Will you get in a relationship with her? (high school/teen)


“I want to be in a relationship where you telling me you love me is just a ceremonious validation of what you already show me.”
Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free

“Never marry at all, Dorian. Men marry because they are tired, women, because they are curious: both are disappointed.”
Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray

“Man, when you lose your laugh you lose your footing.”
Ken Kesey, One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest

“Every couple needs to argue now and then. Just to prove that the relationship is strong enough to survive. Long-term relationships, the ones that matter, are all about weathering the peaks and the valleys.”
Nicholas Sparks, Safe Haven

“I know enough to know that no woman should ever marry a man who hated his mother.”
Martha Gellhorn, Selected Letters

“Maybe its like you said before, all of us being cracked open. Like each of us starts out as a watertight vessel. And then things happen – these people leave us, or don’t love us, or don’t get us, or we don’t get them, and we lose and fail and hurt one another. And the vessel starts to crack in places. And I mean, yeah once the vessel cracks open, the end becomes inevitable. Once it starts to rain inside the Osprey, it will never be remodeled. But there is all this time between when the cracks start to open up and when we finally fall apart. And its only that time that we see one another, because we see out of ourselves through our cracks and into others through theirs. When did we see each other face to face? Not until you saw into my cracks and I saw into yours. Before that we were just looking at ideas of each other, like looking at your window shade, but never seeing inside. But once the vessel cracks, the light can get in. The light can get out.”
John Green, Paper Towns

“People like to say love is unconditional, but it’s not, and even if it was unconditional, it’s still never free. There’s always an expectation attached. They always want something in return. Like they want you to be happy or whatever and that makes you automatically responsible for their happiness because they won’t be happy unless you are … I just don’t want that responsibility.”
Katja Millay, The Sea of Tranquility

“For there to be betrayal, there would have to have been trust first.”
Suzanne Collins, The Hunger Games

“Even though you may want to move forward in your life, you may have one foot on the brakes. In order to be free, we must learn how to let go. Release the hurt. Release the fear. Refuse to entertain your old pain. The energy it takes to hang onto the past is holding you back from a new life. What is it you would let go of today?”
Mary Manin Morrissey Dairy Queen

“When you don’t talk, there’s a lot of stuff that ends up not getting said.”
Catherine Gilbert Murdock, Venus in Arms

“Usually adult males who are unable to make emotional connections with the women they choose to be intimate with are frozen in time, unable to allow themselves to love for fear that the loved one will abandon them. If the first woman they passionately loved, the mother, was not true to her bond of love, then how can they trust that their partner will be true to love. Often in their adult relationships these men act out again and again to test their partner’s love. While the rejected adolescent boy imagines that he can no longer receive his mother’s love because he is not worthy, as a grown man he may act out in ways that are unworthy and yet demand of the woman in his life that she offer him unconditional love. This testing does not heal the wound of the past, it merely reenacts it, for ultimately the woman will become weary of being tested and end the relationship, thus reenacting the abandonment. This drama confirms for many men that they cannot put their trust in love. They decide that it is better to put their faith in being powerful, in being dominant.”
bell hooks The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember

“To say that one waits a lifetime for his soulmate to come around is a paradox. People eventually get sick of waiting, take a chance on someone, and by the art of commitment become soulmates, which takes a lifetime to perfect.”
Criss Jami, Between the Tides

“Part of the problem with the word ‘disabilities’ is that it immediately suggests an inability to see or hear or walk or do other things that many of us take for granted. But what of people who can’t feel? Or talk about their feelings? Or manage their feelings in constructive ways? What of people who aren’t able to form close and strong relationships? And people who cannot find fulfillment in their lives, or those who have lost hope, who live in disappointment and bitterness and find in life no joy, no love? These, it seems to me, are the real disabilities.”
Fred Rogers, The Fall

“Cheating and lying aren’t struggles, they’re reasons to break up.”
Patti Callahan Henry, Along for the Ride

“Our wounds are often the openings into the best and most beautiful part of us.”
David Richo At First Sight

“I used to advertise my loyalty and I don’t believe there is a single person I loved that I didn’t eventually betray.”
Albert Camus, The Intern

“If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you’re allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind.”
Shannon L. Alder Poems from the Heart

“Relationships dont always make sense. Especially from the outside”
Sarah Dessen, Waiting for You

“Lots of things can be fixed. Things can be fixed. But many times, relationships between people cannot be fixed, because they should not be fixed. You’re aboard a ship setting sail, and the other person has joined the inland circus, or is boarding a different ship, and you just can’t be with each other anymore. Because you shouldn’t be.”
C. JoyBell C. Remember Me

“Every couple has ups and downs, every couple argues, and that’s the thing—you’re a couple, and couples can’t function without trust.”
Nicholas Sparks, The Cocktail Party

“Those sweet lips. My, oh my, I could kiss those lips all night long.
Jess C. Scott, Messages from the Masters: Tapping Into the Power of Love

“I may not always be with you
Marc Wambolt, Straight Up and Dirty

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    How long have you known her?

