What Kind of Person Are You Compatible With?

 

“…the opposite of love is not hate — it’s apathy. It’s not giving a damn. If somebody hates me, they must “feel” something … or they couldn’t possibly hate. Therefore, there’s some way in which I can get to them.”
Leo F. Buscaglia

“No matter how close we are to another person, few human relationships are as free from strife, disagreement, and frustration as is the relationship you have with a good dog. Few human beings give of themselves to another as a dog gives of itself. I also suspect that we cherish dogs because their unblemished souls make us wish – consciously or unconsciously – that we were as innocent as they are, and make us yearn for a place where innocence is universal and where the meanness, the betrayals, and the cruelties of this world are unknown.”
Dean Koontz,

“This love of which I speak is slow to lose patience – it looks for a way of being constructive.
Elisabeth Elliot,

“If a man can possess a woman sexually -really possess- he won’t need to control her ideas, her opinions, her clothes, her friends, even her other lovers.”
Toni Bentley

“I don’t understand dating.. and the other things that people do.. all I know is that you ought to find the one you recognize. The one who gives you four arms, four legs, four eyes, and has the other half of your heart. There’s only one of those, so what are all the other things for? Like dating?”
C. JoyBell C.

“Caring about someone isn’t complicated. It isn’t easy. But it isn’t complicated, either. Kinda like lifting the engine block out of a car.”
Jim Butcher,

“But in the real world, you couldnt really just split a family down the middle, mom on one side, dad the other, with the child equally divided between. It was like when you ripped a piece of paper into two: no matter how you tried, the seams never fit exactly right again. It was what you couldn’t see, those tiniest of pieces, that were lost in the severing, and their absence kept everything from being complete.”
Sarah Dessen,

“I hope we’ll be friends forever, together we’ll always be. I don’t think you understand just how much you mean to me. And one day when we part our ways, we’ll think back to the past and think about how happy we are ’cause our friendship will always last.”
Bridget Davis

“Death is the easy part, the hard part is living and knowing you could be so much more then you’re willing to be.”
robert m drake

“Your absence has not taught me to be alone, it merely has shown that when together we cast a single shadow on the wall.”
Doug Fetherling

“When forever becomes a place…when forever ceases to be just a word… when it ceases to be just a measurement of time…but instead becomes a place where soul mates can dance to the song in their hearts… that is a reflection of true love.”
Steve Maraboli,

“Often men who have been emotionally neglected and abused as children by dominating mothers bond with assertive women, only to have their childhood feelings of being engulfed surface. While they could not ‘smash their mommy’ and still receive love, they find that they can engage in intimate violence with partners who respond to their acting out by trying harder to connect with them emotionally, hoping that the love offered in the present will heal the wounds of the past. If only one party in the relationship is working to create love, to create the space of emotional connection, the dominator model remains in place and the relationship just becomes a site for continuous power struggle.”
bell hooks

“Falling in love in a Christian way is to say,’I am excited about your future and I want to be part of getting you there. I’m signing up for the journey with you. Would you sign up for the journey to my true self with me? It’s going to be hard but I want to get there.”
Timothy Keller

“Husbands are chiefly good as lovers when they are betraying their wives.”
Marilyn Monroe

“We met each other when we were young, before we knew enough about disappointment, and once we did we found we reminded each other of it.”
Nicole Krauss,

“I didn’t know someone could love me like this,” she said. “Could love me and love me and love me without…needing space.”
Rainbow Rowell,

“..he may love you, he may miss you, but ultimately he’s just not that into you.”
Greg Behrendt,

“But whenever I meet dynamic, nonretarded Americans, I notice that they all seem to share a single unifying characteristic: the inability to experience the kind of mind-blowing, transcendent romantic relationship they perceive to be a normal part of living. And someone needs to take the fall for this. So instead of blaming no one for this (which is kind of cowardly) or blaming everyone (which is kind of meaningless), I’m going to blame John Cusack.”
Chuck Klosterman,

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    In public, you are…?

    • Calm/Tranquil/Laidback
    • Distant/Quiet/Reserved
    • Crazy/Outgoing/Animated
    • Funny/Friendly/Cheerful
  • Question of

    In private you are…?

    • Rebellious/Spontaneous/Brave
    • Talkative/Joking/Happy
    • Easygoing/Passive/Caring
    • Withdrawn/Calm/Sheepish
  • Question of

    Your ideal date is…?

    • ‘Someplace not so crowded. A park or at home, maybe.’
    • ‘Anywhere works.’
    • ‘A bar? Or a movie theatre? Somewhere fun?’
    • ‘Somewhere illegal. Water tower? Sounds good.’
  • Question of

    What is your favorite color?

