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This is an age-old question that I have heard a variety of positions on, can males and ladies you need to be buddies?
The simple truth is ‘yes’ it may happen, but there should be one certain component that guarantees everything goes easily.
That component is deficiencies in romantic feelings.

As lengthy as possible both take a look at one another and still have NO feelings of lust, romance or attraction, then friendship can blossom. In cases like this, you’ve their finest interests in mind. You are there on their behalf without any reason. You may be honest together, support them through their good and the bad, and become constantly encouraging and passionate regarding their dating and relationship encounters.

Friendship
However, where things end up with complicated happens when either individuals develop more powerful and much more intense feelings for your partner. The friendship is not likely to work. The main reason, jealousy, possessiveness, anger and heartbreak.
“I love you. I hate you. I like you. I hate you. I love you. I think you’re stupid. I think you’re a loser. I think you’re wonderful. I want to be with you. I don’t want to be with you. I would never date you. I hate you. I love you…..I think the madness started the moment we met and you shook my hand. Did you have a disease or something?”
Shannon L. Alder Paranormalcy

“We’re taught that in life, we should try to look on the bright side. Not in this case. In this case, assume rejection first. Assume you’re the rule, not the exception. It’s liberating. But we also know it’s not an easy concept. -He’s not just into you”
Greg Behrendt Break Up, Don’t Break Down

“I don’t understand dating.. and the other things that people do.. all I know is that you ought to find the one you recognize. The one who gives you four arms, four legs, four eyes, and has the other half of your heart. There’s only one of those, so what are all the other things for? Like dating?”
C. JoyBell C. The Science of Single: One Woman’s Grand Experiment in Modern Dating, Creating Chemistry, and Finding L ove

“…sometimes I get tired. Sometimes I get bored. And sometimes all I want, more than anything else in the world, is to go on a freaking date.”
Kiersten White, The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“Your relationship may be “Breaking Up,” but you won’t be “Breaking Down.” If anything your correcting a mistake that was hurting four people, you and the person your with, not to mention the two people who you were destined to meet.”
D. Ivan Young, Local Girls

“I believe with all my heart that the cliches are true, that we are our own best friends and best company, and that if you’re not right for yourself, it’s impossible to be right for anyone.”
Rachel Machacek, Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment

“The more you talk about it, rehash it, rethink it, cross analyze it, debate it, respond to it, get paranoid about it, compete with it, complain about it, immortalize it, cry over it, kick it, defame it, stalk it, gossip about it, pray over it, put it down or dissect its motives it continues to rot in your brain. It is dead. It is over. It is gone. It is done. It is time to bury it because it is smelling up your life and no one wants to be near your rotted corpse of memories and decaying attitude. Be the funeral director of your life and bury that thing!”
Shannon L. Alder He’s Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys

“Better to put your heart on the line, risk everything, and walk away with nothing than play it safe. Love is a lot of things, but “safe” isn’t one of them.”
Mandy Hale, Mend My Broken Heart

“…he had a way of taking your hand which made it clear he’d have to be the one to let go.”
Alice Hoffman, Paper Towns

“A man fishes for two reasons: he’s either sport fishing or fishing to eat, which means he’s either going to try to catch the biggest fish he can, take a picture of it, admire it with his buddies and toss it back to sea, or he’s going to take that fish on home, scale it, fillet it, toss it in some cornmeal, fry it up, and put it on his plate. This, I think, is a great analogy for how men seek out women.”
Steve Harvey, Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire

“There will never be a good time, financially, to get married, unless you’re Shaq or Ray Romano. But somehow people manage. If your man is using money as an excuse not to marry you, it’s your relationship that’s insecure, not his bank account.”
Greg Behrendt, Sugar Daddy

“Cheaters never prosper. (Because they suck.) ”
Greg Behrendt Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment

“It is our wounds that create in us a desire to reach for miracles. The fulfillment of such miracles depends on whether we let our wounds pull us down or lift us up towards our dreams.”
Jocelyn Soriano, Wonder

