Would I Be A Good Kisser?



Kissing is one of the most common first ways by which new couples come in intimate physical contact. It is seen that being a good kisser can prove beneficial for relationships. This is one of the most common causes of a breakup in new relationships. Though it is very naive of someone to break up, for this reason, couples often do it.

First of let me clear that there is no rocket science when it comes to being a good kisser. Even if you are not, you could easily improve upon it. Just beware of fake relationship gurus as they are just cashing out on your insecurity. You could ask for tips from someone who has been in a relationship for several years.

While if you hesitate in asking someone then here are a few tips for you:

1. Keep your lips moisturized. Nobody wants to kiss someone who has very dry or cracked lips. You could use lip balm or simply your own saliva for it.

2. Avoid bad breath if you are expecting a kiss from someone. While it is true that you never know when the moments will steam up, you could still avoid it as it certainly doesn’t come in the best of etiquette.

3. If you are going to kiss for the first time then you could let your partner lead the way. Different people kiss differently and this way you will know how your partner likes to kiss.

4. You could also give a try beyond the lips. There are many areas which you could advance to like the neck, earlobes and the cheeks which may make you and your partner feel wonderful. It is often overlooked by beginners.

5. You should be honest while you are kissing. It might happen that you are your partner don’t like the way the session is going on. If you don’t like it then you could ask your partner to go for another go. Remember that different people kiss differently and it may take some time to adjust accordingly.

There are can be tons of different tips that you may discover while you are on your kissing journey, but many of them will apply specifically to your case. Nonetheless, you could share it in the comments section if you have any.

“Do not fall in love with people like me.
I will take you to museums, and parks, and monuments, and kiss you in every beautiful place, so that you can never go back to them without tasting me like blood in your mouth.
I will destroy you in the most beautiful way possible. And when I leave you will finally understand, why storms are named after people.”
― Caitlyn Siehl, Literary Sexts: A Collection of Short & Sexy Love Poems

“Well?” Ron said finally, looking up at Harry. “How was it?”
Harry considered it for a moment. “Wet,” he said truthfully.
Ron made a noise that might have indicated jubilation or disgust, it was hard to tell.
“Because she was crying,” Harry continued heavily.
“Oh,” said Ron, his smile faded slightly. “Are you that bad at kissing?”
“Dunno,” said Harry, who hadn’t considered this, and immediately felt rather worried. “Maybe I am.”
― J.K. Rowling, Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix

“Promise to give me a kiss on my brow when I am dead. –I shall feel it.”

She dropped her head again on Marius’ knees, and her eyelids closed. He thought the poor soul had departed. Eponine remained motionless. All at once, at the very moment when Marius fancied her asleep forever, she slowly opened her eyes in which appeared the sombre profundity of death, and said to him in a tone whose sweetness seemed already to proceed from another world:–

“And by the way, Monsieur Marius, I believe that I was a little bit in love with you.”
― Victor Hugo, Les Misérables

“We kiss all the time.” I clear my throat, then add, “We just…do it in private.”
“A smug expression crosses his face. “I don’t buy it for a second, ’cause if you were my girlfriend and a stud like me was livin’ in your house, I’d kiss you in front of the guy every chance I got as a reminder.”
“A reminder of w-w-what?”
“That you were mine.”
― Simone Elkeles, Rules of Attraction

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    Are you confident?

    • No
    • Kind of
    • Yes
  • Question of

    Can you make the kiss about the other person instead of yourself?

    • Of course
    • Why?
    • I can try
  • Question of

    Are you observant?

    • Not at all
    • Somewhat
    • Yes
  • Question of

    Do you take care of your lips with chap stick or moisturizer?

    • Always
    • No
    • When I remember
  • Question of

    Can you adapt to your partner?

    • Why?
    • I can work on it
    • Yes, without a problem
  • Question of

    Are you playful?

    • Yes
    • No
    • It depends on my mood
  • Question of

    Do you know when to be gentle and when to get rough?

    • Yes
    • Nope
    • Most of the time
  • Question of

    Are you a naturally creative person?

    • Yes
    • Not at all
    • With some things
  • Question of

    Do you floss?

    • Always
    • No
    • I try to remember
  • Question of

    Do you brush?

    • Usually
    • Once a day
    • At least twice a day
  • Question of

    Do you think you would be patient and let the kiss move slowly?

    • Sure
    • No patience in my blood
    • I would be willing to learn how
  • Question of

    Do you know how to be passionate?

    • About what?
    • In some situations
    • Yes
  • Question of

    Do you have smelly breath?

    • NEVER!
    • I’ve been told
    • Sometimes if I eat garlic or something
  • Question of

    Can you be respectful if the other person isn’t ready to kiss yet?

    • Absolutely
    • Why wouldn’t they be ready?
    • I think so
  • Question of

    Are you a romantic?

    • Not at all
    • Sometimes
    • Yes, very much so

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