Will You Marry Your High School Sweetheart?


“If you need something from somebody always give that person a way to hand it to you.”
Sue Monk Kidd, The Secret Life of Bees

“This is what happened in love. One of you cried a lot and then both of you grew sarcastic.”
Lorrie Moore, Like Life

“Do you know what it means to come home at night to a woman who’ll give you a little love, a little affection, a little tenderness? It means you’re in the wrong house, that’s what it means.”
Henny Youngman A Wild Sheep Chase

“Most everything you think you know about me is nothing more than memories.”
Haruki Murakami, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience

“When you hold a grudge, you want someone else’s sorrow to reflect your level of hurt but the two rarely meet.”
Steve Maraboli, Dead to the World

“It’s probably a bad indicator of your lifestyle when you miss your ex-boyfriend because he’s absolutely lethal.”
Charlaine Harris, The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“A busy, vibrant, goal-oriented woman is so much more attractive than a woman who waits around for a man to validate her existence.”
Mandy Hale, It’s Not Summer Without You

“That’s when I finally got it. I finally understood. It wasn’t the thought that counted. It was the actual execution that mattered, the showing up for somebody. The intent behind it wasn’t enough. Not for me. Not anymore. It wasn’t enough to know that deep down, he loved me. You had to actually say it to somebody, show them you cared. And he just didn’t. Not enough.”
Jenny Han, Why Things Burn

“When you loved someone and had to let them go, there will always be that small part of yourself that whispers, “What was it that you wanted and why didn’t you fight for it?”
Shannon L. Alder The Valkyries

“I define connection as the energy that exists between people when they feel seen, heard, and valued; when they can give and receive without judgment; and when they derive sustenance and strength from the relationship.”
Brené Brown You Are Worthless: Depressing Nuggets of Wisdom Sure to Ruin Your Day

“you can take this mouth
Daphne Gottlieb, I’ll Give You the Sun

“He knew one of the women well, and had shared his universe with her. They had seen the same mountains, and the same trees, although each of them had seem them differently. She knew his weaknesses, his moments of hatred, of despair. Yet she was there at his side. They shared the same universe.”
Paulo Coelho, Excuse Me, My Brains Have Stepped Out

“Statistically speaking, there is a 65 percent chance that the love of your life is having an affair. Be very suspicious.”
Scott Dikkers, EyeLeash: A Blog Novel

“People die, I think, but your relationship with them doesn’t. It continues and is ever-changing.”
Jandy Nelson, Where She Went

“The best relationships in our lives are the best not because they have been the happiest ones, they are that way because they have stayed strong through the most tormentful of storms.”
Pandora Poikilos, Watermelon

“V-Day…if you need this one day in a year to show everyone else you truly care for “your loved one” I think it’s quite stupid. I hate this commercialism. It’s all artificial, and has nothing to do with real love.”
Jess C Scott, Survivor

“There are so many things that demand to be said. Where did you go? Do you ever think about me? You’ve ruined me. Are you okay? But of course, I can’t say any of that.”
Gayle Forman, Bridget Jones’s Diary

“Failed relationships can be described as so much wasted make-up.”
Marian Keyes, The Lover’s Dictionary

“Six hundred and forty fish later, the only thing I know is everything you love will die. The first time you meet someone special, you can count on them one day being dead and in the ground.”
Chuck Palahniuk, Safe Haven

“A true gentleman is one that apologizes anyways, even though he has not offended a lady intentionally. He is in a class all of his own because he knows the value of a woman’s heart.”
Shannon Alder A Supposedly Fun Thing I’ll Never Do Again: Essays and Arguments

“When you struggle with your partner, you are struggling with yourself. Every fault you see in them touches a denied weakness in yourself.”
Deepak Chopra The Fault in Our Stars

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Have you done the dirty?

    • Yes hehe
    • I’m not ready for that
    • Nope
  • Question of

    Does he take you on dates?

    • Yeah all the time!
    • Never
    • Sometimes
  • Question of

    If he does take you on dates, where to?

    • To dinner
    • The movies usually
    • We don’t go on dates
    • A special romantic place
  • Question of

    Do you guys say ‘i love you’?

    • Sometimes I guess
    • All the time
    • Never
  • Question of

    Do you want to marry him?

    • Yeah duh!
    • I don’t know yet
    • Nope
  • Question of

    Do you like his family?

    • Yes!
    • No, hate them
    • I haven’t met them yet
  • Question of

    Does his family like you?

    • No, they hate me
    • Yes!
    • I don’t know
  • Question of

    How many years have you been dating?

    • 2+ years
    • A year exactly
    • Less than a year
  • Question of

    Have you met your potential ‘in-laws’?

    • Yes
    • No
    • I’ve met most of his friends. Does that count?
  • Question of

    Have the two of you spent a holiday together?

    • Yes, and we are already planning the next one!
    • He’s never wanted to take a vacation with me
    • We’ve spoken about it, but never set anything in stone.
  • Question of

    Have the two of you ever spoken about living together?

    • Yes
    • No
    • We always spend the night over at each other’s place. Does that count?
  • Question of

    Does your boyfriend have a stable job?

    • Yes, he has a great career!
    • No, he’s been bouncing around with jobs.
    • He has just quit his job and looking towards a whole new opportunity.
  • Question of

    Have you guys said ‘I love you’ yet?

    • Yes, we say it all the time!
    • No, he’s not very affectionate.
    • Not yet, but I think he will soon!
    • We say it occasionally.
  • Question of

    Have the two of you discussed kids or sharing a home together?

    • Yes
    • No
    • We have a dog. Does that count?
  • Question of

    How long have the two of you been dating?

    • 0-12 Months
    • 1-3 Years
    • 4+ Years
  • Question of

    Are the majority of your boyfriend’s friends married?

    • Yes
    • No
    • I haven’t met his friends yet!
  • Question of

    How do you make up after a fight?

    • We have a calm discussion, say we are sorry and never argue about the same thing twice.
    • We’ve never had a fight!
    • Make up sex!
  • Question of

    Can you see yourself with this guy for the rest of your life?

    • Yes
    • No
    • I’m not really sure…
  • Question of

    Does he hold your hand when casually walking?

    • Yes, all the time!
    • Not really…
    • Sometimes, when we are walking down the road alone and no one is around.
  • Question of

    Have you two ever cheated on each other?

    • Yes
    • No
    • I’m not sure if he has…
  • Question of

    If the two of you had a break in the relationship, would he…

    • Not want to be with anyone else with the hope of you two getting back together?
    • Find someone else, but still keep in contact?
    • Never want to talk to you again?
  • Question of

    Do you two speak everyday?

    • Yes
    • No
    • Does a text count?
  • Question of

    Has he ever wondered what your kids would look like?

    • Yes, all the time!
    • Never
    • He doesn’t want kids.
  • Question of

    What grade did ya’ll start dating?

    • Freshman
    • Sophomore
    • Senior
    • Junior
  • Question of

    Have you kissed?

    • Yes of course!
    • Nope….
    • I don’t know

Will you marry your crush/boyfriend/girlfriend?

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