Which type of guy are you attracted to?

 

“It is an absolute human certainty that no one can know his own beauty or perceive a sense of his own worth until it has been reflected back to him in the mirror of another loving, caring human being.”
John Joseph Powell, The Secret of Staying in Love

“I was suffering the easily foreseeable consequences. Addiction is the hallmark of every infatuation-based love story. It all begins when the object of your adoration bestows upon you a heady, hallucinogenic dose of something you never dared to admit you wanted-an emotional speedball, perhaps, of thunderous love and roiling excitement. Soon you start craving that intense attention, with a hungry obsession of any junkie. When the drug is witheld, you promptly turn sick, crazy, and depleted (not to mention resentful of the dealer who encouraged this addiction in the first place but now refuses to pony up the good stuff anymore– despite the fact that you know he has it hidden somewhere, goddamn it, because he used to give it to you for free). Next stage finds you skinny and shaking in a corner, certain only that you would sell your soul or rob your neighbors just to have ‘that thing’ even one more time. Meanwhile, the object of your adoration has now become repulsed by you. He looks at you like you’re someone he’s never met before, much less someone he once loved with high passion. The irony is,you can hardly blame him. I mean, check yourself out. You’re a pathetic mess,unrecognizable even to your own eyes. So that’s it. You have now reached infatuation’s final destination– the complete and merciless devaluation of self.” – pg 20-21”
Elizabeth Gilbert Sputnik Sweetheart

“Of course it hurt that we could never love each other in a physical way. We would have been far more happy if we had. But that was like the tides, the change of seasons–something immutable, an immovable destiny we could never alter. No matter how cleverly we might shelter it, our delicate friendship wasn’t going to last forever. We were bound to reach a dead end. That was painfully clear.”
Haruki Murakami, The Wonderful Wizard of Oz

“I think you are wrong to want a heart. It makes most people unhappy. If you only knew it, you are in luck not to have a heart.”
L. Frank Baum, The Wise Man’s Fear

“nothing in this world was more difficult than love.”
Gabriel García Márquez The Goddess Test

“Books are a poor substitute for female companionship, but they are easier to find.”
Patrick Rothfuss, I Like You: Hospitality Under the Influence

“I care,” he said in a trembling voice. “I care so much that I do not know how to tell you without it seeming inconsequential compared to how I feel. Even if I am distant at times and seem as if I do not want to be with you, it is only because this scares me, too.”
Aimee Carter, The Indigo Spell

“Don’t leave a piece of jewelry at his house so you can go back and get it later; he may be with his real girlfriend.”
Amy Sedaris, Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment

“Because I can’t help doing it,” he said with a shrug. “And hey, if I keep loving you, maybe you’ll eventually crack and love me too. Hell, I’m pretty sure you’re already half in love with me.”
Richelle Mead, Rules of Attraction

“All I’m telling you to do is to be smart about it. Know that if this man isn’t looking for a serious relationship, you’re not going to change his mind just because you two are going on dates and being intimate. You could be the most perfect woman on the Lord’s green earth-you’re capable of interesting conversation, you cook a mean breakfast, you hand out backrubs like sandwiches, you’re independent (which means, to him, that you’re not going to be in his pockets)-but if he’s not ready for a serious relationship, he going to treat you like sports fish.”
Steve Harvey, Emma

“Every woman that finally figured out her worth, has picked up her suitcases of pride and boarded a flight to freedom, which landed in the valley of change.”
Shannon L. Alder Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“We kiss all the time.” I clear my throat, then add, “We just…do it in private.”
Simone Elkeles, I Wrote This For You

“Seldom, very seldom, does complete truth belong to any human disclosure; seldom can it happen that something is not a little disguised or a little mistaken.”
Jane Austen, Max

“I find the best way to love someone is not to change them, but instead, help them reveal the greatest version of themselves.”
Steve Maraboli, The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“You’re just another story I can’t tell anymore.”
pleasefindthis, Life, the Truth, and Being Free

“He could totally be your boyfriend,” [Angel] went on with annoying persistance. “You guys could get married. I could be like a junior bridesmaid. Total could be your flower dog.”
James Patterson, Breaking Bread: Insurgent Black Intellectual Life

“Moving on is easy. It’s staying moved on that’s trickier.”
Katerina Stoykova Klemer The English Patient

“Sometimes it takes a heartbreak to shake us awake & help us see we are worth so much more than we’re settling for.”
Mandy Hale, Letters to a Young Poet

“A fit, healthy body—that is the best fashion statement”
Jess C Scott Committed: A Skeptic Makes Peace with Marriage

“How would your life be different if…You walked away from gossip and verbal defamation? Let today be the day…You speak only the good you know of other people and encourage others to do the same.”
Steve Maraboli, Wicked Lovely

“There comes a time in your life when you have to choose to turn the page, write another book or simply close it.”
Shannon L. Alder All About Love: New Visions

“We have to recognise that there cannot be relationships unless there is commitment, unless there is loyalty, unless there is love, patience, persistence.”
Cornel West, Warbreaker

“We die containing a richness of lovers and tribes, tastes we have swallowed, bodies we have plunged into and swum up as if rivers of wisdom, characters we have climbed into as if trees, fears we have hidden in as if caves.
Michael Ondaatje, How to Win Friends and Influence People

“only someone who is ready for everything, who doesn’t exclude any experience, even the most incomprehensible, will live the relationship with another person as something alive and will himself sound the depths of his own being.”
Rainer Maria Rilke, Seven Words of Jesus and Mary: Lessons from Cana and Calvary

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    What would your perfect date be?

