Why am I still single?


“You couldn’t just pick and choose at will when someone depended on you, or loved you. It wasn’t like a light switch, easy to turn on or off. If you were in, you were in. Out, you were out.”
Sarah Dessen,

“I got my heart’s desire, and there my troubles began.”
Lev Grossman,

“My head’ll explode if I continue with this escapism.”
Jess C Scott,

“I just…I just miss him. And I hate being so alone.”
Suzanne Collins,

“She was a beautiful dreamer. The kind of girl, who kept her head in the clouds, loved above the stars and left regret beneath the earth she walked on.”
robert m drake

“That night when you kissed me, I left a poem in your mouth, and you can hear some of the lines every time you breathe out.”
Andrea Gibson

“Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.”
Alain de Botton

“Submission is not about authority and it is not obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.”
Wm. Paul Young,

“We rip out so much of ourselves to be cured of things faster than we should that we go bankrupt by the age of thirty and have less to offer each time we start with someone new. But to feel nothing so as not to feel anything—what a waste!”
André Aciman,

“Most men claim to desire driven, independent and confident women. Yet when confronted with such a creature reverence often evolves into resent. For just like women, men need to be needed.”
Tiffany Madison

“If equal affection cannot be,
W.H. Auden

“Wanting him to come back before anyone notices part of the world has not moved since he left.”
Brian Andreas

“If a man, who says he loves you, won’t tell you the details of a private conversation between him and another woman you can be sure he is not protecting your heart. He is protecting himself and the women he has feelings for. Wise women simply see things as they are, not as their low self-esteem allows.”
Shannon L. Alder

“An unarticulated crush is very different from an unrequited one, because at least with an unrequited crush you know what the hell you’re doing, even if the other person isn’t doing it back. An unarticulated crush is harder to grapple with, because it’s a crush that you haven’t even admitted to yourself. The romantic forces are all there — you want to see him, you always notice him, you treat every word from him as if it weighs more than anyone else’s. But you don’t know why. You don’t know that you’re doing it. You’d follow him to the end of the earth without ever admitting that your feet were moving.”
David Levithan,

“The reason we all like to think so well of others is that we are all afraid for ourselves. The basis of optimism is sheer terror.”
Oscar Wilde,

“Oh, you know. Jace reminds me of an old boyfriend. Some guys look at you like they want sex. Jace looks at you like you’ve already
Cassandra Clare,

“It’s hard to communicate anything exactly and that’s why perfect relationships between people are difficult to find.”
Gustave Flaubert,

“It’s not your job to like me – it’s mine”
Byron Katie

“We know from daily life that we exist for other people first of all, for whose smiles and well-being our own happiness depends.”
Albert Einstein

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    What do you think of yourself?

    • Too ugly to live… *tears*
    • Smart, hot, a total catch. Why WOULD’NT anyone like me?
    • Extroverted, outgoing, a social butterfly and athletic
    • Artistic, creative, musical, and a classic romantic
  • Question of

    Why do YOU think you are single?

    • Looking for the PERFECT one
    • I’m tired of the jerks that are in my school
    • Duh! Too many guys are desperate, I NEED SPACE.
    • I’m not as pretty, or fit, or attractive or as smart as her…:(
  • Question of

    What do you think the second you see your crush?

    • Stare at him longingly, and if he notices you, smile a bit.
    • Don’t even bother talking, he’ll probs throw up when he sees my face
    • I don’t like anyone, everyone’s too desperate for me, like I said
  • Question of

    Why do you like your crush?

    • We have so much in common, I feel like I can tell him anything
    • I feel like he is the only one who is as perfect as perfect can be
    • When I look into his eyes, it’s like watching the night sky…!
    • Well if I HAD one, he’d be hot, with abs, and POPULAR!
  • Question of

    What are your hobbies?

    • Reading, writing, poetry, and talking with my bestest friend
    • Going for a run, a quick workout, some TV.
    • Hooking up with college cuties! Or an awesome party!
    • Blasting music, playing with my band, drawing… etc
  • Question of

    What is the first thing you notice when you see your crush?

    • His caring nature
    • His smile
    • His eyes
  • Question of

    If your crush insults you, what would you do?

    • Move on, that idiot’s not worth your time anymore
    • Ignore him, go for an extra long run today
    • PUNCH HIM!
  • Question of

    What would you rather do..

    • Show him, I would love for him to finally UNDERSTAND!
    • He loves someone else, let him go, he’s not gonna like me
    • He loves someone else… You should move on, he’s not the RIGHT ONE
    • NEITHER! Everyone loves me!
  • Question of

    How many relationships?

    • None. But TONS of hookups…!
    • 2-5
    • 0-1 that totally FAILED
    • 3 or 4
  • Question of

    Why are you taking this quiz?

    • My friends forced me to…
    • I want to know why no one is good enough
    • I feel so insecure about this, I wanna die almost…:(
    • Everyone has someone. I was genuinely curious
  • Question of

    Your date comes in ten minutes late. How do you react?

    • I’d be irritated and would remind them that my time is valuable.
    • I’m just glad they’ve arrived!
    • I’ve spent the last few minutes texting them.
    • Humph! I wonder what caught their attention on the way over.
  • Question of

    They offer to take you out during the week instead of a weekend. What do you assume?

    • I’d wonder what is wrong with them to have so much free time.
    • Yay! They want to see me as much as I want to see them.
    • I’d assume they need dating tips.
    • I’d wonder if they have another date on Saturday.
  • Question of

    They have something stuck on their face. What do you do?

    • I’d be grossed out, but hand them a napkin and look away.
    • I’d probably lick it off!
    • I’d ask them if they use napkins often.
    • I’d wonder what is on their mind to fail to notice that.
  • Question of

    They call you to cancel a date at the last minute, claiming it’s an emergency. How do you react?

    • I wouldn’t like it, but if it’s really an emergency it’s fine.
    • I’d offer to help, of course!
    • I’d ask them to relate the circumstances fully right now.
    • I’d wonder if they are telling the truth.
  • Question of

    If they haven’t shown interest in making out with you after a few dates, what do you think?

    • That it’s not going to happen.
    • I’d wonder if it’s something I’ve done!
    • I’d ask them if they’re on medication, or there’s something wrong.
    • I’d assume there’s someone else they’re seeing.
  • Question of

    They tell you they want to keep things light. What do you think?

    • Nope. I’m looking for a serious relationship, and that’s that.
    • Sure, I can keep it light! I can play it any way you want it.
    • I would ask just what they mean by that, and analyze for next steps.
    • I’d ask them if they’re seeing other people.
  • Question of

    They tell you you’re special. How do you react?

    • Special? Really? That’s so generic.
    • I tell them they’re super special, too!
    • I’d ask them to explain which ways I’m special.
    • This means I really stand out from the others!
  • Question of

    How often do you expect them to text you?

    • I expect them to know how often and when it’s appropriate!
    • I wish they’d text throughout the day.
    • As often as I text them!
    • Often enough, especially after they’ve come back late at night.
  • Question of

    They send you some hideous flowers. How do you react?

    • I’d really wonder about their tastes, and it would be a huge letdown.
    • There are no hideous flowers. I might come to like this variety!
    • I’d tell them which flowers they should send me from now on.
    • I’d really wonder if there was a mix-up.
  • Question of

    They say they’d like to introduce you to their mother when she flies in next week. What do you do?

    • I make sure to act perfectly, as I know I can.
    • I ask about the mother, and make sure to bring gifts for her.
    • I ask every detail about the mother, how long she is staying, etc.
    • I’d wonder about their level of attachment to their mother.

Why do you not have a boyfriend yet?