Who is your dream guy?

 

“If you need something from somebody always give that person a way to hand it to you.”
Sue Monk Kidd, The Secret Life of Bees

“This is what happened in love. One of you cried a lot and then both of you grew sarcastic.”
Lorrie Moore, Like Life

“Do you know what it means to come home at night to a woman who’ll give you a little love, a little affection, a little tenderness? It means you’re in the wrong house, that’s what it means.”
Henny Youngman A Wild Sheep Chase

“Most everything you think you know about me is nothing more than memories.”
Haruki Murakami, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“When you hold a grudge, you want someone else’s sorrow to reflect your level of hurt but the two rarely meet.”
Steve Maraboli, Dead to the World

“It’s probably a bad indicator of your lifestyle when you miss your ex-boyfriend because he’s absolutely lethal.”
Charlaine Harris, The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“A busy, vibrant, goal-oriented woman is so much more attractive than a woman who waits around for a man to validate her existence.”
Mandy Hale, It’s Not Summer Without You

“That’s when I finally got it. I finally understood. It wasn’t the thought that counted. It was the actual execution that mattered, the showing up for somebody. The intent behind it wasn’t enough. Not for me. Not anymore. It wasn’t enough to know that deep down, he loved me. You had to actually say it to somebody, show them you cared. And he just didn’t. Not enough.”
Jenny Han, Why Things Burn

“When you loved someone and had to let them go, there will always be that small part of yourself that whispers, “What was it that you wanted and why didn’t you fight for it?”
Shannon L. Alder The Valkyries

“I define connection as the energy that exists between people when they feel seen, heard, and valued; when they can give and receive without judgment; and when they derive sustenance and strength from the relationship.”
Brené Brown Excuse Me, My Brains Have Stepped Out

“you can take this mouth
Daphne Gottlieb, You Are Worthless: Depressing Nuggets of Wisdom Sure to Ruin Your Day

“He knew one of the women well, and had shared his universe with her. They had seen the same mountains, and the same trees, although each of them had seem them differently. She knew his weaknesses, his moments of hatred, of despair. Yet she was there at his side. They shared the same universe.”
Paulo Coelho, I’ll Give You the Sun

“The best relationships in our lives are the best not because they have been the happiest ones, they are that way because they have stayed strong through the most tormentful of storms.”
Pandora Poikilos, Where She Went

“Statistically speaking, there is a 65 percent chance that the love of your life is having an affair. Be very suspicious.”
Scott Dikkers, EyeLeash: A Blog Novel

“People die, I think, but your relationship with them doesn’t. It continues and is ever-changing.”
Jandy Nelson, Watermelon

“There are so many things that demand to be said. Where did you go? Do you ever think about me? You’ve ruined me. Are you okay? But of course, I can’t say any of that.”
Gayle Forman, Survivor

“V-Day…if you need this one day in a year to show everyone else you truly care for “your loved one” I think it’s quite stupid. I hate this commercialism. It’s all artificial, and has nothing to do with real love.”
Jess C Scott, Bridget Jones’s Diary

“Failed relationships can be described as so much wasted make-up.”
Marian Keyes, The Lover’s Dictionary

“Six hundred and forty fish later, the only thing I know is everything you love will die. The first time you meet someone special, you can count on them one day being dead and in the ground.”
Chuck Palahniuk, Safe Haven

“A true gentleman is one that apologizes anyways, even though he has not offended a lady intentionally. He is in a class all of his own because he knows the value of a woman’s heart.”
Shannon Alder A Supposedly Fun Thing I’ll Never Do Again: Essays and Arguments

“When you struggle with your partner, you are struggling with yourself. Every fault you see in them touches a denied weakness in yourself.”
Deepak Chopra The Fault in Our Stars

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    What will your dream guys hair look like?

    • Dark black with highlights
    • Brown, short, scruffy hair
    • Blond and short with streaks of brown
  • Question of

    What does he act like?

    • Likes talking, outgoing and friendly
    • Polite, simple, quiet
    • Anything… it just matters that he is hot and rich
  • Question of

    What will he wear?

    • Shorts, shirts, pants, shoes… normal stuff
    • The most amazing clothes ever
    • Remarkable prince clothes
  • Question of

    How will he act around you?