    • Walk on the beach, talking about your feelings and interests
    • Drinks and going out together with your friends
    • Watch a movie in his basement and listen to music
  • Question of

    What kind of a relationship are you looking for?

    • I want a little danger, I want to feel wanted
    • I want to date, but more having fun and games
    • I want a long-term relationship- I want to find my soul mate
  • Question of

    What are your standards for being treated in a relationship?

    • It’s an equal relationship, he can treat me like one of the guys if it’s respectful
    • I want to feel pampered and like a princess, he needs to be at my every whim
    • I consider teasing and making fun a form of flirting, so that kind of exchange in a relationship is what I’m looking for
  • Question of

    What would be the perfect gift your boyfriend could give you?

    • A poem, or being serenaded by a sweet song
    • A henna tattoo at the market, matching his
    • Buying me a drink at the bar and taking me out
  • Question of

    What’s the most important thing in a relationship?

    • Having fun and living like there’s no tomorrow
    • Sharing mutual interests and seeing if this could last longer than a fling
    • A chemical attraction is stronger than anything
  • Question of

    Your boyfriend takes you out for dinner but then conveniently ‘loses’ his wallet. How do you react?

    • Pick up the tab this time, but tell him the next one’s on him
    • Pay the bill and then buy him a drink at the club later on, it was an honest mistake
    • Pay the bill and tell him he’s worth every penny, knowing he’ll give you the money back the minute you get home
  • Question of

    You’re in the beginning stages of a new relationship, and you see your guy out with his friends, chatting up a pretty, scantily clad girl out at a club

    • Storm up to him, firing accusations, then have a passionate make up scene when he explains he knew her from middle school and he’s just saying hi
    • Go over to him with a group of your friends, sweetly give him a hug and introduce yourself to the girl
    • Go to the bar, get a guy to buy you a shot and heavily flirt with him in hopes your new guy will look over and get the message to walk away from the girl
  • Question of

    You’ve had a falling out with your best friend over a meaningless issue, your boyfriend picks up on your anger and asks what’s wrong

    • You profess all your problems and give him all the sordid details, knowing he’ll be a shoulder to cry on
    • Tell him nothing’s wrong and grab his hand, he’s not interested in girl dramatics and he’ll be uncomfortable hearing about your petty problems
    • You tell him the bare minimum of details and he offers to start a cruel rumor about her
  • Question of

    It’s Valentines Day/anniversary for you and your boyfriend, and when you see him he doesn’t mention anything planned

    • You keep your mouth shut and do your best not to reveal your disappointment, deep down you know he doesn’t think it is as special as you do
    • Tell him off and complain until he buys you some chocolates at the drug store
    • Hold out that he has a lavish surprise planned, because it’s who he is
  • Question of

    Your boyfriend gives you a rose, kisses you quickly, looks into your eyes.. and says he wants to tell you something. You think he’s going to say:

    • I love you. You’re so happy that it overwhelms you.
    • I got tickets to a concert you may not like, Wanna come, or should I ask my friends?
    • There’s a hot club I wanna hit up with my boys, do you mind if you stay home tonight?
  • Question of

    What is the ideal hair colour of your dream guy?

    • Anything not too bright
    • BLONDE!
    • Black
    • Purple, Green, Whatever. I don’t really mind
    • Non Dyed, Streaked, etc.
  • Question of

    What is your dream guy’s hair style?

    • Covers his face
    • Long and straight
    • Dreadlocks
    • Not to long or short. Zac Efron style
    • Comb over
  • Question of

    To be your dream guy, he must have…

    • A HOT body
    • Glasses and a really big brain
    • An odd style
    • A Guitar. and know how to play it
    • Lots of makeup. Slits in the wrist
  • Question of

    What sort of clothes would he wear?

    • A collared shirt with pockets
    • Black ones
    • Tie-dye shirts and slack beanies
    • Boar dies, singlet and thongs
    • T-Shirts with logo’s of women or famous rockers
  • Question of

    What would his idea of an ideal date be?

    • A trip to the local observatory
    • Something done in the dark…
    • A trip to the local rock concert
    • A trip to Mecca’s
    • Fish and chips on the beach
  • Question of

    What would his attitude be?

    • Wad up?
    • Aye, you. Hallo there
    • Hi. Do you want to go to the movies?
    • Uh, Hi. You are cute
    • Hello (your name here). Are you busy tonight?
  • Question of

    What would he do in his spare time?

    • Read, Write, study
    • Try and cover his face
    • Learn new songs on the guitar
    • Go to Greenpeace meetings
    • Hit the beach
  • Question of

    His one true passion would be…

    • Protesting
    • Black makeup
    • School, Uni, etc.
    • Surfing
    • Music
  • Question of

    What style of TV would he like?

    • Saving animals, whales, trees, etc.
    • Beach Shows. ex. Bond Rescue
    • Murder, Horror Shows
    • Thrillers
    • Educational shows
  • Question of

    The ideal holiday for you two would be to where.

    • Rome
    • By the beach
    • America
    • Caribbean
    • Deserted Island

Who is your perfect guy?

What guy is your type?