Will your ex and you have a future?

 

“Hugh and I have been together for so long that in order to arouse extraordinary passion, we need to engage in physical combat. Once, he hit me on the back of the head with a broken wineglass, and I fell to the floor pretending to be unconscious. That was romantic, or would have been had he rushed to my side rather than stepping over my body to fetch the dustpan.”
David Sedaris, Dress Your Family in Corduroy and Denim

“If I never see you again
Charles Bukowski, Living on Luck

“Maybe you could be mine / or maybe we’ll be entwined / aimless in this sexless foreplay.”
Jess C Scott, EyeLeash: A Blog Novel

“You can be in love and you can be in a relationship. But they’re not always the same thing.”
pleasefindthis, I Wrote This For You

“Being single doesn’t mean you’re weak, it means that you’re strong enough to wait for the right person.”
Niall Horan I Wrote This For You

“I could’ve sworn I was telling the truth when I told you I didn’t miss you.”
pleasefindthis, The Shack

“All I want from you is to trust me with what little you can, and grow in loving people around you with the same love I share with you. It’s not your job to change them, or to convince them. You are free to love without an agenda.”
Wm. Paul Young, The Ministry of Fear

“But it is impossible to go through life without trust; that is to be imprisoned in the worst cell of all, oneself.”
Graham Greene, The Bed of Procrustes: Philosophical and Practical Aphorisms

“Love without sacrifice is like theft”
Nassim Nicholas Taleb, The Gifts of Imperfection

“The most important relationship in your life is the relationship you have with yourself. Because no matter what happens, you will always be with yourself.”
Diane Von Furstenberg Wealth for All: Living a Life of Success at the Edge of Your Ability

“When we fail to set boundaries and hold people accountable, we feel used and mistreated. This is why we sometimes attack who they are, which is far more hurtful than addressing a behavior or a choice.”
Brené Brown, The Single Woman: Life, Love, and a Dash of Sass

“Love lasts about seven years. That’s how long it takes for the cells of the body to totally replace themselves.”
Francois Sagan Finding True Love: The 4 Essential Keys to Bring You the Love of Your Life

“Everything you want in life is a relationship away.”
Idowu Koyenikan, The Science of Single: One Woman’s Grand Experiment in Modern Dating, Creating Chemistry, and Finding L ove

“Single is no longer a lack of options – but a choice. A choice to refuse to let your life be defined by your relationship status but to live every day Happily and let your Ever After work itself out.”
Mandy Hale, Little Women

“Ultimately the bond of all companionship, whether in marriage or in friendship, is conversation, and conversation must have a common basis, and between two people of widely different culture the only common basis possible is the lowest level.”
Oscar Wilde The Lucky One

“Sometimes the most beautiful people are beautifully broken.”
robert m drake Lullaby

“Be sure it’s your real self you’re showing. Because it is your real self that needs to be loved.”
Daphne Rose Kingma, 300 Questions LDS Couples Should Ask Before Marriage

“I believe with all my heart that the cliches are true, that we are our own best friends and best company, and that if you’re not right for yourself, it’s impossible to be right for anyone.”
Rachel Machacek, From Within I Rise: Spiritual Triumph Over Death and Conscious Encounters with “The Divine Presence”

“She preferred imaginary heroes to real ones, because when tired of them, the former could be shut up in the tin kitchen till called for, and the latter were less manageable.”
Louisa May Alcott, Sex, Drugs, and Cocoa Puffs: A Low Culture Manifesto

“How could you love us being together?” he asked me “We are nothing alike and we are not meant for each other and we drive each other crazy, you love that? How can you love that?” So I told him “I know that we’re not meant for each other, that we drive each other crazy, and that we are so different. But that’s us. That’s what we have; a wild nonsense. We are not good together, but together we are bad for each other. I love us together this way just like this. Because even if it’s no good, it’s what we have! It’s us.”
C. JoyBell C. Heart of the Matter

“Every now and then, I’d meet a guy and think that we were getting along great, and suddenly I’d stop hearing from him. Not only did he stop calling, but if I happened to bump into him sometime later he always acted like I had the plague. I didn’t understand it. I still don’t. And it bothered me. It hurt me. With time, it got harder and harder to keep blaming the guys, and I eventually came to the conclusion that there was something wrong with me. That maybe I was simply meant to live my life alone.”
Nicholas Sparks, Love Quotes for the Ages. Specifically Ages 19-91.

