Ayaan Ali
Dissociative Identity Disorder
Formerly known as Multiple Personality Disorder, this is the one we have come across almost every known and then in movies and shows yet is highly misunderstood. There are .1% of people who suffer from this disorder and have 2-3 different identities and rarely more than that. The switch is very inconsistent as one can either remain as one of the identities for hours or years o can switch in seconds. The most difficult challenge is to convince a person suffering from DID that they have it, and because of all this it is a highly dangerous disorder prohibiting people from living a normal life as they end up living in psychiatric institutions.
Factitious Disorder
Where most of might get panicked about getting cold or catching any illness, that is not the case with the individuals suffering from Factitious disorder as they are obsessed with being sick. Though less than .5% of the population get this order it still is dangerous as the ones suffering from this order go from one hospital to another wanting to seek treatments. They will either make themselves intentionally sick or lie just to get the treatment. This condition is a result of past trauma or some serious illness and still doesn’t has a cure.
“I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naïve or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman.”
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“Well, it seems to me that the best relationships – the ones that last – are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is… suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with.”
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“I hate to hear you talk about all women as if they were fine ladies instead of rational creatures. None of us want to be in calm waters all our lives.”
― Persuasion
“It’s probably not just by chance that I’m alone. It would be very hard for a man to live with me, unless he’s terribly strong. And if he’s stronger than I, I’m the one who can’t live with him. … I’m neither smart nor stupid, but I don’t think I’m a run-of-the-mill person. I’ve been in business without being a businesswoman, I’ve loved without being a woman made only for love. The two men I’ve loved, I think, will remember me, on earth or in heaven, because men always remember a woman who caused them concern and uneasiness. I’ve done my best, in regard to people and to life, without precepts, but with a taste for justice.”
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- Question of
Would you like him to pay on your dates?
- Very much so
- Never
- Going Dutch is OK
- If he’s willing to
- Question of
Where do you want to run away to with your dream man?
- Paris
- Stay in the U.K.
- America
- Eastern Europe
- Question of
What nickname will he call you?
- Darling!
- Babe
- The old ball and chain (but nicely)
- Love
- Question of
How emotionally open should he be?
- Closed
- Average
- Mostly open
- Mostly closed
- Question of
What kind of dancing would you like to do with him?
- Scottish dancing
- Whatever people do at clubs these days
- Swing, just for fun!
- We won’t dance.
- Question of
Who will make dinner — you or him?
- His chef will make dinner.
- Mostly him
- We’ll be in hotels.
- Mostly me
- Question of
What will he wear on your first date?
- Tweed blazer and slacks
- Jeans and a nice shirt
- Very expensive suit
- Nice jeans and a shirt
- Question of
Who would you like to hang out with together?
- Educated people from all over the world
- Just ordinary families
- The coolest people in the world
- Friendly rural villagers
- Question of
What do you think his family’s like?
- They’re like Jane Austen characters.
- Nice and decent people
- He won’t get on with them and nor will I.
- They have all these adorable traditions and are close-knit.
- Question of
What industry should your ideal guy work in?
- Venture capital
- Marketing
- This and that
- Farming
- Question of
What should he like most about being British?
- Tradition
- Knowing the Nazis are always the bad guys!
- The spirit of enterprise
- Heritage
- Question of
Have you ever knowingly committed a crime?
- Only a teensy one!
- No
- Yep
- Only in my misspent youth
- Question of
Do you care much what your extended family thinks of him?
- Very much
- A bit
- No, my family is the worst!
- Less than I used to
- Question of
How should he be involved in his community?
- He should be a pillar!
- He should give to charity and sometimes show up for political causes he cares about.
- He should have friends to whom he is a great guy, but otherwise, I don’t care.
- He should be a good neighbor who volunteers for local causes.
- Question of
Are you a family-oriented person?
- Mostly
- As much as anyone!
- No
- Yes
