What Type Of Guy Suits My Personality?


“I want to be in a relationship where you telling me you love me is just a ceremonious validation of what you already show me.”
Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free

“Never marry at all, Dorian. Men marry because they are tired, women, because they are curious: both are disappointed.”
Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray

“Man, when you lose your laugh you lose your footing.”
Ken Kesey, One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest

“Every couple needs to argue now and then. Just to prove that the relationship is strong enough to survive. Long-term relationships, the ones that matter, are all about weathering the peaks and the valleys.”
Nicholas Sparks, Safe Haven

“I know enough to know that no woman should ever marry a man who hated his mother.”
Martha Gellhorn, Selected Letters

“Maybe its like you said before, all of us being cracked open. Like each of us starts out as a watertight vessel. And then things happen – these people leave us, or don’t love us, or don’t get us, or we don’t get them, and we lose and fail and hurt one another. And the vessel starts to crack in places. And I mean, yeah once the vessel cracks open, the end becomes inevitable. Once it starts to rain inside the Osprey, it will never be remodeled. But there is all this time between when the cracks start to open up and when we finally fall apart. And its only that time that we see one another, because we see out of ourselves through our cracks and into others through theirs. When did we see each other face to face? Not until you saw into my cracks and I saw into yours. Before that we were just looking at ideas of each other, like looking at your window shade, but never seeing inside. But once the vessel cracks, the light can get in. The light can get out.”
John Green, Paper Towns

“People like to say love is unconditional, but it’s not, and even if it was unconditional, it’s still never free. There’s always an expectation attached. They always want something in return. Like they want you to be happy or whatever and that makes you automatically responsible for their happiness because they won’t be happy unless you are … I just don’t want that responsibility.”
Katja Millay, The Sea of Tranquility

“For there to be betrayal, there would have to have been trust first.”
Suzanne Collins, The Hunger Games

“Even though you may want to move forward in your life, you may have one foot on the brakes. In order to be free, we must learn how to let go. Release the hurt. Release the fear. Refuse to entertain your old pain. The energy it takes to hang onto the past is holding you back from a new life. What is it you would let go of today?”
Mary Manin Morrissey Dairy Queen

“When you don’t talk, there’s a lot of stuff that ends up not getting said.”
Catherine Gilbert Murdock, Venus in Arms

“Usually adult males who are unable to make emotional connections with the women they choose to be intimate with are frozen in time, unable to allow themselves to love for fear that the loved one will abandon them. If the first woman they passionately loved, the mother, was not true to her bond of love, then how can they trust that their partner will be true to love. Often in their adult relationships these men act out again and again to test their partner’s love. While the rejected adolescent boy imagines that he can no longer receive his mother’s love because he is not worthy, as a grown man he may act out in ways that are unworthy and yet demand of the woman in his life that she offer him unconditional love. This testing does not heal the wound of the past, it merely reenacts it, for ultimately the woman will become weary of being tested and end the relationship, thus reenacting the abandonment. This drama confirms for many men that they cannot put their trust in love. They decide that it is better to put their faith in being powerful, in being dominant.”
bell hooks The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember

“To say that one waits a lifetime for his soulmate to come around is a paradox. People eventually get sick of waiting, take a chance on someone, and by the art of commitment become soulmates, which takes a lifetime to perfect.”
Criss Jami, Between the Tides

“Part of the problem with the word ‘disabilities’ is that it immediately suggests an inability to see or hear or walk or do other things that many of us take for granted. But what of people who can’t feel? Or talk about their feelings? Or manage their feelings in constructive ways? What of people who aren’t able to form close and strong relationships? And people who cannot find fulfillment in their lives, or those who have lost hope, who live in disappointment and bitterness and find in life no joy, no love? These, it seems to me, are the real disabilities.”
Fred Rogers, The Fall

“Cheating and lying aren’t struggles, they’re reasons to break up.”
Patti Callahan Henry, Along for the Ride

“Our wounds are often the openings into the best and most beautiful part of us.”
David Richo At First Sight

“I used to advertise my loyalty and I don’t believe there is a single person I loved that I didn’t eventually betray.”
Albert Camus, The Intern

“If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you’re allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind.”
Shannon L. Alder Poems from the Heart

“Relationships dont always make sense. Especially from the outside”
Sarah Dessen, Waiting for You

“Lots of things can be fixed. Things can be fixed. But many times, relationships between people cannot be fixed, because they should not be fixed. You’re aboard a ship setting sail, and the other person has joined the inland circus, or is boarding a different ship, and you just can’t be with each other anymore. Because you shouldn’t be.”
C. JoyBell C. Remember Me

“Every couple has ups and downs, every couple argues, and that’s the thing—you’re a couple, and couples can’t function without trust.”
Nicholas Sparks, The Cocktail Party

“Those sweet lips. My, oh my, I could kiss those lips all night long.
Jess C. Scott, Messages from the Masters: Tapping Into the Power of Love

“I may not always be with you
Marc Wambolt, Straight Up and Dirty

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Which of these color types are you most attracted to?

