WHY HAVE I NEVER HAD A BOYFRIEND?

 

“You couldn’t just pick and choose at will when someone depended on you, or loved you. It wasn’t like a light switch, easy to turn on or off. If you were in, you were in. Out, you were out.”
Sarah Dessen,

“I got my heart’s desire, and there my troubles began.”
Lev Grossman,

“My head’ll explode if I continue with this escapism.”
Jess C Scott,

“I just…I just miss him. And I hate being so alone.”
Suzanne Collins,

“She was a beautiful dreamer. The kind of girl, who kept her head in the clouds, loved above the stars and left regret beneath the earth she walked on.”
robert m drake

“That night when you kissed me, I left a poem in your mouth, and you can hear some of the lines every time you breathe out.”
Andrea Gibson

“Intimacy is the capacity to be rather weird with someone – and finding that that’s ok with them.”
Alain de Botton

“Submission is not about authority and it is not obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.”
Wm. Paul Young,

“We rip out so much of ourselves to be cured of things faster than we should that we go bankrupt by the age of thirty and have less to offer each time we start with someone new. But to feel nothing so as not to feel anything—what a waste!”
André Aciman,

“Most men claim to desire driven, independent and confident women. Yet when confronted with such a creature reverence often evolves into resent. For just like women, men need to be needed.”
Tiffany Madison

“If equal affection cannot be,
W.H. Auden

“Wanting him to come back before anyone notices part of the world has not moved since he left.”
Brian Andreas

“If a man, who says he loves you, won’t tell you the details of a private conversation between him and another woman you can be sure he is not protecting your heart. He is protecting himself and the women he has feelings for. Wise women simply see things as they are, not as their low self-esteem allows.”
Shannon L. Alder

“An unarticulated crush is very different from an unrequited one, because at least with an unrequited crush you know what the hell you’re doing, even if the other person isn’t doing it back. An unarticulated crush is harder to grapple with, because it’s a crush that you haven’t even admitted to yourself. The romantic forces are all there — you want to see him, you always notice him, you treat every word from him as if it weighs more than anyone else’s. But you don’t know why. You don’t know that you’re doing it. You’d follow him to the end of the earth without ever admitting that your feet were moving.”
David Levithan,

“The reason we all like to think so well of others is that we are all afraid for ourselves. The basis of optimism is sheer terror.”
Oscar Wilde,

“Oh, you know. Jace reminds me of an old boyfriend. Some guys look at you like they want sex. Jace looks at you like you’ve already
Cassandra Clare,

“It’s hard to communicate anything exactly and that’s why perfect relationships between people are difficult to find.”
Gustave Flaubert,

“It’s not your job to like me – it’s mine”
Byron Katie

“We know from daily life that we exist for other people first of all, for whose smiles and well-being our own happiness depends.”
Albert Einstein

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    They have something stuck on their face. What do you do?

    • I’d be grossed out, but hand them a napkin and look away.
    • I’d probably lick it off!
    • I’d ask them if they use napkins often.
    • I’d wonder what is on their mind to fail to notice that.
  • Question of

    They call you to cancel a date at the last minute, claiming it’s an emergency. How do you react?

    • I wouldn’t like it, but if it’s really an emergency it’s fine.
    • I’d offer to help, of course!
    • I’d ask them to relate the circumstances fully right now.
    • I’d wonder if they are telling the truth.
  • Question of

    If they haven’t shown interest in making out with you after a few dates, what do you think?

    • That it’s not going to happen.
    • I’d wonder if it’s something I’ve done!
    • I’d ask them if they’re on medication, or there’s something wrong.
    • I’d assume there’s someone else they’re seeing.
  • Question of

    They tell you they want to keep things light. What do you think?

    • Nope. I’m looking for a serious relationship, and that’s that.
    • Sure, I can keep it light! I can play it any way you want it.
    • I would ask just what they mean by that, and analyze for next steps.
    • I’d ask them if they’re seeing other people.
  • Question of

    They tell you you’re special. How do you react?