“Getting you a date to prom is so hard that the hypothetical idea itself is actually used to cut diamonds,” I added. Radar tapped a locker twice with his fist to show his approval, and then came back with another. “Ben, getting you a date to prom is so hard that the American government believes the problem cannot be solved with diplomacy, but will instead require force.”
John Green, The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“Well, I’m sure you’ll find someone
J.K. Rowling, Letters of John Adams, Addressed to His Wife

“Dating is like trying to make a meal out of leftovers. Some leftovers actually get better when they’ve had a little time to mature. But others should be thrown out right away, No matter how you try to warm them up, they’re never as good as when they were new.”
Lisa Kleypas, Succubus Blues

“We men are very simple people: if we like what we see, we’re coming over there. If we don’t want anything from you, we’re not coming over there. Period. Please highlight this part right here so you can always remind yourself the next time a man steps to you: a man always wants something. Always. And when it comes to women, that plan is always to find out two things: (1) if you’re willing to sleep with him, and (2) if you are, how much it will cost to get you to sleep with him.”
Steve Harvey, The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“A friend of mine told a story about a date with a guy she was really excited about: He stood her up. He then called her, begging her forgiveness and giving some excuse. She told him to get lost, telling him that he only gets one shot with her, and he blew it.”
Greg Behrendt, Liz Tuccillo Blind Willow, Sleeping Woman

“If you have to convince someone to stay with you then they have already left.”
Shannon L. Alder Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment

“I think we’re too young to be dating. I mean I don’t see what the rush is.” Summer says.
R.J. Palacio, I Left My Back Door Open

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    How would you describe your significant other in one word?

    • Kind
    • Fiery
    • Rebellious
    • Calm
  • Question of

    Shy versus outgoing: which category does your significant other fall under?

    • Outgoing
    • Shy
    • A little bit of both
    • I’m not 100% sure.
  • Question of

    What kind of animal lies within the soul of your significant other?

    • Kitten
    • Great white shark
    • Grizzly bear
    • Goldfish
  • Question of

    If your significant other found a wallet on the ground, what would they do with it?

    • They would give it to the police.
    • They would keep the wallet.
    • They would try to find the owner of the wallet.
    • They would probably just leave it on the ground.
  • Question of

    Does your significant other like to pay for your meals during dinner dates?

    • Absolutely
    • No, they never pay for me.
    • They occasionally pay for me.
    • We usually split the bill down the middle.
  • Question of

    How often does your significant other forget about your birthday?

    • Never
    • Every single year
    • This has only happened once or twice.
    • I’m not sure if this has ever happened before.
  • Question of

    Would you describe your significant other as the ‘hopeless romantic’ type?

    • Absolutely
    • Nope, not at all.
    • It depends on the occasion.
    • They are a little bit like this.
  • Question of

    Name something that your significant other can improve on in the relationship.

    • Nothing, they’re practically perfect.
    • They need to think before they speak.
    • Communication skills
    • They need to have a better work ethic.
  • Question of

    Which of these seven deadly sins does your significant other commit?

    • Pride
    • Wrath
    • Greed
    • Gluttony
  • Question of

    Is your significant other the type of person who gets mad easily?

    • No, not at all
    • Yes, I’m not sure what’s wrong with them.
    • They occasionally become angry.
    • Yes, but they’re passive-aggressive about it.
  • Question of

    Does your significant other talk more than they listen?

    • No, they listen more than they talk.
    • Yes, they always have something to say during a conversation.
    • It depends on the conversation.
    • Yes, but I don’t mind.
  • Question of

    What would your significant other do for you if you were sick?

    • They would make me soup or buy me medicine.
    • Nothing at all
    • They would cuddle with me.
    • I’m not sure what they would do.
  • Question of

    How would you rate your significant other’s cooking skills on a scale of 1-10?

    • 9-10
    • 1-3
    • 7-8
    • 4-6
  • Question of

    Would your significant other rather make or buy you a birthday card?

    • They would definitely make me one.
    • They wouldn’t get me a card for my birthday.
    • They’ve done both of these before, so I’m not sure.
    • They would probably buy one.
  • Question of

    Which of these Star Wars characters matches the personality of your significant other?

    • Han Solo
    • Princess Leia
    • Darth Vader
    • Kylo Ren
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