Which Guy Do You Like?

 

“I want to be in a relationship where you telling me you love me is just a ceremonious validation of what you already show me.”
Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free

“Never marry at all, Dorian. Men marry because they are tired, women, because they are curious: both are disappointed.”
Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray

“Man, when you lose your laugh you lose your footing.”
Ken Kesey, One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest

“Every couple needs to argue now and then. Just to prove that the relationship is strong enough to survive. Long-term relationships, the ones that matter, are all about weathering the peaks and the valleys.”
Nicholas Sparks, Safe Haven

“I know enough to know that no woman should ever marry a man who hated his mother.”
Martha Gellhorn, Selected Letters

“Maybe its like you said before, all of us being cracked open. Like each of us starts out as a watertight vessel. And then things happen – these people leave us, or don’t love us, or don’t get us, or we don’t get them, and we lose and fail and hurt one another. And the vessel starts to crack in places. And I mean, yeah once the vessel cracks open, the end becomes inevitable. Once it starts to rain inside the Osprey, it will never be remodeled. But there is all this time between when the cracks start to open up and when we finally fall apart. And its only that time that we see one another, because we see out of ourselves through our cracks and into others through theirs. When did we see each other face to face? Not until you saw into my cracks and I saw into yours. Before that we were just looking at ideas of each other, like looking at your window shade, but never seeing inside. But once the vessel cracks, the light can get in. The light can get out.”
John Green, Paper Towns

“People like to say love is unconditional, but it’s not, and even if it was unconditional, it’s still never free. There’s always an expectation attached. They always want something in return. Like they want you to be happy or whatever and that makes you automatically responsible for their happiness because they won’t be happy unless you are … I just don’t want that responsibility.”
Katja Millay, The Sea of Tranquility

“For there to be betrayal, there would have to have been trust first.”
Suzanne Collins, The Hunger Games

“Even though you may want to move forward in your life, you may have one foot on the brakes. In order to be free, we must learn how to let go. Release the hurt. Release the fear. Refuse to entertain your old pain. The energy it takes to hang onto the past is holding you back from a new life. What is it you would let go of today?”
Mary Manin Morrissey Dairy Queen

“When you don’t talk, there’s a lot of stuff that ends up not getting said.”
Catherine Gilbert Murdock, Venus in Arms

“Usually adult males who are unable to make emotional connections with the women they choose to be intimate with are frozen in time, unable to allow themselves to love for fear that the loved one will abandon them. If the first woman they passionately loved, the mother, was not true to her bond of love, then how can they trust that their partner will be true to love. Often in their adult relationships these men act out again and again to test their partner’s love. While the rejected adolescent boy imagines that he can no longer receive his mother’s love because he is not worthy, as a grown man he may act out in ways that are unworthy and yet demand of the woman in his life that she offer him unconditional love. This testing does not heal the wound of the past, it merely reenacts it, for ultimately the woman will become weary of being tested and end the relationship, thus reenacting the abandonment. This drama confirms for many men that they cannot put their trust in love. They decide that it is better to put their faith in being powerful, in being dominant.”
bell hooks The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember

“To say that one waits a lifetime for his soulmate to come around is a paradox. People eventually get sick of waiting, take a chance on someone, and by the art of commitment become soulmates, which takes a lifetime to perfect.”
Criss Jami, Between the Tides

“Part of the problem with the word ‘disabilities’ is that it immediately suggests an inability to see or hear or walk or do other things that many of us take for granted. But what of people who can’t feel? Or talk about their feelings? Or manage their feelings in constructive ways? What of people who aren’t able to form close and strong relationships? And people who cannot find fulfillment in their lives, or those who have lost hope, who live in disappointment and bitterness and find in life no joy, no love? These, it seems to me, are the real disabilities.”
Fred Rogers, The Fall

“Cheating and lying aren’t struggles, they’re reasons to break up.”
Patti Callahan Henry, Along for the Ride

“Our wounds are often the openings into the best and most beautiful part of us.”
David Richo At First Sight

