What Kind of Man Does Your Heart Need?

 

 

Cotard Delusion

This one might seem absurd but to us seems really disturbing. Named after Jules Cotard, a neurologist who first described the disorder in 1880; this involves the patient to believe that they are literally either The Walking Dead or a ghost. This might not seem scary but in all honesty, it is as the patient believes their body is decaying and they are losing blood. The ones suffering from this are depresses and eventually end up starving themselves to death. Fortunately, this is a highly rare condition and the most well-known case was of Cotard Delusion was in Haiti where a man was convinced he died of AIDS and was in Hell.

Diogenes Syndrome

Diogenes Syndrome is by far one of the most misunderstood disorders of all. Used to describe people with a desire to collect random items to which they have an emotional attachment, in short hoarders. The ironic bit is that the name comes from the Greek philosopher Diogenes of Sinope who was a minimalist. The ones suffering from his disorder often showcase emotions of extreme self-neglect towards either themselves or others, social withdrawal and no shame for their habits. This condition is common among older people especially those with dementia and the ones who were either abandoned or lacked a consistent homely atmosphere.

“To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact you must give it to no one, not even an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements. Lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket, safe, dark, motionless, airless, it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable. To love is to be vulnerable.”
― C.S. Lewis, The Four Loves

“I’ve been making a list of the things they don’t teach you at school. They don’t teach you how to love somebody. They don’t teach you how to be famous. They don’t teach you how to be rich or how to be poor. They don’t teach you how to walk away from someone you don’t love any longer. They don’t teach you how to know what’s going on in someone else’s mind. They don’t teach you what to say to someone who’s dying. They don’t teach you anything worth knowing.”
― Neil Gaiman, The Kindly Ones

“So it’s not gonna be easy. It’s going to be really hard; we’re gonna have to work at this everyday, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, everyday. You and me… everyday.”
― Nicholas Sparks, The Notebook


“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Aside from a man, what else does your heart really want?

    • Confidence
    • Money
    • Friends
    • Success
  • Question of

    What is your idea of a perfect first date?

    • Concert
    • Restaurant
    • Beach
    • Movies
  • Question of

    How many relationships have you been in so far?

    • One
    • Two
    • None
    • Three or more
  • Question of

    What’s your biggest relationship pet peeve?

    • Being with someone who is stubborn
    • Being with someone who is lazy
    • Being with someone who is mean
    • Being with someone who lacks confidence
  • Question of

    How do you normally approach conflicts in life?

    • By laughing them off
    • By facing them directly
    • By putting them off until later
    • By walking away from them
  • Question of

    What matters more to you: looks or personality?

    • Something else
    • Both
    • Personality
    • Looks
  • Question of

    Have you ever been in love before?

    • Yes, a few times
    • Just once
    • No, never
    • I’m not really sure.
  • Question of

    Which of these personal values lies in your heart the most?

    • Compassion
    • Ambition
    • Hope
    • Courage
  • Question of

    Do you want to get married one day?

    • Yes, but not for a long time.
    • I’m not sure yet.
    • Absolutely
    • No, probably not.
  • Question of

    How do you feel about long-distance relationships?

    • It depends on the relationship.
    • I personally like them.
    • I don’t mind them.
    • I hate them.
  • Question of

    What does ‘the spark’ in a relationship feel like to you?

    • Like a volcano erupting
    • Like a warm feeling
    • Like fireworks
    • Like nothing
  • Question of

    On a scale of 1-10, how much confidence does your heart have?

    • 4-6
    • 7-8
    • 1-3
    • 9-10
  • Question of

    Would you be able to look past your significant other’s flaws?

    • Most likely
    • It depends on their flaws.
    • Of course
    • No, probably not
  • Question of

    How would you describe your inner personality?

    • Adventurous
    • Hard-working
    • Friendly
    • Charismatic
  • Question of

    Would you want to kiss on a first date?

    • It depends on the moment.
    • Maybe
    • No way
    • Sure, why not?

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