What will my first kiss be like?

 

“Assumptions are the termites of relationships.”
Henry Winkler Song of Solomon

“You know that when I hate you, it is because I love you to a point of passion that unhinges my soul.”
Julie de Lespinasse The Shack

“I love you. I hate you. I like you. I hate you. I love you. I think you’re stupid. I think you’re a loser. I think you’re wonderful. I want to be with you. I don’t want to be with you. I would never date you. I hate you. I love you…..I think the madness started the moment we met and you shook my hand. Did you have a disease or something?”
Shannon L. Alder He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“She was the third beer. Not the first one, which the throat receives with almost tearful gratitude; nor the second, that confirms and extends the pleasure of the first. But the third, the one you drink because it’s there, because it can’t hurt, and because what difference does it make?”
Toni Morrison, Women Who Run With the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype

“I suppose that since most of our hurts come through relationships so will our healing, and I know that grace rarely makes sense for those looking in from the outside.”
Wm. Paul Young, Excuse Me, My Brains Have Stepped Out

“I believe in love the verb, not the noun.”
Greg Behrendt, Rubaiyat

“Sometimes the one who is running from the Life/Death/Life nature insists on thinking of love as a boon only. Yet love in its fullest form is a series of deaths and rebirths. We let go of one phase, one aspect of love, and enter another. Passion dies and is brought back. Pain is chased away and surfaces another time. To love means to embrace and at the same time to withstand many endings, and many many beginnings- all in the same relationship.”
Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“Because introverts are typically good listeners and, at least, have the appearance of calmness, we are attractive to emotionally needy people. Introverts, gratified that other people are initiating with them, can easily get caught in these exhausting and unsatisfying relationships.”
Adam S. McHugh The Rosie Project

“Learn to deal with the fact that you are not a perfect person but you are a person that deserves respect and honesty.”
Pandora Poikilos, Laughable Loves


Marty McConnell Mythology

“To wisely live your life, you don’t need to know much
Omar Khayyám, The Bridges

“I believe in the immeasurable power of love; that true love can endure any circumstance and reach across any distance.”
Steve Maraboli, Eleanor & Park

“But why, why, why can’t people just say what they mean?”
Graeme Simsion, He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“Yes, it’s a well-known fact about you: you’re like death, you take everything.”
Milan Kundera, The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember

“Love cannot live where there is no trust.”
Edith Hamilton, Tender is the Night & The Last Tycoon

“What you want most you push away from you.
Tarjei Vesaas, The Time Traveler’s Wife

“You think that holding someone hard will bring them closer. You think that you can hold them so hard that you’ll still feel them, embossed on you, when you pull away.
Rainbow Rowell, Looking for Alaska

“A man is lucky if he is the first love of a woman. A woman is lucky if she is the last love of a man.”
Charles Dickens New Order

“The quickest way to rectify that mistake (choosing the wrong person) is by learning from that, moving on, and choosing much more wisely in the future.”
Greg Behrendt, The Lover’s Dictionary

“Mutual caring relationships require kindness and patience, tolerance, optimism, joy in the other’s achievements, confidence in oneself, and the ability to give without undue thought of gain.”
Fred Rogers, Love Quotes for the Ages. Specifically Ages 19-91.

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Let’s get right in there, Do you have a boyfriend or a girlfriend?

    • Yeah we’re really close
    • No… Never have
    • No but I think my crush may ask me out?
    • Yes but it’s not serious
  • Question of

    How old are you?

    • 13 or 14
    • 17+
    • 11 or younger
    • 15 – 16
    • 12
  • Question of

    What is you ‘kisser’s’ personality?

    • Dark mysterious or shy
    • Immature, bad boy, with his friends all the time
    • Hot, Hot and HOT!
    • Sweet, caring and respectful.
  • Question of

    Lips, wet or dry?

    • Saliva for the win!
    • Chapstick or vasaline always helps
    • Dry lips… Gross
    • Dry lips, I like it rough 😉
  • Question of

    What is your favorite kissing position?

    • Cuddling up on the sofa
    • Kneeling
    • Lying on top or underneath them
    • Or in the bed 😉
    • Standing and hugging
  • Question of

    How fast moving are your relationships?

    • First date and you know it! 😉
    • I want to make sure they’re the one
    • They are not ‘moving’ at all, I’ve never had one
    • Slow but steady
  • Question of

    Are you a shy or outgoing person?

    • Outgoing, I’ll jump at any opportunity
    • God I’m really shy
    • I have no idea?
    • A bit of both
  • Question of

    How do you like (or think you would like) your kisses?

    • Fast and furious
    • Slow at first but it’s romantic
    • Meaningful but sexy
    • Lil peck on the cheek
    • ESKIMO!
  • Question of

    Do you have anyone at school or college or work or whatever that you like and could have a shot with?