“No matter how much you love someone, you still want to have you own way.”
Chuck Palahniuk, I Had a Dream About You

“If he can’t handle you at your worst then he does not deserve you at your best. Real love means seeing beyond the words spoken out of pain, and instead seeing a person’s soul.”
Shannon Alder, I Had a Dream About You

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    How do his friends treat you?

    • They’re rude to me.
    • I don’t really know any of his friends.
    • They’re really nice to me.
    • I think they wish we weren’t together.
  • Question of

    Do you notice him flirting with other people on social media?

    • I can’t tell, since he’s blocked me on social media.
    • Yes. He’s always liking other people’s photos on Instagram.
    • No. But he likes everything that I post.
    • Yes, sometimes I see him going back-and-forth with various people. To tell the truth, we fight about it.
  • Question of

    When you talk about other guys, does he seem jealous?

    • No
    • He seems amused … but I think he’s a tiny bit jealous.
    • He doesn’t act jealous; he acts hurt.
    • Yes
  • Question of

    Did you two have a relatively amicable breakup?

    • No. We had a terrible fight and haven’t spoken since.
    • It was pretty friendly … almost as if we weren’t really breaking up.
    • We both tried to stay civil, but it was really sad.
    • Our breakup was messy AF.
  • Question of

    When did you and your ex brake up?

    • Last year
    • Other
    • 1 month ago
    • Today
    • Yesterday
  • Question of

    Did you adore your old partner?

    • Nothing
    • Loads and loads and loads
    • Only a little bit
    • Other
    • With all my heart and more
  • Question of

    Did he/ she love you?

    • No
    • Yes
    • Maybe
    • Not really
    • I think so
  • Question of

    Did you ever say I love you to each other?

    • All the time
    • Of course
    • Never
    • We didn’t
    • We never stopped
  • Question of

    What was your first date with them?

    • We didn’t have one
    • Roller skating
    • Hang out
    • Candlelight dinner
    • Other
  • Question of

    What was your favourite colour?

    • Blue
    • Other
    • Green
    • Red
    • Yellow
  • Question of

    What was there favourite colour?

    • Blue
    • Yellow
    • Green
    • Other
    • Red
  • Question of

    How often did you hangout?

    • All the time
    • Never
    • Hardly ever
    • Lots
    • Not much
  • Question of

    Did you walk home together?

    • No
    • Yes
    • Every day
    • Not at all
  • Question of

    Do you think you will get back together?

    • No
    • Of course
    • Hopefully
    • I trust the quiz to know
    • This quiz does
  • Question of

    Are you two currently in contact?

    • Nope!
    • Yes, we interact on social media.
    • We have coffee every once in a while.
    • We’re so close, it’s like we never broke up.
  • Question of

    Who initiates your conversations?

    • He’s blocked my number.
    • Sometimes he initiates, but only late at night.
    • He does.
    • I do.
  • Question of

    Do you ever hang out?

    • Not on purpose
    • Yes, every once in a while
    • If we run into each other, we’ll often get a drink together.
    • We hang out constantly.
  • Question of

    At what time of day does your ex usually contact you?

    • He never contacts me.
    • 2 a.m.
    • It varies. There’s no specific time.
    • Once he gets off work, he barrages me with texts.
  • Question of

    Does he talk to you about other love interests in his life?

    • Yes. He’s made it obvious that he has someone new.
    • No … but I know he has them.
    • No, and I’m sure there’s no one else.
    • Sometimes, but I think he’s just trying to make me jealous.
  • Question of

    When you run into him, how does he act?

    • Cold
    • Mildly embarrassed
    • Incredibly happy
    • Sometimes pleased, sometimes awkward

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