What Underrated Type of Guy Should You Date?



9. Take out a full-page ad in a newspaper then pick the perfect spot to have a relaxing morning of catching up on current events.

Effort: Three out of five
Cost: Four out of five

10. Call into a radio station, make sure your fiance-to-be is listening then propose on the air.

Effort: Two out of five
Cost: One out of five


Destination Marriage Proposal Ideas

11. Plan a romantic destination getaway for two. When you’re on the plane, use the loudspeaker system (of course, run your plan by the flight attendants first) and propose at 35,000 feet.

Effort: Four out of five
Cost: Four out of five

12. Rent a Vespa, scooter or bikes to tour the city and invite your soon-to-be fiance for a ride, but remind them to be safe and wear a helmet. Hand over the helmet (with the ring box already in it) then zip around town to celebrate.

Effort: Three out of five
Cost: Three out of five

13. Searching for beach proposal ideas? Go to the shore and build a sandcastle together (at a safe distance from the ocean).When your partner isn’t looking, put the ring on the highest tower.

Effort: One out of five
Cost: One out of five

14. After a long day of sightseeing, have a drink in the hotel bar. When it’s time to go, have roses, candles and champagne all set up in your hotel room—everything for a perfect surprise proposal.

Effort: Two out of five
Cost: Two out of five

15. Add this to the list of outdoor proposal ideas: Go on a hike and pop the question once you’ve reached the top of your climb. (But please be careful not to lose or damage the precious proposal piece in the wilderness.)

Effort: Two out of five
Cost: One out of five


Homemade Marriage Proposal Ideas

16. Gather a bunch of your friends and family for a party and have everyone put on a T-shirt or carry balloons filled with helium (otherwise they won’t float) bearing one of the letters in the phrase, “Will you marry me?” Then during the party suggest a group picture to reveal the message.

Effort: Two out of five
Cost: One out of five

17. Spell your proposal out in glow-in-the-dark star stickers on your ceiling. Get into bed, turn the lights off and wait for the gasp.

Effort: Two out of five
Cost: One out of five

18. Or, use refrigerator magnet letters to write out your marriage proposal. They’ll never be so happy to have gone to grab a snack.

“If he’s not calling you, it’s because you are not on his mind. If he creates expectations for you, and then doesn’t follow through on little things, he will do same for big things. Be aware of this and realize that he’s okay with disappointing you. Don’t be with someone who doesn’t do what they say they’re going to do. If he’s choosing not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight, then he doesn’t respect your feelings and needs. “Busy” is another word for “asshole.” “Asshole” is another word for the guy you’re dating. You deserve a fcking phone call.”
― Greg Behrendt

“I’m about to make a wild, extreme and severe relationship rule: the word busy is a load of crap and is most often used by assholes. The word “busy” is the relationship Weapon of Mass Destruction. It seems like a good excuse, but in fact in every silo you uncover, all you’re going to find is a man who didn’t care enough to call. Remember men are never to busy to get what they want.”
― Greg Behrendt

“Who’re you going with, then?” said Ron.
“Angelina,” said Fred promptly, without a trace of embarrassment.
“What?” said Ron, taken aback. “You’ve already asked her?”
“Good point,” said Fred. He turned his head and called across the common room, “Oi! Angelina!”
Angelina, who had been chatting with Alicia Spinnet near the fire, looked over at him.
“What?” She called back.
“Want to come to the ball with me?”
Angelina gave Fred a sort of appraising look.
“All right, then,” she said, and she turned back to Alicia and carried on chatting with a bit of a grin on her face.
“There you go,” said Fred to Harry and Ron, “piece of cake.”
― J.K. Rowling, Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire

“Let’s start with this statistic: You are delicious. Be brave, my sweet. I know you can get lonely. I know you can crave companionship and sex and love so badly that it physically hurts. But I truly believe that the only way you can find out that there’s something better out there is to first believe there’s something better out there. What other choice is there?”
― Greg Behrendt, He’s Just Not That Into You

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Do you love geek culture?

    • It’s my life.
    • I don’t get it. Sorry, I just don’t.
    • I like it a lot.
    • No, it’s stupid.
  • Question of

    What’s your ideal first date?

    • ComicCon, of course.
    • Dinner and a movie.
    • Stimulating conversation about political issues of the day. I don’t care where.
    • Go to a totally impossible-to-get-into club..
  • Question of

    What’s missing from your life right now?

    • Enough people to complete my online clan.
    • Someone to give me a hug and tell me everything will be OK.
    • Justice!
    • Money enough to do the things I want to do.
  • Question of

    What sort of car do you want to drive?

    • Nice little electric runaround
    • People carrier
    • Tesla
    • Giant SUV of some sort
  • Question of

    What’s your dream house type?

    • Supervillain lair, obviously.
    • Cottage in the country.
    • Eco-house off the grid.
    • City loft.
  • Question of

    What sort of person can you not abide being around?

    • Stupid people.
    • Mean people.
    • Apathetic people.
    • Boring people.
  • Question of

    What kind of movie do you love?

    • Sci-fi and fantasy
    • Romantic
    • Gritty drama
    • Action
  • Question of

    When you find a show you like, do you watch one episode at once, or binge?

    • Binge, obviously.
    • Just one at once for me!
    • Depends on the show.
    • I don’t really watch TV.
  • Question of

    How athletic are you?

    • More than you’d imagine.
    • Not a bit.
    • Very.
    • I do triathlons.
  • Question of

    What sort of pet is best?

    • Small dog.
    • Cats.
    • Something low maintenance so I can travel for work.
    • Big dog.
  • Question of

    How book-smart are you?

    • Scarily smart and proud of it.
    • Not very and OK with it. I have other strengths.
    • Above average.
    • More than you’d think.
  • Question of

    How street-smart are you?

    • Not at all.
    • More than I’d like, frankly.
    • Immensely!
    • Very.
  • Question of

    How engaged are you in politics?

    • Fairly
    • Not a bit.
    • It is my every waking thought.
    • I only think about it at election time.
  • Question of

    What sort of volunteering do you do?

    • Disaster relief.
    • Animal rescue.
    • All of it, honestly – voter registration, climate rallies, immigrant rights.
    • Coaching sports for marginalized youth.
  • Question of

    Do you love a good intellectual debate?

    • It’s the literal best!
    • I hate it, it’s so negative.
    • Yes, if it is with people who actually listen and do their homework.
    • Only if I win.

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