Will your relationship last?

 

“When someone loves you, the way they talk about you is different. You feel safe and comfortable.”
Jess C. Scott,

“I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.”
Lisa Kleypas,

“Indifference and neglect often do much more damage than outright dislike.”
J.K. Rowling,

“I think you still love me, but we can’t escape the fact that I’m not enough for you. I knew this was going to happen. So I’m not blaming you for falling in love with another woman. I’m not angry, either. I should be, but I’m not. I just feel pain. A lot of pain. I thought I could imagine how much this would hurt, but I was wrong.”
Haruki Murakami,

“The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.”
Carl Gustav Jung

“A guy and a girl can be just friends, but at one point or another, they will fall for each other…Maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late, or maybe forever”
Dave Matthews Band

“You can talk with someone for years, everyday, and still, it won’t mean as much as what you can have when you sit in front of someone, not saying a word, yet you feel that person with your heart, you feel like you have known the person for forever…. connections are made with the heart, not the tongue.”
C. JoyBell C.

“For the two of us, home isn’t a place. It is a person. And we are finally home.”
Stephanie Perkins,

“Man may have discovered fire, but women discovered how to play with it.”
Candace Bushnell,

“It hurts to let go. Sometimes it seems the harder you try to hold on to something or someone the more it wants to get away. You feel like some kind of criminal for having felt, for having wanted. For having wanted to be wanted. It confuses you, because you think that your feelings were wrong and it makes you feel so small because it’s so hard to keep it inside when you let it out and it doesn’t coma back. You’re left so alone that you can’t explain. Damn, there’s nothing like that, is there? I’ve been there and you have too. You’re nodding your head.”
Henry Rollins,

“We’re all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you’ve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there’s no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn’t until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems—the ones that make you truly who you are—that we’re ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you’re looking for. You’re looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: it’s got to be the right wrong person—someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, “This is the problem I want to have.”
Andrew Boyd,

“Well, it seems to me that the best relationships – the ones that last – are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is… suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with.”
Gillian Anderson

“The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.”
Ernest Hemingway,

“I mean, if the relationship can’t survive the long term, why on earth would it be worth my time and energy for the short term?”
Nicholas Sparks,

“Why is it,” he said, one time, at the subway entrance, “I feel I’ve known you so many years?”
Ray Bradbury,

“When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.”
Donald Miller,

“Every man I meet wants to protect me. I can’t figure out what from.”
Mae West

“There is greatness in doing something you hate for the sake of someone you love.”
Shmuley Boteach

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    They want you to change the way you are or vice-versa in order to be accepted

    • Strongly Agree
    • Agree
    • Not Sure
    • Disagree
    • Strongly Disagree
  • Question of

    You are IN love? (Think of this)

    • Strongly Agree
    • Agree
    • Not sure
    • Disagree
    • Strongly Disagree
  • Question of

    You trust them

    • Strongly Agree
    • Agree
    • Not Sure
    • Disagree
    • Strongly Disagree
  • Question of

    You want them to be happy.

    • Strongly Agree
    • Agree
    • Not Sure
    • Disagree
    • Strongly Disagree
  • Question of

    You want them to be happy before you are happy?

    • Strongly Agree
    • Agree
    • Not Sure
    • Disagree
    • Strongly Disagree
  • Question of

    Do you know him/her in real life?

    • Yeah, whenever we have time. About once a day.
    • Met on-line just now.
    • Yes, we’re always hanging out.
    • Met recently; only talked couple of times.
    • Duh! All our classes are together.
  • Question of

    Do you talk on the phone?

    • Only for help on homework.
    • Once a day, at least.
    • Hardly ever.
    • We’re ALWAYS on the phone:)
    • Don’t have phone number.
  • Question of

    Are you physically/mentally abused in the relationship?

    • Most of the time I am.
    • Only always:(
    • NEVER. I wouldn’t ever think of it.
    • Almost never, occasional arguments.
    • Sometimes, when he/she gets angry they swear at me.
  • Question of

    When you need them, are they there for you?

    • Almost never.
    • Most of the time, because they have lives too.
    • Nope.
    • Sometimes.
    • ALWAYS!
  • Question of

    Do they spend time with you?