    • Dark and minimalist (black, gray, white)
    • Calming and neutral (earth tones, peach, beiges, browns)
    • Soft pastels (baby blues, pinks, ivory, white)
    • Intense and fiery (red, orange, yellow)
    • Bright and popping (neon, hot pink, highlighter colors)
  • Question of

    Which time of day do you love most, and why?

    • Noon. When the weather is perfect, I can go outside/I can do my hobbies
    • Morning, so I can drink coffee and chill
    • Night, because I’m the most focused and awake at night
    • Night, so I can hang out with friends and maybe go to a party or a club
    • Evening, so I can watch the sun set and calm my mind
  • Question of

    Which of these categories do you think you fit in best?

    • Scientist, lawyer, accountant, rock star, songwriter, romance novelist, horror enthusiast, loves anything with a morbid or dark concept, minimalist or aesthete
    • Doodler, free spirit, works non-stressful jobs, aesthete, tea & coffee, relaxation, waitress, cafes, hair stylist, reader, interior designer, into anything mellow
    • Loves parties, social, extremely close to friends, not afraid to flirt, DJ, dancer, singer, actor, playwright, loves having fun and good times
    • Chic fashion designer, cute, Kawaii merch, Fairy Kei, feminine, loves drawing cute things, dainty, simple, Harajuku
    • Passionate/emotional, ambitious, loves traveling and meeting new people, wouldn’t mind living in a foreign country, big dreamer, curious, fierce, compassionate and sometimes paranoid
  • Question of

    Which pet would you love to have more?

    • Cat – they’re cute and chill
    • Other / No pet
    • Dog – they’re fun and active
  • Question of

    Your fashion style?

    • Dark or minimalistic
    • Unique/Anything that will get me noticed
    • Preppy, but comfortable
    • Casual and effortless to wear
    • Cute and chic
  • Question of

    Which group of physical traits do you find most attractive in a guy?

    • Big frame, strong, sporty, perfect teeth; rough, attractive features
    • Shy smiles and fluffy hair. Cute features and taller than I am. Probably fit, but his body type shouldn’t matter too much
    • Doesn’t matter as long as we’re chill and can get along well. It would be nice if he was attractive, though
    • Tall, possibly thin. Dark eyes and an intelligent/mysterious look
    • Hot body, muscular but not big/large, fit, dancer-like body. Hot!
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    Hair style?

    • Light-colored hair with a sporty haircut, or any hairstyle that suits him
    • Again, doesn’t matter much. From casual to unique – anything is fine
    • Long, dark hair, possibly covering an eye. Or just a normal haircut would be fine
    • Anything sexy, attractive, or trendy
    • Possibly fluffy, curly, light or dark-colored hair
  • Question of

    Which type of guy do you need (or think you’ll need) in your life?

    • Adventurous, curious, risk-taker, passionate, talented, caring
    • Extremely nice, helpful, and always there for me, loving, adorable, sweet – quiet sometimes
    • Smart, intellectual, talkative only about certain subjects, uses his brains to lead me down the right path/Dark & mysterious, emo-like, not very social except with me, not popular
    • Fun, attractive, daredevil, sexy, funny, doesn’t care much about consequences, unafraid
    • Chill and stable, lazy (like me!), procrastinates like I do, but only for school; calm, cares enough to pull me out of bed on late mornings
  • Question of

    Eye color?

    • Doesn’t matter as long as it’s attractive or sexy
    • The color doesn’t matter, but I’d love for them to look youthful, shy, or sympathetic
    • Dark or basic color
    • Bright color; passionate/intense gaze
    • Doesn’t matter
  • Question of

    On a Friday night, which would you two most likely do together?

    • Study/work on homework or have a deep conversation
    • Book a flight for our next vacation to a foreign country
    • Just talk, or binge-watch our favorite series/movies together. In other words, chill
    • Probably just cuddle and watch Netflix/Bake some desserts together or talk about our dreams
    • Party. If not party, then, you know…. ????
  • Question of


    • Average height
    • Tall
    • Doesn’t matter
    • Taller than I am
  • Question of

    First impression of his appearance?

    • He’s cute and looks shy
    • He’s so attractive and hot!
    • He’s mysterious but cool/He looks smart and intellectual
    • He looks passionate and hardworking
    • He looks chill and unworried
  • Question of


    • No – just safe sex:^)
    • Yes – a huge, loving family:)
    • I don’t know
    • We won’t have time to think about kids
    • Probably just one
  • Question of

    Which of these would you love to do with your lover the most often?

    • Go to Japan, or work on drawing a manga together. Go to the park. Hug each other a lot
    • Drink coffee and more coffee. Watch our favorite shows together and have great conversations
    • Help each other with schoolwork/Listen to sad songs together
    • Go on trips or to festivals. Travel all over the globe and learn all we can
    • Dance at the club/socialize with friends. Go to parties and have a lot of fun together
  • Question of

    Last, but not least, which of these would you love most about him?

    • His brains and intelligence/His dark, mysterious manner
    • His compassion for me and lust for adventure
    • His free spirit and calm nature
    • His fun and sexy attitude and intense love for me
    • His soft voice, his hugs, and his forehead kisses

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