When will you have your first kiss?


“It is an absolute human certainty that no one can know his own beauty or perceive a sense of his own worth until it has been reflected back to him in the mirror of another loving, caring human being.”
John Joseph Powell, The Secret of Staying in Love

“I was suffering the easily foreseeable consequences. Addiction is the hallmark of every infatuation-based love story. It all begins when the object of your adoration bestows upon you a heady, hallucinogenic dose of something you never dared to admit you wanted-an emotional speedball, perhaps, of thunderous love and roiling excitement. Soon you start craving that intense attention, with a hungry obsession of any junkie. When the drug is witheld, you promptly turn sick, crazy, and depleted (not to mention resentful of the dealer who encouraged this addiction in the first place but now refuses to pony up the good stuff anymore– despite the fact that you know he has it hidden somewhere, goddamn it, because he used to give it to you for free). Next stage finds you skinny and shaking in a corner, certain only that you would sell your soul or rob your neighbors just to have ‘that thing’ even one more time. Meanwhile, the object of your adoration has now become repulsed by you. He looks at you like you’re someone he’s never met before, much less someone he once loved with high passion. The irony is,you can hardly blame him. I mean, check yourself out. You’re a pathetic mess,unrecognizable even to your own eyes. So that’s it. You have now reached infatuation’s final destination– the complete and merciless devaluation of self.” – pg 20-21”
Elizabeth Gilbert Sputnik Sweetheart

“Of course it hurt that we could never love each other in a physical way. We would have been far more happy if we had. But that was like the tides, the change of seasons–something immutable, an immovable destiny we could never alter. No matter how cleverly we might shelter it, our delicate friendship wasn’t going to last forever. We were bound to reach a dead end. That was painfully clear.”
Haruki Murakami, The Wonderful Wizard of Oz

“I think you are wrong to want a heart. It makes most people unhappy. If you only knew it, you are in luck not to have a heart.”
L. Frank Baum, The Wise Man’s Fear

“nothing in this world was more difficult than love.”
Gabriel García Márquez The Goddess Test

“Books are a poor substitute for female companionship, but they are easier to find.”
Patrick Rothfuss, I Like You: Hospitality Under the Influence

“I care,” he said in a trembling voice. “I care so much that I do not know how to tell you without it seeming inconsequential compared to how I feel. Even if I am distant at times and seem as if I do not want to be with you, it is only because this scares me, too.”
Aimee Carter, The Indigo Spell

“Don’t leave a piece of jewelry at his house so you can go back and get it later; he may be with his real girlfriend.”
Amy Sedaris, Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment

“Because I can’t help doing it,” he said with a shrug. “And hey, if I keep loving you, maybe you’ll eventually crack and love me too. Hell, I’m pretty sure you’re already half in love with me.”
Richelle Mead, Rules of Attraction

“All I’m telling you to do is to be smart about it. Know that if this man isn’t looking for a serious relationship, you’re not going to change his mind just because you two are going on dates and being intimate. You could be the most perfect woman on the Lord’s green earth-you’re capable of interesting conversation, you cook a mean breakfast, you hand out backrubs like sandwiches, you’re independent (which means, to him, that you’re not going to be in his pockets)-but if he’s not ready for a serious relationship, he going to treat you like sports fish.”
Steve Harvey, Emma

“Every woman that finally figured out her worth, has picked up her suitcases of pride and boarded a flight to freedom, which landed in the valley of change.”
Shannon L. Alder Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“We kiss all the time.” I clear my throat, then add, “We just…do it in private.”
Simone Elkeles, I Wrote This For You

“Seldom, very seldom, does complete truth belong to any human disclosure; seldom can it happen that something is not a little disguised or a little mistaken.”
Jane Austen, Max

“I find the best way to love someone is not to change them, but instead, help them reveal the greatest version of themselves.”
Steve Maraboli, The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“You’re just another story I can’t tell anymore.”
pleasefindthis, Life, the Truth, and Being Free

“He could totally be your boyfriend,” [Angel] went on with annoying persistance. “You guys could get married. I could be like a junior bridesmaid. Total could be your flower dog.”
James Patterson, Breaking Bread: Insurgent Black Intellectual Life

“Moving on is easy. It’s staying moved on that’s trickier.”
Katerina Stoykova Klemer The English Patient

“Sometimes it takes a heartbreak to shake us awake & help us see we are worth so much more than we’re settling for.”
Mandy Hale, Letters to a Young Poet

“A fit, healthy body—that is the best fashion statement”
Jess C Scott Committed: A Skeptic Makes Peace with Marriage

“How would your life be different if…You walked away from gossip and verbal defamation? Let today be the day…You speak only the good you know of other people and encourage others to do the same.”
Steve Maraboli, Wicked Lovely

“There comes a time in your life when you have to choose to turn the page, write another book or simply close it.”
Shannon L. Alder All About Love: New Visions

“We have to recognise that there cannot be relationships unless there is commitment, unless there is loyalty, unless there is love, patience, persistence.”
Cornel West, Warbreaker

“We die containing a richness of lovers and tribes, tastes we have swallowed, bodies we have plunged into and swum up as if rivers of wisdom, characters we have climbed into as if trees, fears we have hidden in as if caves.
Michael Ondaatje, How to Win Friends and Influence People

“only someone who is ready for everything, who doesn’t exclude any experience, even the most incomprehensible, will live the relationship with another person as something alive and will himself sound the depths of his own being.”
Rainer Maria Rilke, Seven Words of Jesus and Mary: Lessons from Cana and Calvary

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Do you think that your first kiss will be a disaster or will it be magical like fireworks in the sky?

