What Time of Year Is Best for Your Love Life?


“When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.”
Jess C. Scott,

“I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.”
Lisa Kleypas,

“Indifference and neglect often do much more damage than outright dislike.”
J.K. Rowling,

“I think you still love me, but we can’t escape the fact that I’m not enough for you. I knew this was going to happen. So I’m not blaming you for falling in love with another woman. I’m not angry, either. I should be, but I’m not. I just feel pain. A lot of pain. I thought I could imagine how much this would hurt, but I was wrong.”
Haruki Murakami,

“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.”
Carl Gustav Jung

“A guy and a girl can be just friends, but at one point or another, they will fall for each other…Maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late, or maybe forever”
Dave Matthews Band

“You can talk with someone for years, everyday, and still, it won’t mean as much as what you can have when you sit in front of someone, not saying a word, yet you feel that person with your heart, you feel like you have known the person for forever…. connections are made with the heart, not the tongue.”
C. JoyBell C.

“For the two of us, home isn’t a place. It is a person. And we are finally home.”
Stephanie Perkins,

“Man may have discovered fire, but women discovered how to play with it.”
Candace Bushnell,

“It hurts to let go. Sometimes it seems the harder you try to hold on to something or someone the more it wants to get away. You feel like some kind of criminal for having felt, for having wanted. For having wanted to be wanted. It confuses you, because you think that your feelings were wrong and it makes you feel so small because it’s so hard to keep it inside when you let it out and it doesn’t coma back. You’re left so alone that you can’t explain. Damn, there’s nothing like that, is there? I’ve been there and you have too. You’re nodding your head.”
Henry Rollins,

“We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: it’s got to be the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.”
Andrew Boyd,

“Well, it seems to me that the best relationships – the ones that last – are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is… suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with.”
Gillian Anderson

“The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.”
Ernest Hemingway,

“I mean, if the relationship can’t survive the long term, why on earth would it be worth my time and energy for the short term?”
Nicholas Sparks,

“Why is it,” he said, one time, at the subway entrance, “I feel I’ve known you so many years?”
Ray Bradbury,

“When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.”
Donald Miller,

“Every man I meet wants to protect me. I can’t figure out what from.”
Mae West

“There is greatness in doing something you hate for the sake of someone you love.”
Shmuley Boteach

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Which of these best describes your favorite food?

    • Turkey with all the fixings.
    • Fresh garden salad.
    • Spicy tacos.
    • Chili or stew.
  • Question of

    How many outfits do you try on before you pick one for the day?

    • None.
    • 3 or 4.
    • At least 5.
    • 1 or 2.
  • Question of

    When it’s time to go out, who is with you?

    • I don’t really go out.
    • A bunch of people I met while I was out.
    • Just a few people who want to have fun.
    • My closest friends.
  • Question of

    When you go out, do you eat?

    • Yes! I’m always hungry.
    • Not really. I just drink.
    • Never. I don’t need to get bloated.
    • Yes, if there is good food nearby.
  • Question of

    What is your favorite season?

    • Winter.
    • Spring.
    • Summer.
    • Fall.
  • Question of

    Which of these makes you the happiest?

    • Snow falling silently onto trees.
    • The smell of fresh rain.
    • The beach.
    • A bonfire.
  • Question of

    Have you ever been on a date in the snow?

    • Yes, and it was amazing!
    • Yes, and it wasn’t fun.
    • No, and I never will.
    • No, but I’m not against it.
  • Question of

    Do you suffer from Seasonal Affective Disorder?

    • Never! I love all seasons.
    • Yes, but it’s usually from a lack of sun.
    • Yes. I get close to death every winter.
    • No. That stuff doesn’t bother me.
  • Question of

    How would a prospective lover characterize you?

    • Cold.
    • Perky.
    • Hot.
    • Cool.
  • Question of

    Have you ever been known to snap on someone?

    • No.
    • Not often.
    • Yes… all the time.
    • Only on people who really deserve it.
  • Question of

    Which of these are you likely to wear when you go out?

    • A nice jacket.
    • A long sleeve shirt.
    • A take top and shorts.
    • Jeans and a t-shirt.
  • Question of

    How often do you go out?

    • Not very much.
    • Once a week.
    • More than once a week.
    • Once a month.
  • Question of

    When you are interested in someone, who is buying the drinks?

    • We split rounds.
    • We buy our own drinks.
    • They always buy me drinks.
    • I buy them drinks.
  • Question of

    How big is your family?

    • Not very big.
    • Very big.
    • I’m an only child.
    • Average.
  • Question of

    Which of these would you rather celebrate?

    • Christmas
    • My birthday.
    • Independence Day.
    • Halloween.

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What Time of Year Is Best for Your Love Life?