Why do you not have a boyfriend yet?


“…the opposite of love is not hate — it’s apathy. It’s not giving a damn. If somebody hates me, they must “feel” something … or they couldn’t possibly hate. Therefore, there’s some way in which I can get to them.”
Leo F. Buscaglia

“No matter how close we are to another person, few human relationships are as free from strife, disagreement, and frustration as is the relationship you have with a good dog. Few human beings give of themselves to another as a dog gives of itself. I also suspect that we cherish dogs because their unblemished souls make us wish – consciously or unconsciously – that we were as innocent as they are, and make us yearn for a place where innocence is universal and where the meanness, the betrayals, and the cruelties of this world are unknown.”
Dean Koontz,

“This love of which I speak is slow to lose patience – it looks for a way of being constructive.
Elisabeth Elliot,

“If a man can possess a woman sexually -really possess- he won’t need to control her ideas, her opinions, her clothes, her friends, even her other lovers.”
Toni Bentley

“I don’t understand dating.. and the other things that people do.. all I know is that you ought to find the one you recognize. The one who gives you four arms, four legs, four eyes, and has the other half of your heart. There’s only one of those, so what are all the other things for? Like dating?”
C. JoyBell C.

“Caring about someone isn’t complicated. It isn’t easy. But it isn’t complicated, either. Kinda like lifting the engine block out of a car.”
Jim Butcher,

“But in the real world, you couldnt really just split a family down the middle, mom on one side, dad the other, with the child equally divided between. It was like when you ripped a piece of paper into two: no matter how you tried, the seams never fit exactly right again. It was what you couldn’t see, those tiniest of pieces, that were lost in the severing, and their absence kept everything from being complete.”
Sarah Dessen,

“I hope we’ll be friends forever, together we’ll always be. I don’t think you understand just how much you mean to me. And one day when we part our ways, we’ll think back to the past and think about how happy we are ’cause our friendship will always last.”
Bridget Davis

“Death is the easy part, the hard part is living and knowing you could be so much more then you’re willing to be.”
robert m drake

“Your absence has not taught me to be alone, it merely has shown that when together we cast a single shadow on the wall.”
Doug Fetherling

“When forever becomes a place…when forever ceases to be just a word… when it ceases to be just a measurement of time…but instead becomes a place where soul mates can dance to the song in their hearts… that is a reflection of true love.”
Steve Maraboli,

“Often men who have been emotionally neglected and abused as children by dominating mothers bond with assertive women, only to have their childhood feelings of being engulfed surface. While they could not ‘smash their mommy’ and still receive love, they find that they can engage in intimate violence with partners who respond to their acting out by trying harder to connect with them emotionally, hoping that the love offered in the present will heal the wounds of the past. If only one party in the relationship is working to create love, to create the space of emotional connection, the dominator model remains in place and the relationship just becomes a site for continuous power struggle.”
bell hooks

“Falling in love in a Christian way is to say,’I am excited about your future and I want to be part of getting you there. I’m signing up for the journey with you. Would you sign up for the journey to my true self with me? It’s going to be hard but I want to get there.”
Timothy Keller

“Husbands are chiefly good as lovers when they are betraying their wives.”
Marilyn Monroe

“We met each other when we were young, before we knew enough about disappointment, and once we did we found we reminded each other of it.”
Nicole Krauss,

“..he may love you, he may miss you, but ultimately he’s just not that into you.”
Greg Behrendt,

“I didn’t know someone could love me like this,” she said. “Could love me and love me and love me without…needing space.”
Rainbow Rowell,

“But whenever I meet dynamic, nonretarded Americans, I notice that they all seem to share a single unifying characteristic: the inability to experience the kind of mind-blowing, transcendent romantic relationship they perceive to be a normal part of living. And someone needs to take the fall for this. So instead of blaming no one for this (which is kind of cowardly) or blaming everyone (which is kind of meaningless), I’m going to blame John Cusack.”
Chuck Klosterman,

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    How many friends do you have?

    • I have so many friends and I love them! They’re always there for me and I’m there for them too!
    • I’m basically friends with everyone. People crowd around while I tell stories and they laugh the whole time!
    • I have one or two friends, we’re pretty close, but most people think we’re weird.
    • I have a lot of friends, but sometimes feel like they’re not really there for me.
    • I have more guy friends than girl friends, but I think they only hang out with me because they think I’m pretty.
  • Question of

    How close are you to your family?