    • It will be magical like fireworks.
    • I guess we’ll find out soon.
    • I think it will just be OK.
    • It’s going to be a total disaster.
  • Question of

    Who is going to make the first move when it comes to the big first kiss: you or your crush?

    • Me
    • Hopefully them
    • It depends on the moment.
    • I don’t think I’m ready to think about this.
  • Question of

    Do you already know who you want to kiss or are you still waiting for that special someone in your life?

    • I already know who I want to kiss.
    • I know who I want to kiss, but I don’t think they want to kiss me.
    • I have mixed feelings about this whole kissing thing.
    • I have no idea who I want to kiss yet.
  • Question of

    Will the future first kiss involve French kissing or just a small peck on the lips?

    • French kissing
    • Maybe not French kissing, but it will be a good first kiss!
    • Probably just a small peck on the lips
    • I have no idea.
  • Question of

    How would you describe the type of attraction that you feel with your crush?

    • Emotional attraction
    • Romantic attraction
    • Physical attraction
    • I’m not really sure.
  • Question of

    There are several great kissing scenes in movies, but which one would you like your first kiss to resemble?

    • The rainy kissing scene in ‘The Notebook’
    • The upside-down kissing scene in ‘Spider-Man’
    • The romantic kissing scene in ‘Titanic’
    • The first kissing scene in ‘Twilight’
  • Question of

    Are you confident in your kissing skills, or do you think you’re going to need some practice first?

    • I feel confident in my kissing skills.
    • I feel somewhat confident in my kissing skills.
    • I have a tiny bit of confidence in my kissing skills.
    • I’m going to need quite a bit of practice first before I become a great kisser.
  • Question of

    If you were kissing someone with bad breath, would you stop them or keep going with the kiss?

    • I would probably keep going.
    • It depends on how bad their breath is.
    • I would probably stop them.
    • I’m not really sure.
  • Question of

    Speed is important when it comes to the first kiss. Will your first kiss be more slow or fast?

    • It depends on the moment.
    • Slow
    • Somewhere in the middle
    • Fast
  • Question of

    If your first kiss ends up being a disaster, will you laugh it off or will you be upset by it?

    • I’ll probably laugh it off.
    • Maybe a bit of both
    • I would feel upset with the whole situation.
    • I would feel very upset with myself.
  • Question of

    Have you done any research so far when it comes to kissing, or will you let your instincts take the lead?

    • I’ve done quite a bit of research.
    • I’ve done a little bit of research.
    • I’ll let my instincts take the lead.
    • Do romantic movies count as research?
  • Question of

    If you could control the weather during your first kiss, would you make the sky more rainy or sunny?

    • Sunny
    • Rainy
    • Snowy
    • Cloudy
  • Question of

    Would you rather kiss someone who is more experienced or someone who is a beginner?

    • It doesn’t matter to me.
    • I’ll go for someone who is more experienced with kissing.
    • Hopefully they’re somewhere in the middle of these two.
    • I’d rather kiss someone who is a beginner.
  • Question of

    Are you going to tell your crush that you want to kiss them or will you make more subtle moves?

    • I’ll be vocal about it.
    • Maybe a bit of both
    • I’ll make more subtle moves.
    • Neither, I’m too scared to show how I feel.
  • Question of

    How many dates would you want to have with your crush before sharing your first kiss with them?

    • Just one date
    • 2-3 dates
    • 4-5 dates
    • At least 6 dates
  • Question of

    Do you get that ‘butterfly feeling’ in your stomach when you think about your crush?

    • Yes, all the time
    • Occasionally
    • No, not really
    • I’m not really sure.
  • Question of

    Would you rather share your first kiss with your celebrity crush or with your current crush?

    • My current crush
    • My celebrity crush
    • This is too difficult of a decision.
    • I’m getting too scared to kiss either of them.
  • Question of

    First of all do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend?

    • Yeah but we’re not really close
    • No????
    • Yes he/she is so beautiful ????
    • We just broke up????
  • Question of

    Do people find you attractive?

    • Yes I’m perfect????
    • Meh not really
    • Yeah kind of
    • No I look horrible ????
  • Question of

    Do you feel the need to have a partner?

    • No
    • I already have one????
    • No after my last one I’m a single pringle
    • Erm kind of
  • Question of

    Are you popular?

    • Yep everyone loves me????
    • No I barely have any friends
    • Yeah but not the most popular
    • About average
  • Question of

    Are you sociable?

    • Yeah I guess
    • No I hardly ever step out of my bed room
    • Yes I always go out
    • I go out sometimes
  • Question of

    Do you have breasts?( It’s okay if you don’t cos I know how you feel)

    • Nope they’re flat
    • Yep I’ve had them for over a year
    • They’re only tiny things
    • Yeah they’re kind of big
  • Question of

    How mature are you?

    • Kind of
    • Yep but not really
    • Yes I’m super mature
    • Not really
  • Question of

    How old are you?

    • Under 10
    • 10-12
    • Old enough to know that’s a rude question
    • 13-15
  • Question of

    Do you have a crush?

    • Nope I’m already taken
    • Millions
    • A few
    • Yes but only one
  • Question of

    And finally when do YOU think you’ll have your first kiss?

    • Pretty soon
    • Today or tomorrow
    • In a couple months
    • Never
  • Question of

    When you think about your future first kiss, do you feel more happy or nervous about it?

    • Both
    • Happy
    • Nervous
    • Absolutely terrified
  • Question of

    Which of the following special locations would you like your first kiss to take place in?

    • On top of a mountain
    • Disneyland
    • On a beach
    • In Las Vegas
  • Question of

    On a scale of 1-10 (with 10 being the highest), how often do you think about your future first kiss?

    • 8
    • 6
    • 3
    • 9

What will my first kiss be like?

Am I ready for my first kiss with my boyfriend?