    • He won’t talk to me, I will stalk him from a distance…
    • Treat me like a guy, not a dumb girl
    • Nice, like we know each other well
  • Question of

    What will his name be like?

    • Beautiful, magical, when people hear his name everyone will look
    • Normal; I couldn’t care less
    • Like Michael, something nice like that
  • Question of

    What’s his personality like?

    • Nice, kind, gentle and caring
    • It will change; like a normal person
    • Show off
  • Question of

    What animals will he like?

    • Dogs, cats, fish
    • Cheetahs, dragons; you know cool stuff
    • The ones I like
  • Question of

    Does he want kids?

    • NO!
    • Well duh! All perfect couples have kids!
    • Maybe…
  • Question of

    What will be your dream guys favorite color?

    • Red, green
    • Black, gray, dark green and purple
    • Anything, as long as he is my true love, which he will be!
  • Question of

    What Disney prince will he act like?

    • Eric (The Little Mermaid)
    • Prince Charming (Cinderella)
    • Flynn Ryder (Rapunzel)
  • Question of

    What would your perfect date be?

    • Walk on the beach, talking about your feelings and interests
    • Drinks and going out together with your friends
    • Watch a movie in his basement and listen to music
  • Question of

    What kind of a relationship are you looking for?

    • I want a little danger, I want to feel wanted
    • I want to date, but more having fun and games
    • I want a long-term relationship- I want to find my soul mate
  • Question of

    What are your standards for being treated in a relationship?

    • It’s an equal relationship, he can treat me like one of the guys if it’s respectful
    • I want to feel pampered and like a princess, he needs to be at my every whim
    • I consider teasing and making fun a form of flirting, so that kind of exchange in a relationship is what I’m looking for
  • Question of

    What would be the perfect gift your boyfriend could give you?

    • A poem, or being serenaded by a sweet song
    • A henna tattoo at the market, matching his
    • Buying me a drink at the bar and taking me out
  • Question of

    What’s the most important thing in a relationship?

    • Having fun and living like there’s no tomorrow
    • Sharing mutual interests and seeing if this could last longer than a fling
    • A chemical attraction is stronger than anything
  • Question of

    Your boyfriend takes you out for dinner but then conveniently ‘loses’ his wallet. How do you react?

    • Pick up the tab this time, but tell him the next one’s on him
    • Pay the bill and then buy him a drink at the club later on, it was an honest mistake
    • Pay the bill and tell him he’s worth every penny, knowing he’ll give you the money back the minute you get home
  • Question of

    You’re in the beginning stages of a new relationship, and you see your guy out with his friends, chatting up a pretty, scantily clad girl out at a club

    • Storm up to him, firing accusations, then have a passionate make up scene when he explains he knew her from middle school and he’s just saying hi
    • Go over to him with a group of your friends, sweetly give him a hug and introduce yourself to the girl
    • Go to the bar, get a guy to buy you a shot and heavily flirt with him in hopes your new guy will look over and get the message to walk away from the girl
  • Question of

    You’ve had a falling out with your best friend over a meaningless issue, your boyfriend picks up on your anger and asks what’s wrong

    • You profess all your problems and give him all the sordid details, knowing he’ll be a shoulder to cry on
    • Tell him nothing’s wrong and grab his hand, he’s not interested in girl dramatics and he’ll be uncomfortable hearing about your petty problems
    • You tell him the bare minimum of details and he offers to start a cruel rumor about her
  • Question of

    It’s Valentines Day/anniversary for you and your boyfriend, and when you see him he doesn’t mention anything planned

    • You keep your mouth shut and do your best not to reveal your disappointment, deep down you know he doesn’t think it is as special as you do
    • Tell him off and complain until he buys you some chocolates at the drug store
    • Hold out that he has a lavish surprise planned, because it’s who he is
  • Question of

    Your boyfriend gives you a rose, kisses you quickly, looks into your eyes.. and says he wants to tell you something. You think he’s going to say:

    • I love you. You’re so happy that it overwhelms you.
    • I got tickets to a concert you may not like, Wanna come, or should I ask my friends?
    • There’s a hot club I wanna hit up with my boys, do you mind if you stay home tonight?

What kind of guy do I like?

What’s your type of guy?