Why Doesn’t She Like You?


“When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.”
Jess C. Scott,

“I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.”
Lisa Kleypas,

“Indifference and neglect often do much more damage than outright dislike.”
J.K. Rowling,

“I think you still love me, but we can’t escape the fact that I’m not enough for you. I knew this was going to happen. So I’m not blaming you for falling in love with another woman. I’m not angry, either. I should be, but I’m not. I just feel pain. A lot of pain. I thought I could imagine how much this would hurt, but I was wrong.”
Haruki Murakami,

“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.”
Carl Gustav Jung

“A guy and a girl can be just friends, but at one point or another, they will fall for each other…Maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late, or maybe forever”
Dave Matthews Band

“You can talk with someone for years, everyday, and still, it won’t mean as much as what you can have when you sit in front of someone, not saying a word, yet you feel that person with your heart, you feel like you have known the person for forever…. connections are made with the heart, not the tongue.”
C. JoyBell C.

“For the two of us, home isn’t a place. It is a person. And we are finally home.”
Stephanie Perkins,

“Man may have discovered fire, but women discovered how to play with it.”
Candace Bushnell,

“It hurts to let go. Sometimes it seems the harder you try to hold on to something or someone the more it wants to get away. You feel like some kind of criminal for having felt, for having wanted. For having wanted to be wanted. It confuses you, because you think that your feelings were wrong and it makes you feel so small because it’s so hard to keep it inside when you let it out and it doesn’t coma back. You’re left so alone that you can’t explain. Damn, there’s nothing like that, is there? I’ve been there and you have too. You’re nodding your head.”
Henry Rollins,

“We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: it’s got to be the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.”
Andrew Boyd,

“Well, it seems to me that the best relationships – the ones that last – are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is… suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with.”
Gillian Anderson

“The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.”
Ernest Hemingway,

“I mean, if the relationship can’t survive the long term, why on earth would it be worth my time and energy for the short term?”
Nicholas Sparks,

“Why is it,” he said, one time, at the subway entrance, “I feel I’ve known you so many years?”
Ray Bradbury,

“When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.”
Donald Miller,

“Every man I meet wants to protect me. I can’t figure out what from.”
Mae West

“There is greatness in doing something you hate for the sake of someone you love.”
Shmuley Boteach

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    How many times do you pass by each other in the hallway?

    • An average amount of times.
    • Rarely… it seems like she’s always on the other side of the school.
    • I haven’t quite figured out her schedule yet.
    • Quite often.
    • I’m not sure… she tends to blend in and she’s easy to miss in a crowd.
  • Question of

    When you pass each other in the hallway, what does she do?

    • We haven’t passed each other enough for me to know.
    • She smiles/winks/waves/says hello
    • We rarely pass each other.
    • She looks away
    • She keeps going, not ignoring me on purpose but not looking out for me either.
  • Question of

    What would she do if you sat by her at lunch?

    • She would say hi and continue whatever she was doing before.
    • I wouldn’t do that because I’m afraid I would scare her away.
    • We don’t have the same lunch period/she’s always somewhere else during lunch.
    • I wouldn’t do that yet, she barely even knows my name!
    • She would start talking to me.
  • Question of

    Pick one of these to describe how she acts around you.

    • Very shy and introverted.
    • Open, friendly, maybe a bit flirty?
    • Like she does with everyone else.
    • Not sure yet because we have very different schedules.
    • Not sure yet because we’ve just met.
  • Question of

    How are her friends?

    • She doesn’t have many/any friends.
    • They’re okay.
    • I’ve never met them because she’s always on the other side of the school.
    • I don’t know who they are yet.
    • They’re awesome!
  • Question of

    Describe your situation with the classes you have together.

    • I’m not sure which classes we have together yer/I just found out which classes we have together.
    • She keeps her head down and never looks at anyone in the classes we have together.
    • We chat/pass notes/shoot each other grins/ect in the classes we have together.
    • We have a few classes together, but she pays as much attention to me as she does the next person.
    • We don’t have any classes together.
  • Question of

    Do you have her phone number/e-mail address/contact info?

    • No because she’s never in the same place I am/yes, and that’s the only way we talk, never face-to face
    • No because I just met her and it’s too soon to ask.
    • Yes! We talk all the time/no, but she would give it to me if I asked her
    • No; I think I’d scare her away if I asked her.
    • No.
  • Question of

    What’s the most you have done together?

