Who is your soul-mate?


“I want to be in a relationship where you telling me you love me is just a ceremonious validation of what you already show me.”
Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free

“Never marry at all, Dorian. Men marry because they are tired, women, because they are curious: both are disappointed.”
Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray

“Man, when you lose your laugh you lose your footing.”
Ken Kesey, One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest

“Every couple needs to argue now and then. Just to prove that the relationship is strong enough to survive. Long-term relationships, the ones that matter, are all about weathering the peaks and the valleys.”
Nicholas Sparks, Safe Haven

“I know enough to know that no woman should ever marry a man who hated his mother.”
Martha Gellhorn, Selected Letters

“Maybe its like you said before, all of us being cracked open. Like each of us starts out as a watertight vessel. And then things happen – these people leave us, or don’t love us, or don’t get us, or we don’t get them, and we lose and fail and hurt one another. And the vessel starts to crack in places. And I mean, yeah once the vessel cracks open, the end becomes inevitable. Once it starts to rain inside the Osprey, it will never be remodeled. But there is all this time between when the cracks start to open up and when we finally fall apart. And its only that time that we see one another, because we see out of ourselves through our cracks and into others through theirs. When did we see each other face to face? Not until you saw into my cracks and I saw into yours. Before that we were just looking at ideas of each other, like looking at your window shade, but never seeing inside. But once the vessel cracks, the light can get in. The light can get out.”
John Green, Paper Towns

“People like to say love is unconditional, but it’s not, and even if it was unconditional, it’s still never free. There’s always an expectation attached. They always want something in return. Like they want you to be happy or whatever and that makes you automatically responsible for their happiness because they won’t be happy unless you are … I just don’t want that responsibility.”
Katja Millay, The Sea of Tranquility

“For there to be betrayal, there would have to have been trust first.”
Suzanne Collins, The Hunger Games

“Even though you may want to move forward in your life, you may have one foot on the brakes. In order to be free, we must learn how to let go. Release the hurt. Release the fear. Refuse to entertain your old pain. The energy it takes to hang onto the past is holding you back from a new life. What is it you would let go of today?”
Mary Manin Morrissey Dairy Queen

“When you don’t talk, there’s a lot of stuff that ends up not getting said.”
Catherine Gilbert Murdock, Venus in Arms

“Usually adult males who are unable to make emotional connections with the women they choose to be intimate with are frozen in time, unable to allow themselves to love for fear that the loved one will abandon them. If the first woman they passionately loved, the mother, was not true to her bond of love, then how can they trust that their partner will be true to love. Often in their adult relationships these men act out again and again to test their partner’s love. While the rejected adolescent boy imagines that he can no longer receive his mother’s love because he is not worthy, as a grown man he may act out in ways that are unworthy and yet demand of the woman in his life that she offer him unconditional love. This testing does not heal the wound of the past, it merely reenacts it, for ultimately the woman will become weary of being tested and end the relationship, thus reenacting the abandonment. This drama confirms for many men that they cannot put their trust in love. They decide that it is better to put their faith in being powerful, in being dominant.”
bell hooks The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember

“To say that one waits a lifetime for his soulmate to come around is a paradox. People eventually get sick of waiting, take a chance on someone, and by the art of commitment become soulmates, which takes a lifetime to perfect.”
Criss Jami, Between the Tides

“Part of the problem with the word ‘disabilities’ is that it immediately suggests an inability to see or hear or walk or do other things that many of us take for granted. But what of people who can’t feel? Or talk about their feelings? Or manage their feelings in constructive ways? What of people who aren’t able to form close and strong relationships? And people who cannot find fulfillment in their lives, or those who have lost hope, who live in disappointment and bitterness and find in life no joy, no love? These, it seems to me, are the real disabilities.”
Fred Rogers, The Fall

“Cheating and lying aren’t struggles, they’re reasons to break up.”
Patti Callahan Henry, Along for the Ride

“Our wounds are often the openings into the best and most beautiful part of us.”
David Richo At First Sight

