Would we make a good couple?


“I want to be in a relationship where you telling me you love me is just a ceremonious validation of what you already show me.”
Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free

“Never marry at all, Dorian. Men marry because they are tired, women, because they are curious: both are disappointed.”
Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray

“Man, when you lose your laugh you lose your footing.”
Ken Kesey, One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest

“Every couple needs to argue now and then. Just to prove that the relationship is strong enough to survive. Long-term relationships, the ones that matter, are all about weathering the peaks and the valleys.”
Nicholas Sparks, Safe Haven

“I know enough to know that no woman should ever marry a man who hated his mother.”
Martha Gellhorn, Selected Letters

“Maybe its like you said before, all of us being cracked open. Like each of us starts out as a watertight vessel. And then things happen – these people leave us, or don’t love us, or don’t get us, or we don’t get them, and we lose and fail and hurt one another. And the vessel starts to crack in places. And I mean, yeah once the vessel cracks open, the end becomes inevitable. Once it starts to rain inside the Osprey, it will never be remodeled. But there is all this time between when the cracks start to open up and when we finally fall apart. And its only that time that we see one another, because we see out of ourselves through our cracks and into others through theirs. When did we see each other face to face? Not until you saw into my cracks and I saw into yours. Before that we were just looking at ideas of each other, like looking at your window shade, but never seeing inside. But once the vessel cracks, the light can get in. The light can get out.”
John Green, Paper Towns

“People like to say love is unconditional, but it’s not, and even if it was unconditional, it’s still never free. There’s always an expectation attached. They always want something in return. Like they want you to be happy or whatever and that makes you automatically responsible for their happiness because they won’t be happy unless you are … I just don’t want that responsibility.”
Katja Millay, The Sea of Tranquility

“For there to be betrayal, there would have to have been trust first.”
Suzanne Collins, The Hunger Games

“Even though you may want to move forward in your life, you may have one foot on the brakes. In order to be free, we must learn how to let go. Release the hurt. Release the fear. Refuse to entertain your old pain. The energy it takes to hang onto the past is holding you back from a new life. What is it you would let go of today?”
Mary Manin Morrissey Dairy Queen

“When you don’t talk, there’s a lot of stuff that ends up not getting said.”
Catherine Gilbert Murdock, Venus in Arms

“Usually adult males who are unable to make emotional connections with the women they choose to be intimate with are frozen in time, unable to allow themselves to love for fear that the loved one will abandon them. If the first woman they passionately loved, the mother, was not true to her bond of love, then how can they trust that their partner will be true to love. Often in their adult relationships these men act out again and again to test their partner’s love. While the rejected adolescent boy imagines that he can no longer receive his mother’s love because he is not worthy, as a grown man he may act out in ways that are unworthy and yet demand of the woman in his life that she offer him unconditional love. This testing does not heal the wound of the past, it merely reenacts it, for ultimately the woman will become weary of being tested and end the relationship, thus reenacting the abandonment. This drama confirms for many men that they cannot put their trust in love. They decide that it is better to put their faith in being powerful, in being dominant.”
bell hooks The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember

“To say that one waits a lifetime for his soulmate to come around is a paradox. People eventually get sick of waiting, take a chance on someone, and by the art of commitment become soulmates, which takes a lifetime to perfect.”
Criss Jami, Between the Tides

“Part of the problem with the word ‘disabilities’ is that it immediately suggests an inability to see or hear or walk or do other things that many of us take for granted. But what of people who can’t feel? Or talk about their feelings? Or manage their feelings in constructive ways? What of people who aren’t able to form close and strong relationships? And people who cannot find fulfillment in their lives, or those who have lost hope, who live in disappointment and bitterness and find in life no joy, no love? These, it seems to me, are the real disabilities.”
Fred Rogers, The Fall

“Cheating and lying aren’t struggles, they’re reasons to break up.”
Patti Callahan Henry, Along for the Ride

“Our wounds are often the openings into the best and most beautiful part of us.”
David Richo At First Sight

“I used to advertise my loyalty and I don’t believe there is a single person I loved that I didn’t eventually betray.”
Albert Camus, The Intern

“If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you’re allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind.”
Shannon L. Alder Poems from the Heart

“Relationships dont always make sense. Especially from the outside”
Sarah Dessen, Waiting for You

“Lots of things can be fixed. Things can be fixed. But many times, relationships between people cannot be fixed, because they should not be fixed. You’re aboard a ship setting sail, and the other person has joined the inland circus, or is boarding a different ship, and you just can’t be with each other anymore. Because you shouldn’t be.”
C. JoyBell C. Remember Me

“Every couple has ups and downs, every couple argues, and that’s the thing—you’re a couple, and couples can’t function without trust.”
Nicholas Sparks, The Cocktail Party

“Those sweet lips. My, oh my, I could kiss those lips all night long.
Jess C. Scott, Messages from the Masters: Tapping Into the Power of Love

“I may not always be with you
Marc Wambolt, Straight Up and Dirty

“Start the Quiz”

  • Question of

    How do you feel around them?