    • Nothing. She’s really shy.
    • I don’t know her, so… nothing?
    • We’ve talked a bit.
    • We’ve hung out in places outside of school.
    • Gah, I never see her because she’s always on the other side of the school!
  • Question of

    Are you the first person she’d go to if she needed help?

    • No. She’d probably ask the teacher.
    • No. She doesn’t even know my name.
    • We don’t have the same classes, so it would be pointless for her to ask.
    • Yes! Or I’m at least the second or third person.
    • No. She’d probably ask a friend.
  • Question of

    How do you think she sees you?

    • A great friend, maybe even a future boyfriend?
    • That boy who’s always on the other side of the school.
    • A boy in class who she’s talked with a couple of times.
    • As some kid.
    • Someone she would like to talk to, if only she could muster up the courage…
  • Question of

    First off, why are you taking this quiz?

    • Well, there’s this girl in my life and it really seems like she likes me. I’m just trying to confirm it as better as I can!
    • I noticed that there’s this girl who seems to be coming on to me.
    • A girl I know seems to be kind of flirty with me, maybe she likes me?
    • Well I’ve started to become friends with a girl and I think there might be something between us.
    • I saw this girl…thought she was hot, I just wanna know if she likes me.
  • Question of

    Are you friends?

    • Friends? I’ve never talked to her in my life.
    • Well, we see each other sometimes, and work on projects sometimes, but we don’t really talk.
    • I’ve seen her around and we have some mutual friends, so we’ve chatted a few times.
    • Yep! We’re friends, and we text and talk sometimes.
    • We’re great friends. We text all the time and talk as much as we can while we work.
  • Question of

    When you talk, does she laugh a lot, smile, or even blush? Or the big sign: plays with her hair?

    • Once again, never talked to her.
    • We don’t really talk, so…No!
    • Actually, yeah, now that you mention it, she does… A lot.
    • She doesn’t flip her hair, but she does laugh and smile a lot.
    • We don’t talk much, but when we do, I really only noticed her smile a few times.
  • Question of

    Is she shy around you? Or is she really outgoing and loud around you?

    • Look, I’ve said this before: WE DON’T TALK!
    • She’s really loud! Jeez, it’s like constant hyper and happiness with her.
    • She really shows characteristics of both. Sometimes, in a large group, she’s loud, but, if we’re having a private conversation, she’s kind of quiet.
    • She’s kind of shy most of the time, but not in a mysterious way.
    • I haven’t talked to her enough to decide that.
  • Question of

    Do you ever catch her staring at you?

    • Yeah, I remember noticing her out of the corner of my eye, watching me, but when I would catch her gaze, she would look away.
    • Sometimes, though it’s kind of rare.
    • I don’t think she even knows I exist!
    • Well, she’s looked over at me, but usually it’s only if I make a comment.
    • Nope, not that I know of!
  • Question of

    Does she make playful physical contact? (i.e., brush shoulders, hit the arm, etc.)

    • If she doesn’t know I exist, and we don’t talk, then how could she do that?
    • Yes, she’ll brush past me in a crowded hallway, and when we’re talking she’ll laugh and hit my arm when she’s teasing me.
    • Not so much hitting my arm, but we’ll high-five sometimes, and we brush past each other frequently.
    • Nah, our shoulders touched once, but there was no room to get through, so she had to.
    • She hits my arm, but usually only if I make fun of her.
  • Question of

    Is she suddenly popping up in unexpected places?

    • No, I don’t see her outside of school/work.
    • Definitely! Before we became good friends, I barely saw her. But now, she’s everywhere!
    • I’ve seen her in a lot of the same places as me in the office/school but not so much outside of that.
    • Not really, I mean, I see her, but not everywhere!
    • Oh, no way!
  • Question of

    This quiz aside, do you think she likes you?

    • Well, I’m not sure. That’s why I took this quiz!
    • I doubt it.
    • Yeah, umm…NO!
    • Oh, I’m definitely convinced. All the signs are there!
    • There are some signs, yet I’m still questioning it.
  • Question of

    Did this quiz help you make any conclusions about if she liked you or not?

    • Well, it definitely confirmed my suspicions, I think she does!
    • Well, I wasn’t so sure before, but now, I’m starting to think…it might be so.
    • No, I’m still very confused!
    • Well, I wasn’t really sure, it could have gone either way, but now I’m kinda on the ‘no’ side!
    • No, it kind of answered a question I already knew the answer to. I was pretty bored when I took this!

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