Will Our Long Distance Relationship Work?

 

“When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.”
Jess C. Scott,

“I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.”
Lisa Kleypas,

“Indifference and neglect often do much more damage than outright dislike.”
J.K. Rowling,

“I think you still love me, but we can’t escape the fact that I’m not enough for you. I knew this was going to happen. So I’m not blaming you for falling in love with another woman. I’m not angry, either. I should be, but I’m not. I just feel pain. A lot of pain. I thought I could imagine how much this would hurt, but I was wrong.”
Haruki Murakami,

“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.”
Carl Gustav Jung

“A guy and a girl can be just friends, but at one point or another, they will fall for each other…Maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late, or maybe forever”
Dave Matthews Band

“You can talk with someone for years, everyday, and still, it won’t mean as much as what you can have when you sit in front of someone, not saying a word, yet you feel that person with your heart, you feel like you have known the person for forever…. connections are made with the heart, not the tongue.”
C. JoyBell C.

“For the two of us, home isn’t a place. It is a person. And we are finally home.”
Stephanie Perkins,

“Man may have discovered fire, but women discovered how to play with it.”
Candace Bushnell,

“It hurts to let go. Sometimes it seems the harder you try to hold on to something or someone the more it wants to get away. You feel like some kind of criminal for having felt, for having wanted. For having wanted to be wanted. It confuses you, because you think that your feelings were wrong and it makes you feel so small because it’s so hard to keep it inside when you let it out and it doesn’t coma back. You’re left so alone that you can’t explain. Damn, there’s nothing like that, is there? I’ve been there and you have too. You’re nodding your head.”
Henry Rollins,

“We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: it’s got to be the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.”
Andrew Boyd,

“Well, it seems to me that the best relationships – the ones that last – are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is… suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with.”
Gillian Anderson

“The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.”
Ernest Hemingway,

“I mean, if the relationship can’t survive the long term, why on earth would it be worth my time and energy for the short term?”
Nicholas Sparks,

“Why is it,” he said, one time, at the subway entrance, “I feel I’ve known you so many years?”
Ray Bradbury,

“When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.”
Donald Miller,

“Every man I meet wants to protect me. I can’t figure out what from.”
Mae West

“There is greatness in doing something you hate for the sake of someone you love.”
Shmuley Boteach

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    How often do you go out and have fun with the person you’re seeing?

    • I am seeing lots of people.
    • Once a week
    • Once a month
    • Once every few months
  • Question of

    Do you use Skype or FaceTime to talk to this person?

    • No, why would I do that?
    • No, that would be weird.
    • On occasion
    • Almost every day
  • Question of

    What is sex with this person like?

    • Pretty decent
    • It’s OK, we are pretty used to each other now.
    • It is pretty good.
    • It’s like we are a couple of wild animals.
  • Question of

    Do you have enough time to yourself in your relationship?

    • I don’t care about that.
    • No, I could use a little more.
    • It is about right.
    • I have way too much.
  • Question of

    Do you argue about the future of your relationship?

    • No, I don’t care enough to do that.
    • No, we are on the same page.
    • No, but I want to sometimes.
    • All the time
  • Question of

    Do you ever meet midway?

    • Is that slang for something?
    • You mean when we get out of work?
    • Sure, we try to.
    • Yes, quite often
  • Question of

    How often do you go out with your friends?

    • Hardly ever
    • Pretty rarely
    • Once a week or so
    • Constantly
  • Question of

    Do you trust each other?

    • I wouldn’t say that.
    • Well, we try.
    • We have no choice.
    • Completely
  • Question of

    How many times do you fly a year?

    • 0
    • 1-3
    • 4-8
    • More than 8
  • Question of

    Are your friends always telling you that you should dump this person?

    • We don’t talk about it much.
    • No, that would be awful.
    • They do sometimes.
    • Yeah, all the time
  • Question of

    Would you move a long distance for your relationship?