    • White/Black(Colors that aren’t actually colors)
    • Blue
    • Red/Purple
    • Orange/Yellow/Green
  • Question of

    Who are YOU interested in?

    • A shy/calm/funny person.
    • Someone pretty normal.
    • Someone rowdy, and a little dangerous.
    • No preference.
  • Question of

    Do you want kids?

    • ‘Maybe adopted. They’re alright.’
    • ‘Never in a million years.’
    • ‘Yes, of course.’
    • ‘Sure. It doesn’t really matter to me right now.’
  • Question of

    How do you handle pressure?

    • ‘Poorly.’
    • ‘Put it on max. I got this.’
    • ‘It’s easy to laugh off. I don’t take things too seriously.’
    • ‘I’m used to it, mostly.’
  • Question of

    Who’s a celebrity crush of yours?

    • Johnny Depp/Chloe Moretz
    • Channing Tatum/Angelina Jolie
    • Michael Cera/Emma Stone
    • Brad Pitt/Katy Perry
  • Question of

    What food describes you best?

    • ‘Some day-um beef jerky. Spicy.’
    • ‘Ice cream.’
    • ‘Hershey’s kiss.’
    • ‘Potato chips.’
  • Question of

    What is your favorite dog breed or type?

    • Toy/Mini Dog(Any)
    • Mastiff
    • Labrador
    • Rottweiler
  • Question of

    What would your perfect date be?

    • Walk on the beach, talking about your feelings and interests
    • Drinks and going out together with your friends
    • Watch a movie in his basement and listen to music
  • Question of

    What kind of a relationship are you looking for?

    • I want a little danger, I want to feel wanted
    • I want to date, but more having fun and games
    • I want a long-term relationship- I want to find my soul mate
  • Question of

    What are your standards for being treated in a relationship?

    • It’s an equal relationship, he can treat me like one of the guys if it’s respectful
    • I want to feel pampered and like a princess, he needs to be at my every whim
    • I consider teasing and making fun a form of flirting, so that kind of exchange in a relationship is what I’m looking for
  • Question of

    What would be the perfect gift your boyfriend could give you?

    • A poem, or being serenaded by a sweet song
    • A henna tattoo at the market, matching his
    • Buying me a drink at the bar and taking me out
  • Question of

    What’s the most important thing in a relationship?

    • Having fun and living like there’s no tomorrow
    • Sharing mutual interests and seeing if this could last longer than a fling
    • A chemical attraction is stronger than anything
  • Question of

    Your boyfriend takes you out for dinner but then conveniently ‘loses’ his wallet. How do you react?

    • Pick up the tab this time, but tell him the next one’s on him
    • Pay the bill and then buy him a drink at the club later on, it was an honest mistake
    • Pay the bill and tell him he’s worth every penny, knowing he’ll give you the money back the minute you get home
  • Question of

    You’re in the beginning stages of a new relationship, and you see your guy out with his friends, chatting up a pretty, scantily clad girl out at a club

    • Storm up to him, firing accusations, then have a passionate make up scene when he explains he knew her from middle school and he’s just saying hi
    • Go over to him with a group of your friends, sweetly give him a hug and introduce yourself to the girl
    • Go to the bar, get a guy to buy you a shot and heavily flirt with him in hopes your new guy will look over and get the message to walk away from the girl
  • Question of

    You’ve had a falling out with your best friend over a meaningless issue, your boyfriend picks up on your anger and asks what’s wrong

    • You profess all your problems and give him all the sordid details, knowing he’ll be a shoulder to cry on
    • Tell him nothing’s wrong and grab his hand, he’s not interested in girl dramatics and he’ll be uncomfortable hearing about your petty problems
    • You tell him the bare minimum of details and he offers to start a cruel rumor about her
  • Question of

    It’s Valentines Day/anniversary for you and your boyfriend, and when you see him he doesn’t mention anything planned

    • You keep your mouth shut and do your best not to reveal your disappointment, deep down you know he doesn’t think it is as special as you do
    • Tell him off and complain until he buys you some chocolates at the drug store
    • Hold out that he has a lavish surprise planned, because it’s who he is
  • Question of

    Your boyfriend gives you a rose, kisses you quickly, looks into your eyes.. and says he wants to tell you something. You think he’s going to say:

    • I love you. You’re so happy that it overwhelms you.
    • I got tickets to a concert you may not like, Wanna come, or should I ask my friends?
    • There’s a hot club I wanna hit up with my boys, do you mind if you stay home tonight?

WHAT SORT OF GUY WOULD SUIT YOU?

Who is your ideal boy!