What Type of Guy is for You?


“…the opposite of love is not hate — it’s apathy. It’s not giving a damn. If somebody hates me, they must “feel” something … or they couldn’t possibly hate. Therefore, there’s some way in which I can get to them.”
Leo F. Buscaglia

“No matter how close we are to another person, few human relationships are as free from strife, disagreement, and frustration as is the relationship you have with a good dog. Few human beings give of themselves to another as a dog gives of itself. I also suspect that we cherish dogs because their unblemished souls make us wish – consciously or unconsciously – that we were as innocent as they are, and make us yearn for a place where innocence is universal and where the meanness, the betrayals, and the cruelties of this world are unknown.”
Dean Koontz,

“This love of which I speak is slow to lose patience – it looks for a way of being constructive.
Elisabeth Elliot,

“If a man can possess a woman sexually -really possess- he won’t need to control her ideas, her opinions, her clothes, her friends, even her other lovers.”
Toni Bentley

“I don’t understand dating.. and the other things that people do.. all I know is that you ought to find the one you recognize. The one who gives you four arms, four legs, four eyes, and has the other half of your heart. There’s only one of those, so what are all the other things for? Like dating?”
C. JoyBell C.

“Caring about someone isn’t complicated. It isn’t easy. But it isn’t complicated, either. Kinda like lifting the engine block out of a car.”
Jim Butcher,

“But in the real world, you couldnt really just split a family down the middle, mom on one side, dad the other, with the child equally divided between. It was like when you ripped a piece of paper into two: no matter how you tried, the seams never fit exactly right again. It was what you couldn’t see, those tiniest of pieces, that were lost in the severing, and their absence kept everything from being complete.”
Sarah Dessen,

“I hope we’ll be friends forever, together we’ll always be. I don’t think you understand just how much you mean to me. And one day when we part our ways, we’ll think back to the past and think about how happy we are ’cause our friendship will always last.”
Bridget Davis

“Death is the easy part, the hard part is living and knowing you could be so much more then you’re willing to be.”
robert m drake

“Your absence has not taught me to be alone, it merely has shown that when together we cast a single shadow on the wall.”
Doug Fetherling

“When forever becomes a place…when forever ceases to be just a word… when it ceases to be just a measurement of time…but instead becomes a place where soul mates can dance to the song in their hearts… that is a reflection of true love.”
Steve Maraboli,

“Often men who have been emotionally neglected and abused as children by dominating mothers bond with assertive women, only to have their childhood feelings of being engulfed surface. While they could not ‘smash their mommy’ and still receive love, they find that they can engage in intimate violence with partners who respond to their acting out by trying harder to connect with them emotionally, hoping that the love offered in the present will heal the wounds of the past. If only one party in the relationship is working to create love, to create the space of emotional connection, the dominator model remains in place and the relationship just becomes a site for continuous power struggle.”
bell hooks

“Falling in love in a Christian way is to say,’I am excited about your future and I want to be part of getting you there. I’m signing up for the journey with you. Would you sign up for the journey to my true self with me? It’s going to be hard but I want to get there.”
Timothy Keller

“Husbands are chiefly good as lovers when they are betraying their wives.”
Marilyn Monroe

“We met each other when we were young, before we knew enough about disappointment, and once we did we found we reminded each other of it.”
Nicole Krauss,

“I didn’t know someone could love me like this,” she said. “Could love me and love me and love me without…needing space.”
Rainbow Rowell,

“..he may love you, he may miss you, but ultimately he’s just not that into you.”
Greg Behrendt,

“But whenever I meet dynamic, nonretarded Americans, I notice that they all seem to share a single unifying characteristic: the inability to experience the kind of mind-blowing, transcendent romantic relationship they perceive to be a normal part of living. And someone needs to take the fall for this. So instead of blaming no one for this (which is kind of cowardly) or blaming everyone (which is kind of meaningless), I’m going to blame John Cusack.”
Chuck Klosterman,

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Do you have commitment issues?