    • Nope
    • Of course, love conquers all.
    • Well, I would need some convincing.
    • I would think about it.
  • Question of

    Are you in college or grad school?

    • No way, that is a waste of time.
    • No, I finished it.
    • No, but a person I am dating is.
    • Yes, I am.
  • Question of

    How long have you two been dating?

    • A week/several weeks
    • A month/several months
    • A year/several years
  • Question of

    How do you contact each other?

    • FaceTiming, Skyping, voice calling, texting – you name it
    • Calling & texting (no camera)
    • Mostly texting
    • Just texting. We’ve never called before
  • Question of

    Have you seen him/her in person yet?

    • Yes
    • Yes, on FaceTIme (or on another call with a camera on)
    • We’ve sent pictures of ourselves to each other
    • I’ve seen the person, but they haven’t seen me
    • No, neither of us knows what the other looks like
  • Question of

    Have you seen each other in real life?

    • Yes, a few times
    • Yes, once
    • No
  • Question of

    If not, are you planning to?

    • Like I said, we have seen each other
    • Both of us equally want to
    • I want to, but he/she doesn’t
    • We haven’t discussed it
    • Neither of us wants to
  • Question of

    Has your partner said ‘I love you’ yet, and/or have you?

    • Each of us has told the other, ‘I love you’
    • He/she has, but I haven’t
    • No, but I feel we do love each other
    • No
  • Question of

    Do you know your partner’s daily schedule?

    • Yes, I know where he/she is most of the time because he/she either tells me beforehand or because I memorised his/her daily life
    • Yes, I know all the major places he’s/she’s going because he/she tells me
    • Kind of…I know when he/she comes home from school/work and when he/she goes to school/work
    • Not really, I know when he/she wakes up and goes to sleep
    • No, I know nothing
  • Question of

    Someone hot asks for your number. What do you do?

    • Give it to them, and chat them up later
    • Give it to them, but remain friends
    • Before giving it to them, tell them firmly I’m taken
    • Nope! Nope! Nope! No thanks, Mr. or Miss Stranger Who Suddenly Asked For My Number. I’m good
  • Question of

    Do you guys ever fight?

    • Never, not even once! Our relationship has been perfect so far
    • Only once, but we solved the issue
    • We have a few times, but we solved the issues
    • We break up and get back together over and over
  • Question of

    You’re going out to a party with your friend, who is the opposite gender. What do you do?

    • I’ll tell my long distance bf/gf, and if they don’t approve, I won’t go
    • I’ll tell him/her, but even if they disapprove, I’ll still go
    • I’ll tell him/her afterward
    • Why would I tell him/her? It’s just a party
  • Question of

    Why did you take this quiz?*

    • To officially see how perfect we are <3
    • Because I have doubts about our relationship
    • Bored. Just bored. Extremely bored!
  • Question of

    Do you make love on the regular with your partner?

    • Yes, but not with my partner.
    • Yes, all the time.
    • Pretty rarely.
    • That hardly ever happens.
  • Question of

    Do you sext a lot?

    • Yeah, but with all sorts of people.
    • No, I see the person I hang with all the time.
    • I do sometimes.
    • All the time
  • Question of

    How often do you talk to the person you are seeing on the phone?

    • Never
    • Only in emergencies
    • An hour a week
    • An hour a day
  • Question of

    Do you text this person a lot?

    • Nope
    • Sure, I like to keep in touch.
    • I text every hour or so.
    • I text all day long.
  • Question of

    Are you an expert at time zones?

    • No, I don’t pay attention to that.
    • Not any more than anyone else
    • I have them down pretty good.
    • I know them like the back of my hand.
  • Question of

    How jealous are you?

    • Crazy jealous
    • Kind of jealous
    • Not that jealous
    • Meh, not even a little bit
  • Question of

    Have you switched phone plans lately?

    • I haven’t done that in years.
    • It has been a while.
    • I did it over the last year.
    • I have done if a few times recently.

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