What type of lover are you? (For people in relationships)

 

“I want to be in a relationship where you telling me you love me is just a ceremonious validation of what you already show me.”
Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free

“Never marry at all, Dorian. Men marry because they are tired, women, because they are curious: both are disappointed.”
Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray

“Man, when you lose your laugh you lose your footing.”
Ken Kesey, One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest

“Every couple needs to argue now and then. Just to prove that the relationship is strong enough to survive. Long-term relationships, the ones that matter, are all about weathering the peaks and the valleys.”
Nicholas Sparks, Safe Haven

“I know enough to know that no woman should ever marry a man who hated his mother.”
Martha Gellhorn, Selected Letters

“Maybe its like you said before, all of us being cracked open. Like each of us starts out as a watertight vessel. And then things happen – these people leave us, or don’t love us, or don’t get us, or we don’t get them, and we lose and fail and hurt one another. And the vessel starts to crack in places. And I mean, yeah once the vessel cracks open, the end becomes inevitable. Once it starts to rain inside the Osprey, it will never be remodeled. But there is all this time between when the cracks start to open up and when we finally fall apart. And its only that time that we see one another, because we see out of ourselves through our cracks and into others through theirs. When did we see each other face to face? Not until you saw into my cracks and I saw into yours. Before that we were just looking at ideas of each other, like looking at your window shade, but never seeing inside. But once the vessel cracks, the light can get in. The light can get out.”
John Green, Paper Towns

“For there to be betrayal, there would have to have been trust first.”
Suzanne Collins, The Hunger Games

“People like to say love is unconditional, but it’s not, and even if it was unconditional, it’s still never free. There’s always an expectation attached. They always want something in return. Like they want you to be happy or whatever and that makes you automatically responsible for their happiness because they won’t be happy unless you are … I just don’t want that responsibility.”
Katja Millay, The Sea of Tranquility

“Even though you may want to move forward in your life, you may have one foot on the brakes. In order to be free, we must learn how to let go. Release the hurt. Release the fear. Refuse to entertain your old pain. The energy it takes to hang onto the past is holding you back from a new life. What is it you would let go of today?”
Mary Manin Morrissey Dairy Queen

“When you don’t talk, there’s a lot of stuff that ends up not getting said.”
Catherine Gilbert Murdock, Venus in Arms

“Usually adult males who are unable to make emotional connections with the women they choose to be intimate with are frozen in time, unable to allow themselves to love for fear that the loved one will abandon them. If the first woman they passionately loved, the mother, was not true to her bond of love, then how can they trust that their partner will be true to love. Often in their adult relationships these men act out again and again to test their partner’s love. While the rejected adolescent boy imagines that he can no longer receive his mother’s love because he is not worthy, as a grown man he may act out in ways that are unworthy and yet demand of the woman in his life that she offer him unconditional love. This testing does not heal the wound of the past, it merely reenacts it, for ultimately the woman will become weary of being tested and end the relationship, thus reenacting the abandonment. This drama confirms for many men that they cannot put their trust in love. They decide that it is better to put their faith in being powerful, in being dominant.”
bell hooks The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember

“To say that one waits a lifetime for his soulmate to come around is a paradox. People eventually get sick of waiting, take a chance on someone, and by the art of commitment become soulmates, which takes a lifetime to perfect.”
Criss Jami, Between the Tides

“Part of the problem with the word ‘disabilities’ is that it immediately suggests an inability to see or hear or walk or do other things that many of us take for granted. But what of people who can’t feel? Or talk about their feelings? Or manage their feelings in constructive ways? What of people who aren’t able to form close and strong relationships? And people who cannot find fulfillment in their lives, or those who have lost hope, who live in disappointment and bitterness and find in life no joy, no love? These, it seems to me, are the real disabilities.”
Fred Rogers, The Fall

“Cheating and lying aren’t struggles, they’re reasons to break up.”
Patti Callahan Henry, Along for the Ride

“Our wounds are often the openings into the best and most beautiful part of us.”
David Richo At First Sight

“I used to advertise my loyalty and I don’t believe there is a single person I loved that I didn’t eventually betray.”
Albert Camus, The Intern

“If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you’re allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind.”
Shannon L. Alder Poems from the Heart

“Relationships dont always make sense. Especially from the outside”
Sarah Dessen, Waiting for You

“Lots of things can be fixed. Things can be fixed. But many times, relationships between people cannot be fixed, because they should not be fixed. You’re aboard a ship setting sail, and the other person has joined the inland circus, or is boarding a different ship, and you just can’t be with each other anymore. Because you shouldn’t be.”
C. JoyBell C. Remember Me

“Every couple has ups and downs, every couple argues, and that’s the thing—you’re a couple, and couples can’t function without trust.”
Nicholas Sparks, The Cocktail Party

“Those sweet lips. My, oh my, I could kiss those lips all night long.
Jess C. Scott, Messages from the Masters: Tapping Into the Power of Love

“I may not always be with you
Marc Wambolt, Straight Up and Dirty

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    What is your perfect date?