    • Special? Really? That’s so generic.
    • I tell them they’re super special, too!
    • I’d ask them to explain which ways I’m special.
    • This means I really stand out from the others!
  • Question of

    How often do you expect them to text you?

    • I expect them to know how often and when it’s appropriate!
    • I wish they’d text throughout the day.
    • As often as I text them!
    • Often enough, especially after they’ve come back late at night.
  • Question of

    They send you some hideous flowers. How do you react?

    • I’d really wonder about their tastes, and it would be a huge letdown.
    • There are no hideous flowers. I might come to like this variety!
    • I’d tell them which flowers they should send me from now on.
    • I’d really wonder if there was a mix-up.
  • Question of

    They say they’d like to introduce you to their mother when she flies in next week. What do you do?

    • I make sure to act perfectly, as I know I can.
    • I ask about the mother, and make sure to bring gifts for her.
    • I ask every detail about the mother, how long she is staying, etc.
    • I’d wonder about their level of attachment to their mother.
  • Question of

    Which set of words best describe you and or your personality? ????????

    • Confident and loud
    • Funny and likable
    • Shy and quiet
    • Honest and calm
    • Talkative and bold
  • Question of

    Which sentence best describes how you feel about yourself? ????????

    • Limited confidence in my personality and appearance can talk to new people after spending a bit of time around them.
    • Somewhat confident in my personality and looks, is very friendly and is pretty good at talking to people in social situations.
    • Confident in my personality and appearance can easily talk to anyone who will listen.
    • Pretty confident in personality and tries very hard to look good, makes huge effort to talk to new people but finds it semi awkward.
    • Not confident in my personality or appearance, finds social situations and meeting new people very difficult.
  • Question of

    Which of these qualities/personality traits are you LEAST proud of? ????????

    • Lack of effort and putting self out there.
    • Can be pessimistic and pretty negative about self.
    • Can be very loud and sometimes invasive of others space.
    • Lack of confidence, low body esteem and bad social skills.
    • Can be cocky and sometimes self absorbed.
  • Question of

    What attributes does your ideal boyfriend have? ????????

    • Super loving and perfect.
    • Not really sure kind and nice I guess.
    • Very attractive and always willing to listen to me.
    • Someone funny and genuine.
    • Someone who likes me and who is nice.
  • Question of

    What is your ideal first date? ????????

    • A movie
    • Lunch and a nice walk
    • Hanging out at their house
    • Perfect night under the stars
    • Fancy dinner
  • Question of

    What stereotype best describe the boys you usually find attractive or have crushes on? ????????

    • The Athletic Boy
    • The Shy Boy
    • The Nice Boy
    • The Prince Charming
    • The Funny Boy
  • Question of

    In why do YOU believe that you haven’t had a boyfriend? ????????

    • I don’t try to speak to people.
    • I’m waiting for the perfect person.
    • I haven’t met someone that really likes me.
    • I’m not good enough for anyone.
    • There’s no one good enough for me.
  • Question of

    Which if these words do you like the best? ????????

    • Personal
    • Nice
    • Perfection
    • Quiet
    • Humour
  • Question of

    What is the most important thing to you in your life right now? ????????

    • Making sure others are happy
    • Friendships
    • School
    • Myself
    • Finding love
  • Question of

    Which colour do you feel best suits your personality? ????????

    • Yellow
    • Blue
    • Red
    • Gold
    • Purple
  • Question of

    Your date comes in ten minutes late. How do you react?

    • I’d be irritated and would remind them that my time is valuable.
    • I’m just glad they’ve arrived!
    • I’ve spent the last few minutes texting them.
    • Humph! I wonder what caught their attention on the way over.
  • Question of

    They offer to take you out during the week instead of a weekend. What do you assume?

    • I’d wonder if they have another date on Saturday.
    • I’d wonder what is wrong with them to have so much free time.
    • Yay! They want to see me as much as I want to see them.
    • I’d assume they need dating tips.

Why am I still single?

Why am I single