What Kind of Love Are You In?


“When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.”
Jess C. Scott,

“I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.”
Lisa Kleypas,

“Indifference and neglect often do much more damage than outright dislike.”
J.K. Rowling,

“I think you still love me, but we can’t escape the fact that I’m not enough for you. I knew this was going to happen. So I’m not blaming you for falling in love with another woman. I’m not angry, either. I should be, but I’m not. I just feel pain. A lot of pain. I thought I could imagine how much this would hurt, but I was wrong.”
Haruki Murakami,

“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.”
Carl Gustav Jung

“A guy and a girl can be just friends, but at one point or another, they will fall for each other…Maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late, or maybe forever”
Dave Matthews Band

“You can talk with someone for years, everyday, and still, it won’t mean as much as what you can have when you sit in front of someone, not saying a word, yet you feel that person with your heart, you feel like you have known the person for forever…. connections are made with the heart, not the tongue.”
C. JoyBell C.

“For the two of us, home isn’t a place. It is a person. And we are finally home.”
Stephanie Perkins,

“Man may have discovered fire, but women discovered how to play with it.”
Candace Bushnell,

“It hurts to let go. Sometimes it seems the harder you try to hold on to something or someone the more it wants to get away. You feel like some kind of criminal for having felt, for having wanted. For having wanted to be wanted. It confuses you, because you think that your feelings were wrong and it makes you feel so small because it’s so hard to keep it inside when you let it out and it doesn’t coma back. You’re left so alone that you can’t explain. Damn, there’s nothing like that, is there? I’ve been there and you have too. You’re nodding your head.”
Henry Rollins,

“We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: it’s got to be the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.”
Andrew Boyd,

“Well, it seems to me that the best relationships – the ones that last – are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is… suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with.”
Gillian Anderson

“The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.”
Ernest Hemingway,

“I mean, if the relationship can’t survive the long term, why on earth would it be worth my time and energy for the short term?”
Nicholas Sparks,

“Why is it,” he said, one time, at the subway entrance, “I feel I’ve known you so many years?”
Ray Bradbury,

“When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.”
Donald Miller,

“Every man I meet wants to protect me. I can’t figure out what from.”
Mae West

“There is greatness in doing something you hate for the sake of someone you love.”
Shmuley Boteach

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    When you look at this person, what do you hear?

    • Nothing but their voice
    • My heavy breathing
    • Music
    • The annoying sounds of the world
  • Question of

    Do you think that this person feels the same for you?

    • I certainly hope so.
    • I doubt it.
    • I know for a fact they do.
    • No, definitely not.
  • Question of

    What are you doing when you think about this person?

    • Eating
    • Showering
    • Shopping
    • Watching Netflix
  • Question of

    When this person smiles at you, how do you feel?

    • Like I’m gonna melt
    • Like I want to kiss them
    • Like everything is right
    • Like I’m going to vomit
  • Question of

    Have you ever considered asking this person out?

    • Every day, but I’m afraid they won’t say yes.
    • Once in a while
    • We’re already together.
    • Not really
  • Question of

    If they gave a wrong answer to a question you asked, what would you do?

    • Pretend they are right
    • Tell them the right answer
    • Teach them what’s right
    • Tell them they’re wrong
  • Question of

    How long can you go without seeing this person before you miss them?

    • One minute, tops
    • I can always see them in my mind.
    • About an hour
    • Two weeks
  • Question of

    Would you ever buy this person a present, and not tell them it was from you?

    • Yes, I do all the time.
    • Probably not.
    • I would, but eventually I’d tell them it was me.
    • No, that sounds like a terrible idea.
  • Question of

    Did anything change when you met this person?

    • The way I look at love
    • The way I look at beauty
    • The way I hear music
    • Nothing changed at all
  • Question of

    How do you think your family will respond to this person?

    • I don’t really care what they think.
    • They’d be impressed with how beautiful this person is.
    • They’ve already responded positively.
    • I’d never introduce them to my family.
  • Question of

    When you think about your future with this person, what are you two doing?

    • Kissing
    • Making babies
    • Getting married
    • Traveling together
  • Question of

    Have you told your friends how you feel about this person?

    • Yes, they think I’m crazy.
    • No, they don’t care.
    • Yes, they know all about this person.
    • No, it’s none of their business.
  • Question of

    If this person asked you out on a date, where would you want to go?

    • A nice restaurant
    • A hotel
    • A movie
    • Some place cheap
  • Question of

    Do you ever get bored with this person?

    • No, never
    • Not really
    • Yes, but it’s all good
    • Only when they talk
  • Question of

    Would you consider yourself in love with this person?

    • Yes, but it might just be a crush.
    • Nah, but I’d like to be in love with them.
    • Yes, very much so.
    • No, and I don’t really care to be.

How deep is your love?

What Kind of Love Are You In?