Will you marry your crush/boyfriend/girlfriend?

 

“I want to be in a relationship where you telling me you love me is just a ceremonious validation of what you already show me.”
Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free

“Never marry at all, Dorian. Men marry because they are tired, women, because they are curious: both are disappointed.”
Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray

“Man, when you lose your laugh you lose your footing.”
Ken Kesey, One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest

“Every couple needs to argue now and then. Just to prove that the relationship is strong enough to survive. Long-term relationships, the ones that matter, are all about weathering the peaks and the valleys.”
Nicholas Sparks, Safe Haven

“I know enough to know that no woman should ever marry a man who hated his mother.”
Martha Gellhorn, Selected Letters

“Maybe its like you said before, all of us being cracked open. Like each of us starts out as a watertight vessel. And then things happen – these people leave us, or don’t love us, or don’t get us, or we don’t get them, and we lose and fail and hurt one another. And the vessel starts to crack in places. And I mean, yeah once the vessel cracks open, the end becomes inevitable. Once it starts to rain inside the Osprey, it will never be remodeled. But there is all this time between when the cracks start to open up and when we finally fall apart. And its only that time that we see one another, because we see out of ourselves through our cracks and into others through theirs. When did we see each other face to face? Not until you saw into my cracks and I saw into yours. Before that we were just looking at ideas of each other, like looking at your window shade, but never seeing inside. But once the vessel cracks, the light can get in. The light can get out.”
John Green, Paper Towns

“People like to say love is unconditional, but it’s not, and even if it was unconditional, it’s still never free. There’s always an expectation attached. They always want something in return. Like they want you to be happy or whatever and that makes you automatically responsible for their happiness because they won’t be happy unless you are … I just don’t want that responsibility.”
Katja Millay, The Sea of Tranquility

“For there to be betrayal, there would have to have been trust first.”
Suzanne Collins, The Hunger Games

“Even though you may want to move forward in your life, you may have one foot on the brakes. In order to be free, we must learn how to let go. Release the hurt. Release the fear. Refuse to entertain your old pain. The energy it takes to hang onto the past is holding you back from a new life. What is it you would let go of today?”
Mary Manin Morrissey Dairy Queen

“When you don’t talk, there’s a lot of stuff that ends up not getting said.”
Catherine Gilbert Murdock, Venus in Arms

“Usually adult males who are unable to make emotional connections with the women they choose to be intimate with are frozen in time, unable to allow themselves to love for fear that the loved one will abandon them. If the first woman they passionately loved, the mother, was not true to her bond of love, then how can they trust that their partner will be true to love. Often in their adult relationships these men act out again and again to test their partner’s love. While the rejected adolescent boy imagines that he can no longer receive his mother’s love because he is not worthy, as a grown man he may act out in ways that are unworthy and yet demand of the woman in his life that she offer him unconditional love. This testing does not heal the wound of the past, it merely reenacts it, for ultimately the woman will become weary of being tested and end the relationship, thus reenacting the abandonment. This drama confirms for many men that they cannot put their trust in love. They decide that it is better to put their faith in being powerful, in being dominant.”
bell hooks The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember

“To say that one waits a lifetime for his soulmate to come around is a paradox. People eventually get sick of waiting, take a chance on someone, and by the art of commitment become soulmates, which takes a lifetime to perfect.”
Criss Jami, Between the Tides

“Part of the problem with the word ‘disabilities’ is that it immediately suggests an inability to see or hear or walk or do other things that many of us take for granted. But what of people who can’t feel? Or talk about their feelings? Or manage their feelings in constructive ways? What of people who aren’t able to form close and strong relationships? And people who cannot find fulfillment in their lives, or those who have lost hope, who live in disappointment and bitterness and find in life no joy, no love? These, it seems to me, are the real disabilities.”
Fred Rogers, The Fall

“Cheating and lying aren’t struggles, they’re reasons to break up.”
Patti Callahan Henry, Along for the Ride

“Our wounds are often the openings into the best and most beautiful part of us.”
David Richo At First Sight

“I used to advertise my loyalty and I don’t believe there is a single person I loved that I didn’t eventually betray.”
Albert Camus, The Intern

“If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you’re allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind.”
Shannon L. Alder Poems from the Heart

“Relationships dont always make sense. Especially from the outside”
Sarah Dessen, Waiting for You

“Lots of things can be fixed. Things can be fixed. But many times, relationships between people cannot be fixed, because they should not be fixed. You’re aboard a ship setting sail, and the other person has joined the inland circus, or is boarding a different ship, and you just can’t be with each other anymore. Because you shouldn’t be.”
C. JoyBell C. Remember Me

“Every couple has ups and downs, every couple argues, and that’s the thing—you’re a couple, and couples can’t function without trust.”
Nicholas Sparks, The Cocktail Party

“Those sweet lips. My, oh my, I could kiss those lips all night long.
Jess C. Scott, Messages from the Masters: Tapping Into the Power of Love

“I may not always be with you
Marc Wambolt, Straight Up and Dirty

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    How much do you like them?