    • Not really.
    • It depends.
    • If we’re both all in, no.
    • No way.
    • Kinda…
  • Question of

    What kind of guys have you dated/crushed on/been in a romantic relationship with in the past?

    • Sweet, but good-looking guys.
    • Very sweet, generous guys.
    • They tend to look like actors.
    • Some really funny guys.
    • It varies, but they all were really attractive.
  • Question of

    What type of guy would you go for?

    • Fun and preppy
    • Geeky and smart
    • Athletic
    • Daredevil
    • Sweet and shy
  • Question of

    What color do you prefer?

    • Red
    • Pink
    • Purple
    • Blue
    • Green
  • Question of

    Where would you want him to take you?

    • Concert
    • Amusement park
    • Romantic dinner
    • Study at the library
    • Sporting event
  • Question of

    What kind of animal do you like?

    • Snake
    • Dog
    • Horse
    • Gerbil
    • Dolphin
  • Question of

    What career do you want him to have?

    • Doctor
    • Musician
    • Athlete
    • Business man
    • Artist
  • Question of

    Where did you meet him?

    • At the library
    • The beach
    • A party
    • An alley
    • At a game
  • Question of

    What kind of gift did you get from him?

    • Jewelry
    • A book you wanted
    • Chocolate and a big teddy bear
    • Nothing
    • Tickets to a game
  • Question of

    How would he propose?

    • Hid the ring in your favorite dessert
    • Nervously and trying to find the ring
    • During halftime at a game
    • He or you doesn’t want to get married
    • On a rollercoaster
  • Question of

    What would you like him to do for you?

    • Help you with homework
    • Work out with you
    • Spend the whole day with you
    • Something illegal
    • Do fun and crazy things
  • Question of

    What is something you don’t mind about him?

    • Focuses on school most of the time
    • Clingy and emotional
    • Stubborn and rude
    • Checks out other girls
    • Spends more time playing sports
  • Question of

    What do you notice first about a guy that you are attracted to?

    • His body.
    • His eyes.
    • His personality.
    • His face/facial features.
    • His voice.
  • Question of

    What quality do you find most important in a man?

    • Kindness/ short-tempered.
    • Generosity/ selflessness.
    • A good sense of humor.
    • Whether he acts like Tobias Eaton or not.
    • How good-looking he is.
  • Question of

    What kind of relationship are you looking for?

    • Long, but no commitment until we know we are absolutely ready.
    • It doesn’t matter, as long as I get to be with him at all.
    • Long. Married, even.
    • However long we last, which should be pretty long.
    • We’ll cross that bridge when we get to it.
  • Question of

    If you ever get married to your man, are you planning on establishing a family?

    • Of course, but not too many kiddos.
    • After a couple of years.
    • Doesn’t matter much to me.
    • No kids, but if we had a couple by accident, I wouldn’t mind.
    • However many kids we want whenever want sounds good.
  • Question of

    What kind of job/occupation/profession would your guy have?

    • He’d probably work at a homeless shelter or something.
    • A model.
    • Whatever he wants, it doesn’t matter to me.
    • Maybe a teacher, the kids would love him.
    • Maybe a football player or a police officer.
  • Question of

    How would you best describe yourself?

    • A little stubborn, but who isn’t? I feel like I need protection, too.
    • Humorous, loud, creative.
    • Hard to explain, but I know myself.
    • I just don’t know, I’d have to ask someone else.
    • A bit needy, but always in a good mood.
  • Question of

    How do you feel about pre-marital sex?

    • If we’re both ready, I think it’s fine.
    • I don’t really care.
    • I’ve done it before…
    • Depends on how in love I am with the guy.
    • I’d rather wait until I’m married.
  • Question of

    What do you think is most necessary in a relationship?

    • A good bond.
    • For us to get along really well, and not bicker.
    • For him to treat me the way I deserve to be treated.
    • Physical attraction.
    • Physical attraction and bond, both.

Which group of boys love me the best?

What kind of boys like me?