash: A Blog Novel

“You can be in love and you can be in a relationship. But they’re not always the same thing.”
pleasefindthis, I Wrote This For You

“Being single doesn’t mean you’re weak, it means that you’re strong enough to wait for the right person.”
Niall Horan I Wrote This For You

“I could’ve sworn I was telling the truth when I told you I didn’t miss you.”
pleasefindthis, The Shack

“All I want from you is to trust me with what little you can, and grow in loving people around you with the same love I share with you. It’s not your job to change them, or to convince them. You are free to love without an agenda.”
Wm. Paul Young, The Ministry of Fear

“But it is impossible to go through life without trust; that is to be imprisoned in the worst cell of all, oneself.”
Graham Greene, The Bed of Procrustes: Philosophical and Practical Aphorisms

“Love without sacrifice is like theft”
Nassim Nicholas Taleb, The Gifts of Imperfection

“The most important relationship in your life is the relationship you have with yourself. Because no matter what happens, you will always be with yourself.”
Diane Von Furstenberg Wealth for All: Living a Life of Success at the Edge of Your Ability

“When we fail to set boundaries and hold people accountable, we feel used and mistreated. This is why we sometimes attack who they are, which is far more hurtful than addressing a behavior or a choice.”
Brené Brown, The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“Love lasts about seven years. That’s how long it takes for the cells of the body to totally replace themselves.”
Francois Sagan Finding True Love: The 4 Essential Keys to Bring You the Love of Your Life

“Everything you want in life is a relationship away.”
Idowu Koyenikan, The Science of Single: One Woman’s Grand Experiment in Modern Dating, Creating Chemistry, and Finding L ove

“Single is no longer a lack of options – but a choice. A choice to refuse to let your life be defined by your relationship status but to live every day Happily and let your Ever After work itself out.”
Mandy Hale, Little Women

“Ultimately the bond of all companionship, whether in marriage or in friendship, is conversation, and conversation must have a common basis, and between two people of widely different culture the only common basis possible is the lowest level.”
Oscar Wilde Lullaby

“Sometimes the most beautiful people are beautifully broken.”
robert m drake The Lucky One

“Be sure it’s your real self you’re showing. Because it is your real self that needs to be loved.”
Daphne Rose Kingma, 300 Questions LDS Couples Should Ask Before Marriage

“I believe with all my heart that the cliches are true, that we are our own best friends and best company, and that if you’re not right for yourself, it’s impossible to be right for anyone.”
Rachel Machacek, From Within I Rise: Spiritual Triumph Over Death and Conscious Encounters with “The Divine Presence”

“She preferred imaginary heroes to real ones, because when tired of them, the former could be shut up in the tin kitchen till called for, and the latter were less manageable.”
Louisa May Alcott, Sex, Drugs, and Cocoa Puffs: A Low Culture Manifesto

“How could you love us being together?” he asked me “We are nothing alike and we are not meant for each other and we drive each other crazy, you love that? How can you love that?” So I told him “I know that we’re not meant for each other, that we drive each other crazy, and that we are so different. But that’s us. That’s what we have; a wild nonsense. We are not good together, but together we are bad for each other. I love us together this way just like this. Because even if it’s no good, it’s what we have! It’s us.”
C. JoyBell C. Heart of the Matter

“No matter how much you love someone, you still want to have you own way.”
Chuck Palahniuk, Love Quotes for the Ages. Specifically Ages 19-91.

“Every now and then, I’d meet a guy and think that we were getting along great, and suddenly I’d stop hearing from him. Not only did he stop calling, but if I happened to bump into him sometime later he always acted like I had the plague. I didn’t understand it. I still don’t. And it bothered me. It hurt me. With time, it got harder and harder to keep blaming the guys, and I eventually came to the conclusion that there was something wrong with me. That maybe I was simply meant to live my life alone.”
Nicholas Sparks, I Had a Dream About You

“Sometimes to self-discover you must self-destruct.”
robert m drake I Had a Dream About You

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    When you’ve been attracted to a dangerous kind of guy, did you already know he wasn’t quite like the others?

    • Yes
    • I had a vague idea, but wasn’t sure
    • No
  • Question of

    What would intrigue you most about a man?

    • He’s polite and knows how to treat a girl well
    • How he says nothing about himself, and is mysterious
    • How popular he is amongst his friends
  • Question of

    He drives a:

    • A Maruti Swift
    • A black motorcycle with an all-black crash helmet
    • He takes the bus or metro
  • Question of

    His voice is:

    • Deep, when he ever does talk, and his looks are powerful enough to stop the heart
    • Pretty high, but it’s OK
    • Warm and protective
  • Question of

    What would you like his kiss to be like?

    • Short, but passionate, with tongue
    • Long, slow, and sweet, with my back bent, and his arm supporting me
    • Slow, and hesitant at first, but deepening to desperation
  • Question of

    How would you like to meet him?

    • I’d see him in the corner of a bookstore, his hair falling into his eyes while reading a book with blood on the front
    • In a restaurant – our eyes would meet across the room and there’d be magic
    • I would need help with my school/office work and he’d be there – ready to help
  • Question of

    You’re the kind of woman who:

    • Likes her man to be strong and protective
    • Likes a man who believes I can take care of myself
    • Likes her man to be sensitive to her needs
  • Question of

    Your dream man – what drives his passion?

    • Adventure – he’s the kind of guy who’ll jump off a cliff, go sky-diving. He’s totally fearless
    • His motorbikes – he’s always scrubbing and polishing them
    • He loves all sports – especially football and cricket
  • Question of

    What type of body do you like best?

    • Muscular but lean
    • I don’t mind the skinny sort as long as he’s got brains
    • Beefed up – I love big muscles!
  • Question of

    What type of hair do you like best?

    • Short, light brown hair
    • Bald – I love men who shave off all their hair
    • Medium-length black hair that falls into black eyes

What’s your type?

What Type of Guy Do I Like?