    • I’m not that close with my family, they just care that I do well at school and that’s it. They’d kill me if they saw me with a bad grade
    • I’m pretty close with my family, but usually spend all my time in my room. I don’t come out a lot.
    • I only spend time with my family when there’s a special event, like at Christmas or when my parents throw a party
    • I’m super close with my family! I love them all so much
    • I barely know my family. I don’t talk to them at all and they’re never there for me.
  • Question of

    What do you like to do in your spare time?

    • I have sleepovers with my friends and have loads of fun gossiping!
    • I practise improving my makeup skills or hang out with a boy
    • I watch YouTube videos on my phone and text my friends
    • Nothing better than a good book
    • I meet my friends and we do loads of fun stuff like going to the beach and fun fairs!
  • Question of

    What’s your favourite animal?

    • I hate animals. They’re dirty
    • I’m a cat person
    • I like birds
    • All animals! I love them so much
    • I love dogs/turtles/fish
  • Question of

    What’s your favourite drink?

    • Coffee/Tea
    • Anything with alcohol in it
    • Soda pop
    • Water
    • Juice
  • Question of

    What’s your favourite colour?

    • Red
    • Blue
    • Pink
    • Yellow
    • Green
  • Question of

    What’s your zodiac sign?

    • Aquarius/Cancer
    • Sagittarius/Gemini
    • Taurus/Libra/Virgo
    • Aries/Scorpio
    • Pisces/Capricorn/Leo
  • Question of

    What’s your favourite food?

    • I’ll eat whatever
    • I don’t eat much, just salad and stuff
    • I’m such a foodie! Pizza, burgers, chips, milkshakes, everything!
    • I’m a vegan, but I eat a lot of food
    • McDonalds!
  • Question of

    How many boyfriend’s have you had in the past?

    • I’ve never had a boyfriend EVER
    • I’ve had a lot of boyfriends, too many. Sometimes having a boyfriend gives me meaning. Lol!
    • I’ve had a few boyfriends
    • I’ve never had many boyfriends, but loads of boys wanna hook up with me like ALL THE TIME
    • Most guys just wanna be my friend
  • Question of

    What’s your hobby?

    • Does school count?
    • My phone haha
    • Art
    • Makeup
    • Music
  • Question of

    How long has your average relationship lasted?

    • I’m not sure, I don’t think about them that much. I try not to think about my exes
    • I haven’t had many, but the few I have had only lasted a few days to a week
    • They never last long but like I said I’ve had a lot. I’m basically with a new guy every few weeks
    • They’ve lasted pretty long. And they’ve all ended because we both just wanted to be friends or were happy to end it. Always peaceful
    • Like I said. I’ve never had one
  • Question of

    Finally, who’s your celebrity crush?

    • Chris Hemsworth
    • Zac Effron
    • James Franco
    • Cole Sprouse
    • Harry Styles
  • Question of

    What’s your crush like?

    • Charming, he knows exactly what to say and is a great listener
    • Not the best looking, but very funny, he’s such a goofball!
    • Tall, good looking, hot
    • He’s so smart, a bookworm and was/is good at school
    • Kind, sensitive, a nature lover
  • Question of

    How do people describe your best quality?

    • I’m basically perfect. I’m funny, smart, kind and gorgeous. Everyone’s jealous of me.
    • I’ve been told I could be a doctor, or a very high up job making lots of money
    • Everyone says I could be a model because I’m so gorgeous, but they don’t say much about my personality:/
    • I’m a great conversationalist. I’m very chatty and bubbly
    • Everyone says I’m hilarious! When I tell a joke, everyone laughs
  • Question of

    How would you describe yourself?

    • I get high marks in all my tests. My parents are proud of me and I’m the smartest out of all my friends.
    • Like I said! I’m 100% perfect. Only the best for me, I want my boyfriend to make money and support our family because that’s what a girl like me deserves!
    • I have a high ego. When I look in the mirror I love what I see. I’m pretty quiet and shy though.
    • I can barely tell a joke without laughing, I can’t take anything serious. Sometimes I find it hard not to make a joke about things, I guess I’m just trying to make the world a happier place!
    • I love being around my friends and family and helping others. Sometimes I feel like I talk too much, but it helps in awkward situations.

Why Am I Still Single? (For Females)

Why am I still single?