    • Under a year
    • 3-4 years
    • 5+ years
    • Never met
    • 1-2 years
  • Question of

    Do you share common interests?

    • Lots
    • One or two
    • Yea, a few
    • Nope
    • Everything
  • Question of

    Be honest, what do you like about her?

    • Her interests
    • Her looks
    • Her personality
    • Her body
    • Her sense of humor
  • Question of

    Which word best describes her personality?

    • Mean
    • Affectionate
    • Caring
    • Boring
    • Helpful
  • Question of

    How would you describe your relationship (be honest)?

    • Just friends
    • We’re dating
    • We flirt and hang out together a lot, but nothings official
    • She hates me
    • I hate her
  • Question of

    How would you feel if she moved?

    • I don’t really care
    • Absolutely dead inside
    • I’ll miss her, I guess
    • Sad
  • Question of

    Have you two made contact at all?

    • We’ve kissed and hold hands all the time
    • Sometimes we playfully touch each other
    • We hold hands sometimes
    • We’ve hugged
    • We’ve never made contact
  • Question of

    If you were to ask her out tomorrow how do you think she would respond?

    • ‘I like you as a friend, but I’m not ready for that yet’
    • ‘I was hoping you would ask me out’
    • ‘hell yeah!’
    • We’re already dating
    • ‘hell no’
  • Question of

    What would you like to do with her?

    • Go out to eat
    • Stay at your house together
    • Take her skiing (or a similar activity you can do together)
    • Sports game
    • Just sit and talk all night
  • Question of

    Would you tell people?

    • No, I’d rather keep it secret
    • Honestly I don’t care, it’s up to her I guess
    • A few friends I can trust
    • No, if our families found out they’d kill us
    • Everyone!
  • Question of

    Be honest, how do you think she feels about you?

    • I think she likes me
    • We’re friends, and nothing more
    • She likes me even more than I like her!
    • She hates me
    • We don’t really know each other
  • Question of

    How do you feel about her?

    • We’re friends
    • I have a bit of a crush, I think
    • I hate her, why am I even taking this quiz?
    • We don’t know each other
    • I am obsessed with her, I’m constantly think about her or texting her
  • Question of

    She is leaning in to kiss you, what do you do?

    • Give her a little kiss back, but let her know I’m not interested
    • Resist, we’re not ready for that yet.
    • Why would she be kissing me? we hate each other!
    • Pull back, we’re just friends
    • Kiss her back, you’ve dreamed about this since you first met her
  • Question of

    How would you describe her?

    • She’s a terrible human being
    • Popular/attractive
    • Kind and caring
    • Sweet and shy
  • Question of

    She finally tells you she likes you! how do you respond?

    • How many times do I have to tell you I hate her?
    • You feel the same way, but your worried it could ruin your friendship, so you say no.
    • Kiss her
    • We’re just friends, so I’d say no
    • Tell her you feel the same way and want to start a relationship
  • Question of

    Have you taken a long trip together?

    • We have never taken a trip.
    • We have taken short ones.
    • Yes, it went OK.
    • Yes, it went great.
  • Question of

    Have you had a talk about values?

    • No, we don’t need to.
    • Yes, and it didn’t go that great.
    • Yes, and they’re different.
    • Yes, we have the same values.
  • Question of

    Do you guys usually split the cost when you go out?

    • No, I always pay.
    • The other person always pays.
    • Pretty much.
    • Whoever has more money at the time pays.
  • Question of

    Have you ever watched someone’s pet together?

    • No, neither one of us likes animals.
    • Not together, no.
    • Yes, but I did most of the watching.
    • Yes, it was super fun.
  • Question of

    Have you ever taken a class together?

    • No, I have no idea what we would do together.
    • No, but that sounds fun.
    • Yes, we took a physical class together, like dance or exercise.
    • Yes, we learned how to do something together, like painting or cooking.

Should you be together? ( High school / Teenager )

Is there a spark between you two?