    • Don’t like them at all
    • Oh my goodness I love him/her so much
    • A lot
    • A little bit
    • Quite a bit
  • Question of

    How much do they like you?

    • I think that they like me quite a lot
    • He/she does not express much love
    • A little bit
    • I don’t care he/she is hot and that’s all that matters
    • Not sure
  • Question of

    How much do you think about him/her?

    • I often pretend pillows are him or her
    • I don’t
    • Sometimes
    • When I’m awake
    • Oh my goodness 24/7
  • Question of

    Do you ever think about your wedding?

    • I dream about it every night
    • No
    • Um….
    • Sometimes
    • Oh my goodness 24/7
  • Question of

    Have you ever cheated on them?

    • What does that mean
    • Multiple times
    • Never, why would I even think of it
    • Once
    • I’ve only ever had more than one boyfriend / girlfriend
  • Question of

    Let’s say that you’re 30 and they still haven’t proposed to you, how do you react?

    • I’m a boy so I do the proposing
    • Punch them in the face
    • Patiently wait for them to propose
    • Politely ask if things can move a bit faster
    • Hope they don’t propose
  • Question of

    Do you want to have kids with them?

    • Nah
    • Oh my goodness yes!
    • Yes that would be so adorable
    • No way
    • No thanks it looks too painful
  • Question of

    Would you wear crop tops or mini skirts around them?

    • I’m a boy I don’t wear those things
    • I’m not sure my boyfriend/ crush I would like that
    • I’m not sure
    • No I don’t like exposing that much of my body
    • Yes that’s what I wear around them all the time
  • Question of

    Who will kiss first?

    • Him
    • I have a crush on him / her, we don’t kiss
    • Both
    • Me
    • No one, it won’t happen
  • Question of

    On a scale of 1 to 10 how much do you want to marry them?

    • 11, sorry I had to break the scale
    • 10 to 8, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes please
    • 0, I’m taking this quiz because I really don’t want to marry him/her
    • 3 to 1, not really
    • 7 to 4, not sure
  • Question of

    Have you met your potential ‘in-laws’?

    • Yes
    • No
    • I’ve met most of his friends. Does that count?
  • Question of

    Have the two of you spent a holiday together?

    • Yes, and we are already planning the next one!
    • He’s never wanted to take a vacation with me
    • We’ve spoken about it, but never set anything in stone.
  • Question of

    Have the two of you ever spoken about living together?

    • Yes
    • No
    • We always spend the night over at each other’s place. Does that count?
  • Question of

    Does your boyfriend have a stable job?

    • Yes, he has a great career!
    • No, he’s been bouncing around with jobs.
    • He has just quit his job and looking towards a whole new opportunity.
  • Question of

    Have you guys said ‘I love you’ yet?

    • Yes, we say it all the time!
    • No, he’s not very affectionate.
    • Not yet, but I think he will soon!
    • We say it occasionally.
  • Question of

    Have the two of you discussed kids or sharing a home together?

    • Yes
    • No
    • We have a dog. Does that count?
  • Question of

    How long have the two of you been dating?

    • 0-12 Months
    • 1-3 Years
    • 4+ Years
  • Question of

    Are the majority of your boyfriend’s friends married?

    • Yes
    • No
    • I haven’t met his friends yet!
  • Question of

    How do you make up after a fight?

    • We have a calm discussion, say we are sorry and never argue about the same thing twice.
    • We’ve never had a fight!
    • Make up sex!
  • Question of

    Can you see yourself with this guy for the rest of your life?

    • Yes
    • No
    • I’m not really sure…
  • Question of

    Does he hold your hand when casually walking?

    • Yes, all the time!
    • Not really…
    • Sometimes, when we are walking down the road alone and no one is around.
  • Question of

    Have you two ever cheated on each other?

    • Yes
    • No
    • I’m not sure if he has…
  • Question of

    If the two of you had a break in the relationship, would he…

    • Not want to be with anyone else with the hope of you two getting back together?
    • Find someone else, but still keep in contact?
    • Never want to talk to you again?
  • Question of

    Do you two speak everyday?

    • Yes
    • No
    • Does a text count?
  • Question of

    Has he ever wondered what your kids would look like?

    • Yes, all the time!
    • Never
    • He doesn’t want kids.

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