    • Sometimes, but I understand because of family and friends.
    • They’re always with me:)
    • Not really, they’re always with friends.
    • Most of the time we hang out.
    • Spend TIME? YOU’RE FUNNY!
  • Question of

    Do you both have anything in common?

    • We’re like a mirror image. <3
    • Nothing. Nothing at all. We’re opposites.
    • Maybe favourite color but that’s IT.
    • Most things we have in common.
    • Some things, such as favourite foods and music.
  • Question of

    Are YOU happy in the relationship?

    • Ew, no.
    • I’m 100% happy<3
    • I’m happy unless we’re arguing.
    • Not really, but I can handle it.
    • Somewhat.
  • Question of

    When you’re with them are things awkward?

    • Not really, rarely we have nothing to say.
    • I can barely look at him/her.
    • Nope! We’re always chatting away.
    • I haven’t met him/her yet.
    • Sometimes, when we have nothing to say.
  • Question of

    Have you guys kissed yet?

    • Have many times:)
    • Will soon.
    • Nope.
    • Yes and every time it’s like a walk in paradise.
    • Never will.
  • Question of

    Do you mind if your couple is ugly or beautiful?

    • Yes, but sometimes it’s okay.
    • A lot. Ew I’m never dating someone ugly.
    • Nope, I don’t give a damn, as long as they’re nice.
    • NO MATTER WHAT THEY LOOK LIKE, I LOVE THEM<3
    • Not really, i don’t care much unless they’re REALLY ugly.
  • Question of

    Do brains matter?

    • Sometimes, depends.
    • I’m not dating someone stupid ever.
    • Not really.
    • Yes! How can you ask that?
    • I don’t know.
  • Question of

    Do they seem to like/love you a lot?

    • Sometimes.
    • No.
    • Only a little.
    • Most of the time.
    • They always seem like their full attention is on me.
  • Question of

    Do they make you do stuff that’s against your morals?

    • All the time.
    • Most of the time.
    • Sometimes.
    • They don’t force me. ( I do it because it means a lot to them)
    • Never, but if they asked me I would do it since I love them a lot.
  • Question of

    Have they pressured you into sex?

    • Never.
    • No, but I know he/she wants it.
    • They would never do that to me. They’re going at my own pace.
    • Most of the time they ask for it.
    • I was raped numerous time’s by him/her.
  • Question of

    Finally, do they make you a better person?

    • Not really.
    • Yes.
    • A LOT!<3 that’s why I love them.
    • They’ve made me worse.
    • Somewhat.
  • Question of

    What is your age?

    • Under 18 Years Old
    • 18 to 24 Years Old
    • 25 to 30 Years Old
    • 31 to 40 Years Old
    • 41 to 50 Years Old
    • 51 to 60 Years Old
    • Over 60 Years Old
  • Question of

    What is your gender?

    • Male
    • Female
  • Question of

    ‘If I had nothing in this world but you; I would still have everything.’ How much do you agree to this quote in terms of feelings towards your other person?

    • Strongly Agree
    • Agree
    • Not Sure
    • Disagree
    • Strongly Disagree
  • Question of

    You act like yourself around them

    • Strongly Agree
    • Agree
    • Not Sure
    • Disagree
    • Strongly Disagree
  • Question of

    You believe that this is love

    • Strongly Agree
    • Agree
    • Not Sure
    • Disagree
    • Strongly Disagree
  • Question of

    You would do anything (as in ANYTHING) for this person?

    • Strongly Agree
    • Agree
    • Not Sure
    • Disagree
    • Strongly Disagree
  • Question of

    You trust them with your LIFE (as in everything and anything posible in your thoughts or posessions)

    • Strongly Agree
    • Agree
    • Not Sure
    • Disagree
    • Strongly Disagree
  • Question of

    You would risk everything (as in EVERYTHING) for them

    • Strongly Agree
    • Agree
    • Not Sure
    • Disagree
    • Strongly Disagree
  • Question of

    If in order for them to be happy you would have to sit on the sidelines of their life (meaning you are not directly in their life), would you comply for their happiness?

    • Strongly Agree
    • Agree
    • Not Sure
    • Disagree
    • Strongly Disagree
  • Question of

    You would give them everything (not only in a materialistic term)

    • Agree
    • Not Sure
    • Disagree
    • Strongly Disagree
    • Strongly Agree

Will your relationship advance?

How Solid is Your Relationship?