When will my crush fall in love with me?


“I want to be in a relationship where you telling me you love me is just a ceremonious validation of what you already show me.”
Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free

“Never marry at all, Dorian. Men marry because they are tired, women, because they are curious: both are disappointed.”
Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray

“Man, when you lose your laugh you lose your footing.”
Ken Kesey, One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest

“Every couple needs to argue now and then. Just to prove that the relationship is strong enough to survive. Long-term relationships, the ones that matter, are all about weathering the peaks and the valleys.”
Nicholas Sparks, Safe Haven

“I know enough to know that no woman should ever marry a man who hated his mother.”
Martha Gellhorn, Selected Letters

“Maybe its like you said before, all of us being cracked open. Like each of us starts out as a watertight vessel. And then things happen – these people leave us, or don’t love us, or don’t get us, or we don’t get them, and we lose and fail and hurt one another. And the vessel starts to crack in places. And I mean, yeah once the vessel cracks open, the end becomes inevitable. Once it starts to rain inside the Osprey, it will never be remodeled. But there is all this time between when the cracks start to open up and when we finally fall apart. And its only that time that we see one another, because we see out of ourselves through our cracks and into others through theirs. When did we see each other face to face? Not until you saw into my cracks and I saw into yours. Before that we were just looking at ideas of each other, like looking at your window shade, but never seeing inside. But once the vessel cracks, the light can get in. The light can get out.”
John Green, Paper Towns

“People like to say love is unconditional, but it’s not, and even if it was unconditional, it’s still never free. There’s always an expectation attached. They always want something in return. Like they want you to be happy or whatever and that makes you automatically responsible for their happiness because they won’t be happy unless you are … I just don’t want that responsibility.”
Katja Millay, The Sea of Tranquility

“For there to be betrayal, there would have to have been trust first.”
Suzanne Collins, The Hunger Games

“Even though you may want to move forward in your life, you may have one foot on the brakes. In order to be free, we must learn how to let go. Release the hurt. Release the fear. Refuse to entertain your old pain. The energy it takes to hang onto the past is holding you back from a new life. What is it you would let go of today?”
Mary Manin Morrissey Dairy Queen

“When you don’t talk, there’s a lot of stuff that ends up not getting said.”
Catherine Gilbert Murdock, Venus in Arms

“Usually adult males who are unable to make emotional connections with the women they choose to be intimate with are frozen in time, unable to allow themselves to love for fear that the loved one will abandon them. If the first woman they passionately loved, the mother, was not true to her bond of love, then how can they trust that their partner will be true to love. Often in their adult relationships these men act out again and again to test their partner’s love. While the rejected adolescent boy imagines that he can no longer receive his mother’s love because he is not worthy, as a grown man he may act out in ways that are unworthy and yet demand of the woman in his life that she offer him unconditional love. This testing does not heal the wound of the past, it merely reenacts it, for ultimately the woman will become weary of being tested and end the relationship, thus reenacting the abandonment. This drama confirms for many men that they cannot put their trust in love. They decide that it is better to put their faith in being powerful, in being dominant.”
bell hooks The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember

“To say that one waits a lifetime for his soulmate to come around is a paradox. People eventually get sick of waiting, take a chance on someone, and by the art of commitment become soulmates, which takes a lifetime to perfect.”
Criss Jami, Between the Tides

“Part of the problem with the word ‘disabilities’ is that it immediately suggests an inability to see or hear or walk or do other things that many of us take for granted. But what of people who can’t feel? Or talk about their feelings? Or manage their feelings in constructive ways? What of people who aren’t able to form close and strong relationships? And people who cannot find fulfillment in their lives, or those who have lost hope, who live in disappointment and bitterness and find in life no joy, no love? These, it seems to me, are the real disabilities.”
Fred Rogers, The Fall

“Cheating and lying aren’t struggles, they’re reasons to break up.”
Patti Callahan Henry, Along for the Ride

“Our wounds are often the openings into the best and most beautiful part of us.”
David Richo At First Sight

“I used to advertise my loyalty and I don’t believe there is a single person I loved that I didn’t eventually betray.”
Albert Camus, The Intern

“If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you’re allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind.”
Shannon L. Alder Poems from the Heart

“Relationships dont always make sense. Especially from the outside”
Sarah Dessen, Waiting for You

“Lots of things can be fixed. Things can be fixed. But many times, relationships between people cannot be fixed, because they should not be fixed. You’re aboard a ship setting sail, and the other person has joined the inland circus, or is boarding a different ship, and you just can’t be with each other anymore. Because you shouldn’t be.”
C. JoyBell C. Remember Me

“Every couple has ups and downs, every couple argues, and that’s the thing—you’re a couple, and couples can’t function without trust.”
Nicholas Sparks, The Cocktail Party

“Those sweet lips. My, oh my, I could kiss those lips all night long.
Jess C. Scott, Messages from the Masters: Tapping Into the Power of Love

“I may not always be with you
Marc Wambolt, Straight Up and Dirty

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Does your crush treat you or talk to you differently than he does other girls?

    • He treats me nicely, but no different than other girls
    • YES, he is way more charming to me than other girls
    • He rarely talks to me, if ever
    • I suppose so, but I think he is just trying to be nice, he might suspect I have a crush on him
  • Question of

    Does he go out of his way to impress or charm you?

    • He treats me as if I was one of the guys, I don’t get any special treatment
    • He does not try and impress me, but he is nice to me
    • He likes to make me laugh, but his is always a funny person
    • He is always trying to impress me or make me laugh
  • Question of

    Have you ever talked or even joked about dating?