    • Great! I’m happy, but a little nervous. Butterflies, you know? But I feel like I’m on top of the world!
    • Normal?
  • Question of

    Why do you like them

    • Everything! Everything about them is great!
    • Little things. Like their smile, or their laugh. The way they light up a room when they walk in, and the way their eyes light up sometimes when they’re talking
    • I don’t know, if I even like them honestly
  • Question of

    What do your friends think about them?

    • They think we should date: D
    • Nothing. I don’t really talk about them
    • They think I should just go for it. I guess they’re sick of hearing about them all the time haha
  • Question of

    What kind of conversations do you guys have?

    • Lots of things. Our families, or our futures, and things like that
    • Basic stuff. How was your day, how’d you do on that test, etc
    • We don’t talk really because I get so nervous!
  • Question of

    If they introduced you to their boyfriend/girlfriend, how would you feel? What would you do?

    • I would probably die inside until I found a way to break them up
    • That would SUCK. But as long as they’re happy, I guess. I might be really sad/mad but I’d be polite
    • I don’t think it would kill me. I’d just move on
  • Question of

    What kind of interactions do you guys have?

    • We text
    • Awkward ones. I blush so freaking bad!
    • We smile and say hi when we see each other
  • Question of

    If they tried to kiss you, you’d:

    • Let them, and be really happy
    • Kiss them harder
  • Question of

    If they were telling you about something they went through (divorce, death, etc) you would

    • Try to change the subject. That’s too heavy
    • Cry for them because that’s TERRIBLE and I wish I had been there to help
    • Listen? Maybe try to share something similar so they don’t feel alone
  • Question of

    How do they treat you?

    • They’re sweet to me. They tease me sometimes, but not in a mean way.
    • They’re flirty, and so am I. We’re hot and cold though.
    • Nice I guess. They probably just think I’m a weirdo
  • Question of

    And finally, why did you take this quiz?

    • I guess I’m curious haha
    • Because I want someone to agree that we’re literally made for each other!
    • I’m bored and/or I’m trying to prove a point
  • Question of

    Are you a Christian?

    • Yes
    • No
    • I’m more spiritual than religious.
    • I don’t know where I am with religion.
  • Question of

    Are your parents together?

    • Yes
    • No, but they are working things out still.
    • No, I never see my Dad/Mom
    • No, but I see them both and they are nice to each other.
  • Question of

    Do you like the outdoors?

    • Yes
    • Indifferent
    • Heck no! Bugs are gross!
    • Not really
  • Question of

    Do you like to get your hands dirty?

    • Yes, I do a lot of house work, out side work, it is just something I do.
    • No, I am an indoor girl, I would rather die than get dirty!
    • Sometimes, I need to get asked to.
    • Would rather not.
  • Question of

    Are you clean?

    • Yes, I’m kind of a clean freak!
    • No, super messy!
    • I’m a hoarder!
    • Tidy, but not obsessive, like a clean house, but don’t freak at messes.
  • Question of

    Are you fake?

    • No, hate fake people.
    • No, I just change my personality with different people!
    • Yes :), but I will be real with you!
    • Sometimes, depends on the day!
  • Question of

    Do you like to exercise?

    • Yes, it makes me feel good!
    • No!
    • I do every once in a while.
    • Yes! I am a body builder!
  • Question of

    How ditsy are you?

    • I’m an erudition
    • I had to look up erudition. I am not that but intellectual, but not to much for my own good. I don’t go through life accepting everything told to me.
    • Whats ditsy mean?
    • Medium, I have fun, but I do study hard.
  • Question of

    What music do you like?

    • Everything and anything
    • Rap, only!
    • Metal
    • Classical
    • Country
    • Rock
    • Classic Rock
    • Opera
  • Question of

    Romantic guy or not?

    • Romantic
    • Not
    • I like romance, but not to much
    • He has to buy me everything!
  • Question of

    Dog or cat?

    • Dog
    • Cat
  • Question of

    How many kids do you want?

    • 0, hate kids!
    • 1-2
    • 2-4
    • 5-8, or more!!! I don’t want less than 5!
  • Question of

    Where do you want to raise a family?

    • Farm
    • Small city
    • Large city
    • I don’t care
  • Question of

    What do you expect, money wise, for yourself/family.

    • Stay at home mom
    • Both me and my husband will work
    • My husband will be home, I am going to be the main income
    • My/his parents will give us money!
  • Question of

    What is your favorite thing to do when your bored?

    • Watch a movie
    • Read
    • Play video games
    • Exercise
    • Watch TV
    • Crafts
    • Friends
    • Eat
  • Question of

    Colorado or Florida (summer vacation)

    • Colorado
    • Florida
  • Question of

    Travel around the world with you and maybe one other person or road trip with 3-5 of your friends?

    • World
    • Road Trip
  • Question of

    Scuba dive in warm crystal clear water or climb a mountain with a awe inspiring view at the top?

    • Seals
    • Mountain
  • Question of

    Is family important to you?

    • Yes, very much so!
    • No, my family is messed up.
    • Kinda, we aren’t really close
    • Yes, I try to spend every second with my family, we are close like the partridge family!
  • Question of

    Will you EVER contemplate a relationship with Evan Smeenge?

    • Yes
    • Probably
    • Probably not
    • No

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