What Type of girlfriend are you?


“Assumptions are the termites of relationships.”
Henry Winkler Song of Solomon

“You know that when I hate you, it is because I love you to a point of passion that unhinges my soul.”
Julie de Lespinasse The Shack

“I love you. I hate you. I like you. I hate you. I love you. I think you’re stupid. I think you’re a loser. I think you’re wonderful. I want to be with you. I don’t want to be with you. I would never date you. I hate you. I love you…..I think the madness started the moment we met and you shook my hand. Did you have a disease or something?”
Shannon L. Alder He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“She was the third beer. Not the first one, which the throat receives with almost tearful gratitude; nor the second, that confirms and extends the pleasure of the first. But the third, the one you drink because it’s there, because it can’t hurt, and because what difference does it make?”
Toni Morrison, Women Who Run With the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype

“I suppose that since most of our hurts come through relationships so will our healing, and I know that grace rarely makes sense for those looking in from the outside.”
Wm. Paul Young, Excuse Me, My Brains Have Stepped Out

“I believe in love the verb, not the noun.”
Greg Behrendt, Rubaiyat

“Sometimes the one who is running from the Life/Death/Life nature insists on thinking of love as a boon only. Yet love in its fullest form is a series of deaths and rebirths. We let go of one phase, one aspect of love, and enter another. Passion dies and is brought back. Pain is chased away and surfaces another time. To love means to embrace and at the same time to withstand many endings, and many many beginnings- all in the same relationship.”
Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“Because introverts are typically good listeners and, at least, have the appearance of calmness, we are attractive to emotionally needy people. Introverts, gratified that other people are initiating with them, can easily get caught in these exhausting and unsatisfying relationships.”
Adam S. McHugh The Rosie Project

“Learn to deal with the fact that you are not a perfect person but you are a person that deserves respect and honesty.”
Pandora Poikilos, Laughable Loves

“To wisely live your life, you don’t need to know much
Omar Khayyám, Mythology

Marty McConnell The Bridges

“I believe in the immeasurable power of love; that true love can endure any circumstance and reach across any distance.”
Steve Maraboli, He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“But why, why, why can’t people just say what they mean?”
Graeme Simsion, Eleanor & Park

“Yes, it’s a well-known fact about you: you’re like death, you take everything.”
Milan Kundera, The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember

“A man is lucky if he is the first love of a woman. A woman is lucky if she is the last love of a man.”
Charles Dickens Tender is the Night & The Last Tycoon

“Love cannot live where there is no trust.”
Edith Hamilton, The Time Traveler’s Wife

“What you want most you push away from you.
Tarjei Vesaas, Looking for Alaska

“The quickest way to rectify that mistake (choosing the wrong person) is by learning from that, moving on, and choosing much more wisely in the future.”
Greg Behrendt, New Order

“You think that holding someone hard will bring them closer. You think that you can hold them so hard that you’ll still feel them, embossed on you, when you pull away.
Rainbow Rowell, The Lover’s Dictionary

“Mutual caring relationships require kindness and patience, tolerance, optimism, joy in the other’s achievements, confidence in oneself, and the ability to give without undue thought of gain.”
Fred Rogers, Love Quotes for the Ages. Specifically Ages 19-91.

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    If you are out at a bar and you see your boyfriend flirting, what do you do?

    • Cry.
    • Ignore it, I know it is harmless.
    • Cause a scene.
    • Flirt with someone else.
  • Question of

    Do you get along well with his parents?

    • They love me.
    • I think so.
    • Not really.
    • Not at all.
  • Question of

    How often do you like to get busy in the bedroom each week?

    • Once
    • Twice
    • 7 times
    • 4 times
  • Question of

    Can you hold your own with your boyfriend when it comes to drinking?

    • I hate it when he drinks; I don’t encourage it.
    • I do okay.
    • No, I am a lightweight.
    • For sure.
  • Question of

    How often do you two hang out on the weekend?

    • The whole time.
    • About half the time.
    • Almost the whole time.
    • Just at night.
  • Question of

    Do you often worry about your boyfriend leaving you?

    • Quite a bit.
    • Not really.
    • Constantly.
    • Not at all.
  • Question of

    How often do you make dinner for the two of you?

    • All the time.
    • Sometimes.
    • For special occasions.
    • Never.
  • Question of

    When you and your boyfriend hangout what do you do?

    • Netfilx and cuddles
    • Sleep
    • Make a meal
    • Make-out
  • Question of

    When your boyfriend is sick how do you take care of him?

    • Go to the store and buy him medicine
    • Make him soup
    • Keep him company and give him cuddles
    • I don’t take care of him
  • Question of

    What’s your idea of a romantic date?

    • Movies at his house
    • Picnic in the park
    • Romantic dinner at a fancy restaurant
  • Question of

    When you see him how do you feel?

    • Butterflies in my stomach
    • Flirty
    • Energized
    • Happy and exited
  • Question of

    You and your boyfriend get in a fight how do you apologize?

    • Make him a card
    • Make him dinner
    • Give him lots of hug and kisses
    • Feel guilty and say sorry
  • Question of

    When your boyfriends sad how do you make him feel better?

    • Ask him whats wrong
    • Let him tell you
    • Make lots of funny faces until he laughs
    • Comfort him
  • Question of

    You get him a present for his birthday what would it be?

    • Candy
    • Socks
    • The new video game hes been wanting
    • A gift card
  • Question of

    Are you protective over him?

    • Yes!
    • Sometimes
    • No- he does all the protecting
    • I don’t know
  • Question of

    Hes talking to another girl do you get jealous?

    • Yes!
    • No
    • It depends on who the girl is
    • No- hes aloud to talk to other girls
  • Question of

    Were you honest about your answers?

    • Why would I tell you
    • No
    • Yes
  • Question of

    What are you thinking if you haven’t heard from your boyfriend all day?

    • I get worried about him.
    • Nothing, I trust him.
    • I freak out.
    • I don’t care, I am busy doing my own thing.
  • Question of

    Are you big into your boyfriends birthday?

    • Yes, I made him dinner.
    • Yes, I bought him some nice presents.
    • Yes, I took him out to a nice restaurant.
    • Yes, I took him out to a bar.
  • Question of

    Do you like to do your boyfriends laundry?

    • I love it.
    • Ehh, no but I will.
    • No, he should do that for me.
    • Gross.

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