    • Yes, and he seemed happy with the idea
    • He wouldn’t even think of me as an option of someone to date
    • Yes, but he was joking, but maybe he wasn’t joking at all
    • No, or when we talked about it, he said it as if it was the funniest thing ever
  • Question of

    Has he ever declared his love for you?

    • He says he loves me as a friend
    • He said he was in love with me, but as a joke
    • He doesn’t say I love you to anyone because he is secretly a crab and they can not speak
  • Question of

    Have you ever kissed him

    • I have not kissed him but we have held hands before lol this is sad:(
    • I would be too afraid he would accidentally pinch me with his claws
    • I kissed him one time without thinking, he kissed back and we never talked about it after that
    • Of course I have kissed him, we have been happily married with 3 children for 12 years
  • Question of

    When he told you he was in love with you, what were his eyes saying

    • Cabbages
    • I want to stay with you for the rest of my life, you are my forever girl
    • I don’t care if you turn into the moon to replace a dead fish I will still love you
    • What is happening I feel like my brain has a mind of its own
  • Question of

    Does he agree on your opinion that Katara and Aang belong together, or does he think Zuko and Katara would make a good couple?

    • He has never seen ‘Avatar: The Last Airbender’ because he lives inside of the beach, not on it, but inside of it.
    • He thinks that Zuko and Katara would have made a good couple, but not as good as him and you
    • He thinks Aang and Katara belong together, and also thinks that Sokka and Suki are a total power couple and belong together, and Katara and Zuko would most likely end up in an unhappy marriage
    • He thinks that Katara and Aang belong together, but its weird that Aang is shorter that Katara
  • Question of

    Does he think that if you are not a kid you can not watch kid shows?

    • He has never watched TV, where he comes from, you are lucky if you are able to avoid that touch of mans finger for your whole life
    • NO WAY, he is not a stupid fatty
    • He thinks that everything should stay where it belongs and that if anyone does not follow the suggested age of a lego set then the will be judged by everyone ever
    • No, but he is not interested in kids shows either
  • Question of

    Has he ever ask you to do something you were afraid of doing, like jumping off the high dive at the pool, or stuff like that, even though he knew that you were embarrassed to have to decline an offer to do it

    • Clippy Clappy claw things may break my bones, but word can never hurt me, because I have no soul
    • Yes but he apologized when he realized he had hurt my feelings
    • No, he would never hurt me, because he know if he does, I would pack my bags immediately, and leave with Timmy, because the other 2 kids know he is my favorite and I would move to Chicago and start a new life where Timmy can join a better basketball team than the one in the old hick town
    • No
  • Question of

    Do you think he might like me

    • His brain isn’t big enough to process emotions, let alone like someone
    • Well he did marry me didn’t he
    • I guess but you never can tell with them boys
    • Yes
  • Question of

    Do you think you like this guy?

    • Yes! I really do.
    • Well no. But this guy is really cool.
    • I don’t know.
    • I don’t think so! I don’t even know what am I doing here?
  • Question of

    How often do you think about him?

    • I rarely think of him.
    • Quite often.
    • Only when I see him.
    • Just a few times during the day.
  • Question of

    When you see him, how do you act/feel?

    • I just look at him and smile, and he smiles back 🙂 Or I go up and talk to him/he comes up and talks to me.
    • I turn away/or blush!
    • I stare at him the whole time, but he never looks at me.
    • My heart beats so much and I get funny happy feelings.
    • I don’t really feel anything, I act casual.
  • Question of

    Have you both made eye contact?

    • Yeah, we do it all the time, when we talk to each other.
    • We’ve never made eye contact. 🙁
    • Yes! And we stared into each others eyes for what seemed like forever!
    • We’ve only made eye contact a couple of times…
    • What?
  • Question of

    When you walk past/near each other, what do you do?

    • We smile and say hi.
    • We both look at each other, that’s it.
    • I never really see him.
    • Usually we talk for a bit.
    • I sometimes see him, but I only look at him for like a second.
  • Question of

    When you are walking by, do you sometimes look for him?

    • Sometimes…
    • Yes, I do that basically all the time, I always wanna see him.
    • Uhh… No.
  • Question of

    Do you dream about being with him in the future?

    • No, not really.
    • Yeah, we go out and have tones of fun together. 🙂
    • Yeah, he asks me out. 🙂
    • Yep, we have kids and everything or we get married.
    • Umm… sometimes, but we only talk and stuff.
  • Question of

    If you could only see him once a month, how would you feel?

    • OMG! I’d panic, well I’d be really sad.
    • Oh well, if it happens, it happens.
    • I usually see him less than that, so, yeah I would!
    • Well, that’s how often I see him now, so…
    • What? Am I supposed to feel something?
  • Question of

    When you see him talking to other girls you feel:

    • Bit angry, but you don’t really care that much.
    • You feel like your heart is being broken.
    • He is allowed to talk to girls. Why should I care?
    • You wanna whack the face off that bitch!
    • Com’on. Why would I care?
  • Question of

    Do you wanna smile at him but can’t?

    • No, I don’t want him to see me smile at him!
    • I smile at him all the time, I love it!
    • I wanna, but every time we make eye contact I get nervous and can’t.
    • No Way! What does that even mean?
    • No, man. I don’t think that way.
  • Question of

    Do you wish you could just walk up to him and give him a hug?

    • What!?
    • Yeah, definitely!
    • Yes!… I mean that would be cute.

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