“I used to advertise my loyalty and I don’t believe there is a single person I loved that I didn’t eventually betray.”
Albert Camus, The Intern

“If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you’re allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind.”
Shannon L. Alder Poems from the Heart

“Relationships dont always make sense. Especially from the outside”
Sarah Dessen, Waiting for You

“Lots of things can be fixed. Things can be fixed. But many times, relationships between people cannot be fixed, because they should not be fixed. You’re aboard a ship setting sail, and the other person has joined the inland circus, or is boarding a different ship, and you just can’t be with each other anymore. Because you shouldn’t be.”
C. JoyBell C. Remember Me

“Every couple has ups and downs, every couple argues, and that’s the thing—you’re a couple, and couples can’t function without trust.”
Nicholas Sparks, The Cocktail Party

“Those sweet lips. My, oh my, I could kiss those lips all night long.
Jess C. Scott, Messages from the Masters: Tapping Into the Power of Love

“I may not always be with you
Marc Wambolt, Straight Up and Dirty

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    If you had to die for them to stay alive, would you do it?

    • No
    • Probably not!
    • I can’t imagine myself sacrificing MYSELF for somebody else….
    • I really should do if I do have to…
    • YES! duh! What sorta question is that?
  • Question of

    What would you do if a hot guy touched you on the head?

    • Run and scream
    • Laugh, and tell him to jog on!
    • Laugh and smile!
    • Grin, turn and wink at him and touch his hand as well!
    • Leave a letter in his tray saying, Kiss me! Meet me at the forest at 4:00
  • Question of

    What do you think if a nerd?

    • They are the only people with sense these days!
    • Friendly I guess
    • Slightly annoying. They don’t leave me alone!
    • They are embarrassing, stupid stalkers!
    • They ruin my looks around the boys/girls
  • Question of

    What do you describe yourself as?

    • Shy, lonely but happy!
    • Okay. But okay.
    • Cool, I guess. My brain makes me do stupid things though!
    • I am a hit or miss, totally cool!
    • Nobody can resist me! I am perfect in every way; My body, personality, EVERYTHING!
  • Question of

    If your crush could pause time, what do you think he would do?

    • Finish his work first so he looks smart
    • To probably take a stroll around everyone- inspecting people
    • To look at people, avoiding me of course
    • He/She would definitely come to me and hug me!
    • He/She would totally kiss me and do all the ‘fun’ stuff…
  • Question of

    If you could chose a date, who would it be?

    • Nerds
    • Ugly person who is left after the other good people are taken.
    • The closest to the hottest as I can get- who doesn’’t think I am a weirdo still.
    • The cutest! Duh!
    • The hottest, best of the best of the best, the sweet cheeks, the one who will be The dad to my future kid!
  • Question of

    Which do you prefer?

    • !
    • %
    • ***********
    • •~
  • Question of

    On a date, where would you go?

    • School lunch hall
    • A park
    • Ice-Skating place
    • Cinema!
    • My bedroom! ❤
  • Question of

    If you fell into your ex, and he/she started to beat you up, What would you hope your crush would do?

    • Get a teacher
    • Get a crowd round the fight
    • Tell him/her to stop
    • Drag me away and finish the evil ex off by punching and kicking him till he runs, and my crush will pick me up and check if I am okay
    • He/She would heroically beat off the ex with one punch, Then, my crush would pick me up and check, if I was okay, then he/she would check me over for any grazes, and if one, they would ‘kiss it better’ then kiss meee!
  • Question of

    If you saw your crush crying what would you do?

    • I would rush over and hug them! Ask what happened, say to make them feel better you would go to the cinemas with him/her, you would pay, then once you found out whats wrong you kiss them on the head!
    • I would pat them on the head and tell them to get on with it.
    • I would walk over, check ’em out and get them up and give him/her advice
    • I would leave him/her. They need space!
    • I would rush over and see whats wrong and if I am I the mood, I would totally hold their hand!

What kind of guy is your perfect guy?

Which Boy are you most like to go out with?