What Kind of Romance Is Meant for You?

 

 

We are not always sure whether the attraction we feel towards a person is true love and worthy of time and efforts or is it merely infatuation. The future is uncertain and once the honeymoon phase ends we become unsure about whether or not do we have what makes a relationship perfect. There are several factors that assess the compatibility of people in a relationship, below mentioned are a few things you should keep me mind to know whether your significant other is the “one” or not.

 

  1. YOUR VALUES ALIGN.

If your values don’t align, be it about spirituality, personal growth or health, family then there will always be differences which in may make long-term difficult. Now as one cannot agree to everything, there will always be differences in areas like politics or religion, but you need to make sure that those different aren’t as important as your relationship. By making sure of it you at least try to avoid complications arising in the future.

This would further clear out your priorities, which are the things you desire the most and which are the ones you are ready to sacrifice. For instance, if you are your partner’s priority they won’t be uncomfortable to go out of their way and show up to support you or company you.

“I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.”
― Lisa Kleypas, Blue-Eyed Devil.

“You can’t force love, I realized. It’s there or it isn’t. If it’s not there, you’ve got to be able to admit it. If it is there, you’ve got to do whatever it takes to protect the ones you love.”
― Richelle Mead, Frostbite

“The best love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more, that plants a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds. And that’s what you’ve given me. That’s what I’d hoped to give you forever”
― Nicholas Sparks

“I heard what you said. I’m not the silly romantic you think. I don’t want the heavens or the shooting stars. I don’t want gemstones or gold. I have those things already. I want…a steady hand. A kind soul. I want to fall asleep, and wake, knowing my heart is safe. I want to love, and be loved.”
― Shana Abe

“They didn’t agree on much. In fact, they didn’t agree on anything. They fought all the time and challenged each other ever day. But despite their differences, they had one important thing in common. They were crazy about each other.”
― Nicholas Sparks, The Notebook


“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Thinking back on your last relationship flop, why did you ultimately decide to dip?

    • They weren’t the person I thought they were.
    • I couldn’t depend on them.
    • Our relationship was way too basic.
    • TBH, there was no fire.
  • Question of

    How would you deal if someone you were way in to ghosted you?

    • OOF, this sounds way painful. I’d totally cry to my BFF.
    • Whatever. Better that it happens sooner than later.
    • Idc if this sounds extra AF, but I’d text them til they responded.
    • That’s super lame, but what’s life without a little drama?
  • Question of

    Spill the tea on your last Tinder date. All things considered, how would you rate the IRL outing?

    • It was fun, but they’re obv not THE ONE.
    • Meh, I guess it was fine.
    • There could be something there.
    • TBH, I was way into them and hope they wanna hang again.
  • Question of

    Imagine you’re taking a bougie AF trip somewhere in the world. Which romantic city would you most like to visit?

    • Paris, France
    • Rome, Italy
    • Los Angeles, California
    • Buenos Aires, Argentina
  • Question of

    Let’s talk about the last relationship you took an L on. How did it end?

    • The split was mutual.
    • I broke it off.
    • I got dumped.
    • Who knows what happened. Too much drama to keep straight.
  • Question of

    Humans aren’t the only romantic mammals. Which creature’s love life do you find relatable AF?

    • Lovebirds because DUH.
    • Wolves because they mate for life.
    • Seahorses because, apparently, they’re super flirty.
    • Flamingoes because their mating dances are lit.
  • Question of

    When you think about future bae, what’s the most important quality you look for in a significant other?

    • Kindness
    • Loyalty
    • Hotness
    • Passion
  • Question of

    You and bae want to spend Saturday night cuddling on the couch. Which of the following romance movies are you going to watch?

    • ‘To All The Boys I’ve Loved Before’
    • ‘Silver Linings Playbook’
    • ‘Call Me By Your Name’
    • ‘A Star Is Born’
  • Question of

    We want to low key know, do you think true love is real?

    • Absolutely, and if it isn’t my whole life is a lie.
    • For sure, but it’s much more practical than romance movies would have you believe.
    • TBH, based on everything I’ve experienced, I’m not so sure.
    • It’s out there, but most people will never find it.
  • Question of

    As you swipe left and right, which of the following is a total deal breaker?

    • They’re just looking to hook up.
    • They don’t seem to have ambitions.
    • They aren’t attractive enough.
    • They just don’t have ‘it’ (although, I’m not quite sure what ‘it’ is).
  • Question of

    Bae just said something that made you feel so #blessed. Which of the following completely melted your heart?

    • ‘I’ve waited my whole life for you.’
    • ‘Loving you is the smartest decision I ever made.’
    • ‘The world has never seen a love like ours.’
    • ‘I couldn’t survive a day without you.’
  • Question of

    No cap how old were you when you fell in love for the first time?

    • I was in high school.
    • I’ve never been in love.
    • I was just a kid.
    • I was in my 20s.
  • Question of

    A total cutie slides into your DMs. What’s the first thing you notice about them?

    • Their eyes
    • Their funny AF bio
    • Their lips
    • Their sexy bod
  • Question of

    We won’t tell if you throw some major shade at your ex, so what’s something you really couldn’t stand about them?

    • They didn’t have a romantic bone in their body.
    • I didn’t feel supported.
    • They lied a lot.
    • We didn’t have much chemistry (if any).
  • Question of

    Dating apps can be total thirst traps, but if you had to pick one you actually kinda like, which of the following would you choose?

    • OkCupid
    • Bumble
    • Match
    • Tinder
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