When Will I Find My Soulmate?

 

 

Finding a soulmate is one of the major concerns of the 21st century. If you are seriously finding a partner then it might get very difficult sometimes. Much of it happens due to our own perception of relationships or rather ideal relationships. This ideal perception is built by movies, TV shows, and celebs. If somehow your perception is heavily inspired by idealism then please get rid of it because more likely than not you will find a partner with similar thought patterns then it will be a very toxic relationship.

The reason for it is simple, idealism doesn’t factor in reality. If you factor in reality then the very idea of getting into a relationship would look very normal. Relationships also fail because people don’t know what they want from their partners. Even if they do they don’t do it right. In my opinion, the number one thing to look for in a partner is to know what are their goals in life. If those goals are compatible with your goals then they are a potential match for you.

Now the second thing you should check is whether they are having any loose connections with their ex. If they still have not moved on from their ex then it is a clear red flag. You should not get into that kind of relationship.If your potential mate has passed those two tests then you could move on to know about their preferences. Preferences are also a great way to find the thought-pattern of the person. There will be clues to that real personality that the person is probably hiding.

This is why you should talk to them for several months before getting into it. I could warn you that relationships are pretty tricky stuff and you need to handle it very carefully. If you don’t do this then you will have a hard time during the relationship. It is also true that relationships cost a huge amount of time, money, and energy. These are very precious resources and anybody should not waste them. While we or for that matter, anyone else on the planet could not predict when you would find your soulmate. Hence play it only for entertainment purposes.

“To say that one waits a lifetime for his soulmate to come around is a paradox. People eventually get sick of waiting, take a chance on someone, and by the art of commitment become soulmates, which takes a lifetime to perfect.”
― Criss Jami, Venus in Arms

It is an absolute human certainty that no one can know his own beauty or perceive a sense of his own worth until it has been reflected back to him in the mirror of another loving, caring human being.”
― John Joseph Powell, The Secret of Staying in Love

“There is nothing on earth more beautiful to me than your smile…no sound sweeter than your laughter…no pleasure greater than holding you in my arms. I realized today that I could never live without you, stubborn little hellion that you are. In this life and the next, you’re my only hope of happiness. Tell me, Lillian, dearest love…how can you have reached so far inside my heart?”
― Lisa Kleypas, It Happened One Autumn

“when you meet that person. a person. one of your soulmates. let the connection. relationship. be what it is. it may be five mins. five hours. five days. five months. five years. a lifetime. five lifetimes. let it manifest itself the way it is meant to. it has an organic destiny. this way if it stays or if it leaves, you will be softer. from having been loved this authentically. souls come into. return. open. and sweep through your life for a myriad of reasons. let them be who. and what they are meant.”
― Nayyirah Waheed

“And he knew that at that moment, they understood each other perfectly, and when he told her what he was going to do now, she would not say ‘be careful’ or ‘don’t do it’, but she would accept his decision because she would not have expected anything less of him.”
― J.K. Rowling, Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Do you like where you live, at least somewhat?

    • Yes
    • No
    • Somewhat
  • Question of

    Do you like your job?

    • Yes
    • No
    • It’s ok
  • Question of

    Are you saving money?

    • Yes
    • No
    • Somewhat
  • Question of

    Have you had at least one solid, awful, long relationship?

    • Yes
    • Not long, but respectably long-ish…
    • No
  • Question of

    Do you like who you are?

    • Yes
    • No
    • Somewhat
  • Question of

    Do you know what you like in a partner?

    • Yes
    • For the most part!
    • Not exactly.
  • Question of

    Do you have hobbies?

    • Yes
    • No, aside from TV and social media,… and napping, I have nothing.
  • Question of

    Are you shy?

    • No
    • Kind of!
    • Yes
  • Question of

    Are you very particular?

    • No
    • Sometimes
    • Always
  • Question of

    Are you a perfectionist?

    • No
    • Sometimes
    • Always
  • Question of

    Do you ever get complimented on how you are as a person, or on your personality?

    • Yes
    • Sometimes
    • Never
  • Question of

    Do you handle stress poorly?

    • No
    • Sometimes
    • Always
  • Question of

    Are you phased by obstacles?

    • No
    • Depends on the obstacle
    • Yes
  • Question of

    Are you lively and fun?

    • Yes
    • No
    • Somewhat
  • Question of

    Do you have a friendly face?

    • Yes
    • No
    • I’d say just a normal… kind of blank face.

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