    • Yes! There’s this really cute boy in my maths class…. He’s so cute..(goes on and on about this boy)
    • Duh my boyfriend/girlfriend!
    • There’s this girl/guy who I like and they asked me out to a romantic restaurant, I think it will happen then
    • I met this guy/girl at work the other day, I think their into me
    • Nah I like nobody and nobody likes me (Hey I bet you loads of people like you but you just don’t know it yet)
  • Question of

    A guy you know from school, comes up to you, asks you out and then goes in for the kiss, what do you do?

    • If he’s hot then he’ll yeah!
    • Probably not I don’t like to rush into things
    • Maybe depends if I like his personality
    • Fuck off dude! I’ve got a boyfriend!
  • Question of

    What is your favourite eye colour?

    • Blue-green
    • Brown
    • Blue-grey
    • Bright green
    • Hazel
  • Question of

    Hope you enjoyed the quiz!

    • Okay
    • Is it finished already?
    • Thank the Lord!
    • This was fun
    • Why so soon
  • Question of

    When you think about your future first kiss, do you feel more happy or nervous about it?

    • Both
    • Happy
    • Nervous
    • Absolutely terrified
  • Question of

    Which of the following special locations would you like your first kiss to take place in?

    • On top of a mountain
    • Disneyland
    • On a beach
    • In Las Vegas
  • Question of

    On a scale of 1-10 (with 10 being the highest), how often do you think about your future first kiss?

    • 9
    • 8
    • 6
    • 3
  • Question of

    Do you think that your first kiss will be a disaster or will it be magical like fireworks in the sky?

    • It will be magical like fireworks.
    • I guess we’ll find out soon.
    • I think it will just be OK.
    • It’s going to be a total disaster.
  • Question of

    Who is going to make the first move when it comes to the big first kiss: you or your crush?

    • Me
    • Hopefully them
    • It depends on the moment.
    • I don’t think I’m ready to think about this.
  • Question of

    Do you already know who you want to kiss or are you still waiting for that special someone in your life?

    • I already know who I want to kiss.
    • I know who I want to kiss, but I don’t think they want to kiss me.
    • I have mixed feelings about this whole kissing thing.
    • I have no idea who I want to kiss yet.
  • Question of

    Will the future first kiss involve French kissing or just a small peck on the lips?

    • French kissing
    • Maybe not French kissing, but it will be a good first kiss!
    • Probably just a small peck on the lips
    • I have no idea.
  • Question of

    How would you describe the type of attraction that you feel with your crush?

    • Emotional attraction
    • Romantic attraction
    • Physical attraction
    • I’m not really sure.
  • Question of

    There are several great kissing scenes in movies, but which one would you like your first kiss to resemble?

    • The rainy kissing scene in ‘The Notebook’
    • The upside-down kissing scene in ‘Spider-Man’
    • The romantic kissing scene in ‘Titanic’
    • The first kissing scene in ‘Twilight’
  • Question of

    Are you confident in your kissing skills, or do you think you’re going to need some practice first?

    • I feel confident in my kissing skills.
    • I feel somewhat confident in my kissing skills.
    • I have a tiny bit of confidence in my kissing skills.
    • I’m going to need quite a bit of practice first before I become a great kisser.
  • Question of

    If you were kissing someone with bad breath, would you stop them or keep going with the kiss?

    • I would probably keep going.
    • It depends on how bad their breath is.
    • I would probably stop them.
    • I’m not really sure.
  • Question of

    Speed is important when it comes to the first kiss. Will your first kiss be more slow or fast?

    • It depends on the moment.
    • Slow
    • Somewhere in the middle
    • Fast
  • Question of

    If your first kiss ends up being a disaster, will you laugh it off or will you be upset by it?

    • I’ll probably laugh it off.
    • Maybe a bit of both
    • I would feel upset with the whole situation.
    • I would feel very upset with myself.
  • Question of

    Have you done any research so far when it comes to kissing, or will you let your instincts take the lead?

    • I’ve done quite a bit of research.
    • I’ve done a little bit of research.
    • I’ll let my instincts take the lead.
    • Do romantic movies count as research?
  • Question of

    If you could control the weather during your first kiss, would you make the sky more rainy or sunny?

    • Sunny
    • Rainy
    • Snowy
    • Cloudy
  • Question of

    Would you rather kiss someone who is more experienced or someone who is a beginner?

    • It doesn’t matter to me.
    • I’ll go for someone who is more experienced with kissing.
    • Hopefully they’re somewhere in the middle of these two.
    • I’d rather kiss someone who is a beginner.
  • Question of

    Are you going to tell your crush that you want to kiss them or will you make more subtle moves?

    • I’ll be vocal about it.
    • Maybe a bit of both
    • I’ll make more subtle moves.
    • Neither, I’m too scared to show how I feel.
  • Question of

    How many dates would you want to have with your crush before sharing your first kiss with them?

    • Just one date
    • 2-3 dates
    • 4-5 dates
    • At least 6 dates

Are you ready for your first kiss?

When will you have your first kiss?