What kind of lover are you?

 

“If you need something from somebody always give that person a way to hand it to you.”
Sue Monk Kidd, The Secret Life of Bees

“This is what happened in love. One of you cried a lot and then both of you grew sarcastic.”
Lorrie Moore, Like Life

“Do you know what it means to come home at night to a woman who’ll give you a little love, a little affection, a little tenderness? It means you’re in the wrong house, that’s what it means.”
Henny Youngman A Wild Sheep Chase

“Most everything you think you know about me is nothing more than memories.”
Haruki Murakami, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“When you hold a grudge, you want someone else’s sorrow to reflect your level of hurt but the two rarely meet.”
Steve Maraboli, Dead to the World

“It’s probably a bad indicator of your lifestyle when you miss your ex-boyfriend because he’s absolutely lethal.”
Charlaine Harris, The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“A busy, vibrant, goal-oriented woman is so much more attractive than a woman who waits around for a man to validate her existence.”
Mandy Hale, It’s Not Summer Without You

“That’s when I finally got it. I finally understood. It wasn’t the thought that counted. It was the actual execution that mattered, the showing up for somebody. The intent behind it wasn’t enough. Not for me. Not anymore. It wasn’t enough to know that deep down, he loved me. You had to actually say it to somebody, show them you cared. And he just didn’t. Not enough.”
Jenny Han, Why Things Burn

“When you loved someone and had to let them go, there will always be that small part of yourself that whispers, “What was it that you wanted and why didn’t you fight for it?”
Shannon L. Alder The Valkyries

“I define connection as the energy that exists between people when they feel seen, heard, and valued; when they can give and receive without judgment; and when they derive sustenance and strength from the relationship.”
Brené Brown Excuse Me, My Brains Have Stepped Out

“you can take this mouth
Daphne Gottlieb, You Are Worthless: Depressing Nuggets of Wisdom Sure to Ruin Your Day

“He knew one of the women well, and had shared his universe with her. They had seen the same mountains, and the same trees, although each of them had seem them differently. She knew his weaknesses, his moments of hatred, of despair. Yet she was there at his side. They shared the same universe.”
Paulo Coelho, I’ll Give You the Sun

“The best relationships in our lives are the best not because they have been the happiest ones, they are that way because they have stayed strong through the most tormentful of storms.”
Pandora Poikilos, Where She Went

“Statistically speaking, there is a 65 percent chance that the love of your life is having an affair. Be very suspicious.”
Scott Dikkers, EyeLeash: A Blog Novel

“People die, I think, but your relationship with them doesn’t. It continues and is ever-changing.”
Jandy Nelson, Watermelon

“There are so many things that demand to be said. Where did you go? Do you ever think about me? You’ve ruined me. Are you okay? But of course, I can’t say any of that.”
Gayle Forman, Survivor

“V-Day…if you need this one day in a year to show everyone else you truly care for “your loved one” I think it’s quite stupid. I hate this commercialism. It’s all artificial, and has nothing to do with real love.”
Jess C Scott, Bridget Jones’s Diary

“Failed relationships can be described as so much wasted make-up.”
Marian Keyes, The Lover’s Dictionary

“Six hundred and forty fish later, the only thing I know is everything you love will die. The first time you meet someone special, you can count on them one day being dead and in the ground.”
Chuck Palahniuk, Safe Haven

“A true gentleman is one that apologizes anyways, even though he has not offended a lady intentionally. He is in a class all of his own because he knows the value of a woman’s heart.”
Shannon Alder A Supposedly Fun Thing I’ll Never Do Again: Essays and Arguments

“When you struggle with your partner, you are struggling with yourself. Every fault you see in them touches a denied weakness in yourself.”
Deepak Chopra The Fault in Our Stars

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    What are your best qualities out of the following?

    • Gentle and kind
    • Aggressive and protective
    • Helpful and sweet
    • Brave and independent
  • Question of

    Choose a movie genre for a first date?

    • Romantic
    • Documentary
    • Comedy
    • Horror
  • Question of

    Pick a restaurant for after the movie.

    • Hooters
    • A restaurant by the beach
    • Five sails restaurant
    • Wendy’s
  • Question of

    You and your date get to your porch, what do you do?

    • Little kiss
    • Hug or shake hands. too awkward
    • Full out make out session
    • Vomit. too much alcohol
  • Question of

    Your special someone asks you for a second date, but you have an important event. what’s your excuse?

    • Say yes and miss the event
    • Tell them and reschedule
    • Say you can’t that day and let them reschedule
    • Tell them you don’t want to
  • Question of

    Choose a no money activity for your second date.

    • Beach day
    • Cuddle on couch and movie marathon
    • Candle light dinner at home
    • Hangout with your friends (and special someone)
  • Question of

    Weeks later they asks you to be their partner.(girlfriend/boyfriend etc.) your reaction

    • Ewww
    • Oh my goodness, yes, thank you god
    • Stay cool stay cool
    • Oh my goodness, yes
  • Question of

    What do you look for in a partner

    • Romance and honesty
    • Free food
    • Kind and caring
    • Sex and excitement
  • Question of

    Something happens and you break up. how do you react?

    • Beg
    • Who cares if they wanted me they would stay
    • ‘asshole’
    • ‘baby please I’m sorry, I love you’
  • Question of

    What is your preferred gender pronouns?

    • Who cares
    • He/him
    • She/her
    • They/them
  • Question of

    Where did you two meet?

    • At a party
    • At a restaurant
    • At work
    • On vacation
  • Question of

    How would you describe your relationship?

    • Fairytale
    • Adventurous
    • Passionate
    • Deep
  • Question of

    What word best describes your significant other?

    • Funny
    • Brave
    • Sexy
    • Stubborn
  • Question of

    What is the most important thing in a relationship?

    • Compatibility
    • Communication
    • Respect
    • Trust
  • Question of

    Do you fall in love easily?

    • Definitely
    • No
    • Yes
    • Depends
  • Question of

    The perfect date for you would be:

    • Going to a new museum or bar
    • Ordering takeout and spending the night in bed
    • Going to a new restaurant
    • Going hiking
  • Question of

    Which of these pet names would you call your other half?

    • Baby
    • Love
    • Honey
    • Pumpkin
  • Question of

    Do you two want children?

    • Yes
    • Not on our radar yet
    • No
    • You mean more?
  • Question of

    Do you want to get married?

    • Yes
    • No
    • Absolutely
    • Maybe
  • Question of

    25 years from now, you would like:

    • To be married with kids (and hopefully grandkids)
    • To be traveling the world with my love
    • To have a very active sex life
    • To live a quiet and simple life with my significant other

What type of lover are you? (For people in relationships)

What kind of girlfriend are you?