    • Cinema, McDonalds, nothing too fancy.
    • Staying in, ordering take-out, renting a movie and just cuddling in sweats.
    • Going dancing or clubbing.
    • Just talking and making sure I know them truly.
  • Question of

    You found out that your boyfriend’s/girlfriend’s ex still likes them. What do you do?

    • I talk to the ex about it, letting them know that they’re with me and asking not to flirt with them.
    • I purposefully make out in front of them.
    • I get defensive and always be very affectionate just to make them jealous.
    • I warn them very aggressively that my lover is mine.
  • Question of

    How much do you love your significant other?

    • I love them so, so much. I would do anything for them.
    • I love them to the moon and back!
    • We’re not at the love part, but I really like them.
    • I like them.
  • Question of

    Do you like PDA (publicly displayed affection)?

    • A little here and there, but not too much.
    • I prefer to keep things in private.
    • Yes! I like to show off to the world that my lover is mine.
    • Yes, I want to make everyone jealous.
  • Question of

    What is your preferred way of showing affection?

    • During sexual activities.
    • Gifts, long talks, jokes.
    • By showing them that I know them and that they are truly amazing.
    • Cuddles, cuddles, cuddles! Lots of affection.
  • Question of

    What are three (or more) words to describe your partner?

    • Hot, sexual, sexy.
    • Goofy, loveable, adorable.
    • Perfect, gorgeous/handsome, my soulmate.
    • Funny, relaxed, cool.
  • Question of

    Do you trust them not to cheat?

    • Not really, I get so paranoid!
    • Sometimes I doubt them, but I know they couldn’t replace me.
    • Of course, I know they wouldn’t cheat.
    • Well, I do get a little jealous, but I know they love me.
  • Question of

    How far have you gone with them?

    • The most we’ve done is kissed.
    • All the way.
    • The most we’ve done is kissed with tongue.
    • We haven’t done that much.
  • Question of

    Where did you two meet?

    • At a party
    • At a restaurant
    • At work
    • On vacation
  • Question of

    How would you describe your relationship?

    • Fairytale
    • Adventurous
    • Passionate
    • Deep
  • Question of

    What word best describes your significant other?

    • Funny
    • Brave
    • Sexy
    • Stubborn
  • Question of

    What is the most important thing in a relationship?

    • Compatibility
    • Communication
    • Respect
    • Trust
  • Question of

    Do you fall in love easily?

    • Definitely
    • No
    • Yes
    • Depends
  • Question of

    The perfect date for you would be:

    • Going to a new museum or bar
    • Ordering takeout and spending the night in bed
    • Going to a new restaurant
    • Going hiking
  • Question of

    Which of these pet names would you call your other half?

    • Baby
    • Love
    • Honey
    • Pumpkin
  • Question of

    Do you two want children?

    • Yes
    • Not on our radar yet
    • No
    • You mean more?
  • Question of

    Do you want to get married?

    • Yes
    • No
    • Absolutely
    • Maybe
  • Question of

    25 years from now, you would like:

    • To be married with kids (and hopefully grandkids)
    • To be traveling the world with my love
    • To have a very active sex life
    • To live a quiet and simple life with my significant other
  • Question of

    What is a lover?

    • Someone that truly knows you.
    • Someone to cuddle and love.
    • Someone that is ALWAYS there for you.
    • Someone to have sex with.
  • Question of

    Your boyfriend/girlfriend is upset! What do you do?

    • I ask them what’s wrong and see if I can make them feel better in a more sexual way.
    • I make them their favourite food and ask them what’s up.
    • I see what’s wrong and scream at whoever made them upset. Nobody upsets my boo!
    • I hug and kiss them to make sure they feel loved.

What kind of romantic are you?

What kind of lover are you?