Will Your Love Last? Take The Break-Up Test!


“When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.”
Jess C. Scott,

“I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.”
Lisa Kleypas,

“Indifference and neglect often do much more damage than outright dislike.”
J.K. Rowling,

“I think you still love me, but we can’t escape the fact that I’m not enough for you. I knew this was going to happen. So I’m not blaming you for falling in love with another woman. I’m not angry, either. I should be, but I’m not. I just feel pain. A lot of pain. I thought I could imagine how much this would hurt, but I was wrong.”
Haruki Murakami,

“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.”
Carl Gustav Jung

“A guy and a girl can be just friends, but at one point or another, they will fall for each other…Maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late, or maybe forever”
Dave Matthews Band

“You can talk with someone for years, everyday, and still, it won’t mean as much as what you can have when you sit in front of someone, not saying a word, yet you feel that person with your heart, you feel like you have known the person for forever…. connections are made with the heart, not the tongue.”
C. JoyBell C.

“For the two of us, home isn’t a place. It is a person. And we are finally home.”
Stephanie Perkins,

“Man may have discovered fire, but women discovered how to play with it.”
Candace Bushnell,

“It hurts to let go. Sometimes it seems the harder you try to hold on to something or someone the more it wants to get away. You feel like some kind of criminal for having felt, for having wanted. For having wanted to be wanted. It confuses you, because you think that your feelings were wrong and it makes you feel so small because it’s so hard to keep it inside when you let it out and it doesn’t coma back. You’re left so alone that you can’t explain. Damn, there’s nothing like that, is there? I’ve been there and you have too. You’re nodding your head.”
Henry Rollins,

“We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: it’s got to be the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.”
Andrew Boyd,

“Well, it seems to me that the best relationships – the ones that last – are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is… suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with.”
Gillian Anderson

“The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.”
Ernest Hemingway,

“I mean, if the relationship can’t survive the long term, why on earth would it be worth my time and energy for the short term?”
Nicholas Sparks,

“Why is it,” he said, one time, at the subway entrance, “I feel I’ve known you so many years?”
Ray Bradbury,

“When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.”
Donald Miller,

“Every man I meet wants to protect me. I can’t figure out what from.”
Mae West

“There is greatness in doing something you hate for the sake of someone you love.”
Shmuley Boteach

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Do you have hobbies in common?

    • We do everything together.
    • We do some things together and some apart.
    • We never want to do the same things.
    • We’ll make an effort to try each other’s hobbies.
  • Question of

    What would you leave your SO for?

    • a Klondike bar
    • a high-paying job
    • someone hotter
    • absolutely nothing
  • Question of

    Are you more in love than when you started dating?

    • More and more each day.
    • Sometimes yes, sometimes no.
    • Unfortunately, no.
    • We feel different, not really more or less.
  • Question of

    Would you regret never dating anymore?

    • I don’t think I’d regret it.
    • I might but I think I’m ready.
    • I would totally regret it.
    • We’re poly so it doesn’t matter.
  • Question of

    How much time do you spend together?

    • Every possible moment.
    • Most of the time but we take time apart.
    • Whenever my SO isn’t busy
    • When we’re not fighting.
  • Question of

    Would you buy your SO a $500 device?

    • No but would split the cost and share it.
    • Yes, I would save up for it.
    • No but my SO would buy one for me.
    • Are you kidding? No way!
  • Question of

    Who pays for dinner?

    • the one with money
    • the man
    • we split the check
    • whoever planned the date
  • Question of

    Which do you disagree about the most?

    • money management
    • responsibilities
    • behavior
    • nothing
  • Question of

    What do your arguments look like?

    • calm discussion
    • yelling and regretted words
    • sometimes things breaking, violence
    • We don’t argue.
  • Question of

    Pick a phrase.

    • Opposites attract.
    • We’re two peas in a pod.
    • Love is patient, love is kind.
    • Love hurts.
  • Question of

    Would you lend your SO $200?

    • Yes, without a second thought.
    • Yes, if there was a good reason.
    • Yes, but I would charge interest.
    • Not in a million years.
  • Question of

    How do you two feel about kids?

    • We haven’t talked about it.
    • We both do (or don’t) want kids.
    • We’re still thinking.
    • We totally disagree about it.
  • Question of

    Do you think about your SO when you’re away?

    • Yes, so much it hurts.
    • All the time.
    • At times.
    • I think about how glad I am to be away.
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