“I used to advertise my loyalty and I don’t believe there is a single person I loved that I didn’t eventually betray.”
Albert Camus, The Intern

“If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you’re allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind.”
Shannon L. Alder Poems from the Heart

“Relationships dont always make sense. Especially from the outside”
Sarah Dessen, Waiting for You

“Lots of things can be fixed. Things can be fixed. But many times, relationships between people cannot be fixed, because they should not be fixed. You’re aboard a ship setting sail, and the other person has joined the inland circus, or is boarding a different ship, and you just can’t be with each other anymore. Because you shouldn’t be.”
C. JoyBell C. Remember Me

“Every couple has ups and downs, every couple argues, and that’s the thing—you’re a couple, and couples can’t function without trust.”
Nicholas Sparks, The Cocktail Party

“Those sweet lips. My, oh my, I could kiss those lips all night long.
Jess C. Scott, Messages from the Masters: Tapping Into the Power of Love

“I may not always be with you
Marc Wambolt, Straight Up and Dirty

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Which guy do you snapchat, facetime, etc. with the most?

    • Guy A
    • Guy B
    • About the Same
  • Question of

    Does either guy talk to you in the hall, scare you, high-five you, etc?

    • Guy A
    • Guy B
    • Both/Neither
  • Question of

    Which have you known longer?

    • Guy A
    • Guy B
    • About the Same
  • Question of

    Do you know either guy’s family?

    • Guy A
    • Guy B
    • Both/Neither
  • Question of

    Which one is closer in age?

    • Guy A
    • Guy B
    • About the Same
  • Question of

    Which guy are you physically more attracted to? (looks)

    • Guy A
    • Guy B
    • Both/Neither
  • Question of

    Have you told either guy that you like him?

    • Guy A, and he doesn’t like me
    • Guy A, and he likes me
    • Guy B, and he doesn’t like me
    • Guy B, and he likes me
    • Both/Neither
  • Question of

    Are they single?

    • Both are single
    • Both are taken
    • A is single, B is taken
    • A is taken, B is single
  • Question of

    What do your friends think of either guy?

    • They like both
    • They don’t like either
    • They think Guy A is better
    • They think Guy B is better
  • Question of

    Which guy can you picture having a future with? (growing up, getting married, having kids)

    • Guy A
    • Guy B
    • Both/Neither
  • Question of

    Alright, go ahead and decide which one is ‘Person 1’ and which one is ‘Person 2’

    • Alright cool because Person 1 can be the one I like more!
    • Oh sweet I love person 2. heart heart love love!
    • ok.
  • Question of

    Who do you think is cuter?

    • Person 1!
    • Person 2!
    • Idk.
  • Question of

    Who do you think is HOTTER?

    • Person 1.
    • Person 2.
    • Don’t know.
    • Neither one is hot.
  • Question of

    Which one makes you laugh more?

    • Person 1.
    • Person 2.
    • Neither one makes me laugh.
    • Oh god, both!!!
  • Question of

    Picture yourself kissing person 1. How does it make you feel?

    • Oh my gosh. Like I reeeeeaaally want that to happen. Mmmm.
    • Eh, not so crazy about that thought.
    • Don’t really know.
  • Question of

    Now picture yourself kissing person 2.

    • I’m not feelin’ it.
    • Yes, please!!
    • Ugh, I like both A LOT.
  • Question of

    Can’t you just see it now? The mistletoe above you, the dim lights, the soft music. It’s the perfect romantic moment. Who would you like to be about to kiss?

    • Definitely person 1 in a moment like that.
    • Definitely person 2 in a moment like that.
    • Probably person 1. But I don’t know.
    • Probably person 2. But I don’t know.
    • Either one would be so great.
  • Question of

    Does person 1 like you?

    • Probably / yes.
    • Probably not / no.
  • Question of

    Does person 2 like you?

    • Probably not / no.
    • Probably / yes.
  • Question of

    Who’s easier to talk to?

    • Person 1.
    • Person 2.
    • Both….

How To Choose Between Two Guys

Which guy do you like?